I know we've all been obsessed with reading the stats on STI / STD and everyone is an expert thanks to WebMD and Google. I'm not fucking expert by any stretch of the imagination and paranoid as shit but based on the same data we all have access too.
DATY / BBBJ -
Low risk for the receiver
Low risk for the giver
- risk increases if open sores are present.. etc..
Condom slippage
Low risk for both parties
- risk increases in open sores are present
HPV transmission and all that other shit is straight skin to skin. So if you're seeing warts dig in and let your body develop immunity.
HIV / Hep C.. actually quite hard to get in man to woman intercourse. But who the fuck would risk it...?
BBFS
- you are fucked

. Forget knowing the girl is clean. There is just shit you can't see.
- risk is moderate to high. (I'd love to say high but many pathogens have a window of opportunity for which to fuck you over). So the stars actually have to be aligned for Hep A, B, C, HSV, etc.. Stars don't need to be aligned for HIV though..
I'm loaded up w/ online meds, test kits, and visit the clinic so fucking often you'd think I was an intern. I've had a few "accidents" with providers I've reviewed but to date ZERO incidences and believe me I've checked.
Anyway.. I'll step back to the sidelines.
Ooops.. I forgot to add..
LOW risk does not mean NO risk.
MTNY