Big Dicks in the Hobby: Accepted or Rejected?

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

hmmm...so your Pinocchio now?

Are you mocking my mini-pyramider?

[berkleigh]

This just made me smile!

I need more in my rotation please

[MasterBaiter1996]

Originally Posted by berkleigh

This just made me smile!

I need more in my rotation please

Berk please don't laugh when I remove my pants. I am a sensitive guy, and my feelings get hurt easily.

[Charlie Drake]

I get a good laugh when reading reviews and the reviewer takes up space talking about how big his member is. If I wanted to read about the size of someone's member then I'd join a different site I am somewhat taken aback at some of the ladies comments in this thread....not sure many guys get turned on by gals that brag about taking big ones, except maybe the truly well endowed (of which I'm convinced there are far fewer of those than claimed).

One of my favorite lines from a bathroom stall....I may only have 6", but it's a Pro model!

[cinderbella]

My honey is a big guy in all the right places and is very athletic. I must admit, it makes sex alot more fun and the positions we can do it in are infinite. He told me he has scared a few Asian women overseas. Aside from prowess, I have to pinch myself just thinking about him sometimes. Truly the most wonderful, fun and caring man I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. XXX Size isn't everything, it's the person attached to the package that matters to me.

[awl4knot]

Originally Posted by Charlie Drake

I get a good laugh when reading reviews and the reviewer takes up space talking about how big his member is. If I wanted to read about the size of someone's member then I'd join a different site I am somewhat taken aback at some of the ladies comments in this thread....not sure many guys get turned on by gals that brag about taking big ones, except maybe the truly well endowed (of which I'm convinced there are far fewer of those than claimed).

One of my favorite lines from a bathroom stall....I may only have 6", but it's a Pro model!

Charlie, I'm with you on this subject.

"If a lady could take another date the next morning after doing an overnight with me she deserves a medal".

This line said it all for me.Talk about braggadocio and blind conceit.

It reminds me of a memorable session with a petite but seasoned provider where things were going along tremendously and we had just adjusted our position so that I could plumb her a little bit deeper. When I asked her if she like me going deep, she stopped in mid-thrust, looked me in the eye, and literally spit out, "I hate big cocks - they bottom out too fast." We then finished what we started in a mutually satisfying fashion. And the next day both of us had sore abdomens and groins as the reward for our efforts. But it was a good soreness.

Since then I have had a number of ladies tell me how big cocks do nothing for them. Granted most of these ladies have been smaller, but not everyone I see is a sylph, so the sentiment is spread among ladies of all sizes.

[coachstl]

This whole subject caused some drama on a local board here in St. Louis. It's kind of a tight community (no pun intended) on that board and there are several providers who we call "5-stars" because of their level of verification, safety, BCD prowess, etc.

Occasionally a provider will write their own review of the client. It's really just done as something fun for paid members - there's never a negative review. I got one recently from Destiny Monroe, my ATF here (see my avatar).

Anyhoo...we had a provider post a review of a guy here named "bigstick." I totally agree with awl's post above that some guys are always throwing in "I was surprised she could take me" and stuff like that in their reviews. Since these reviews are for the average monger, who, as we all know, are mostly average in all senses (like me), who wants to read that? It definitely is about the bragging.

Anyway, a local, very young, provider posted a review of big stick where she went on and on and on about the size of his johnson. I made a smartass post about this, since I had her scheduled the next day, wondering if I'd be able to satisfy her. Well...that started a flurry of PM's to me by my fellow mongers, all saying "yes, she does like big guys" which made me a little uncomfortable about my date the next day, smartass or not.

The next day she canceled (didn't bother to call), which gave me more time to think. So the next morning she posts a SECOND monger review of another guy and how he also has a really big dick.

That afternoon she PM's me and says she'd like to make it up to me and meet the next day. I pretty much told her I'm passing, and here's why. Well she erupted - probably deservedly so - about how anybody would say that to me and how it would affect her business...ya da ya da.

I'm gonna chalk it up to her youth...but as tuscon has said....guys who are not "blessed" are a little sensitive about it, even if it's all in their minds. I've chosen not to see that provider because now all I can think of are those two reviews she posted. I'm comfortable about my average size...but come on...if you're a provider and you even SEEM to prefer that sort of guy and let it go public...it's gonna hurt business no matter how much you try to blow it off. Be careful what you say in public.

[gimme_that]

Way too much penis envy in this thread........


This definitely aint a black thing. lol

[coachstl]

The point is...watch what you say. I've got an ATF too....if I thought for a minute she was judging me because of dick size compared to some wangs she's gone down on, I'd drop her like a hot potato which would cost her thousands every year. The reality is....guys are competitive and guys who aren't "blessed" are sensitive about it. No provider telling them "it really doesn't matter" is gonna change that. If someone you're with even hints at it, it's over. Unless you've got a cuckold personality. Which I don't.

[awl4knot]

Originally Posted by gimme_that

Way too much penis envy in this thread........

This definitely aint a black thing. lol

Nah, just the opposite: Way too much penis waving in this thread.

Seems like awl the guys with the Big Guns got to trot them out so everyone knows who has them. And some even write manifestos about the care, feeding and maintenance of Big Cocks, like it is a topic of great concern.

But that was probably the purpose of the OP knowing how this topic brings them all to the fore.

[ElumEno]

The one thing that always gets a chuckle out of me is reading 'I tore that stuff up'.
After watching my first child being born I realized that there was nothing I could ever do to tear that stuff up.

As for the guys with the monster cocks...
I am sure there are a lot of girls that DON'T want to feel like they are giving birth every time they have sex.

Plus when it comes right down to it..
I have found that as long as you listen to a lady that is not afraid to tell you if you are doing something wrong or right,
it really does not matter what size you are. What good is having the tool if you do not know how to use it.

[Nicolet]

YES! Thank you ElamEno!

[gimme_that]

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Originally Posted by coachstl

The point is...watch what you say. I've got an ATF too....if I thought for a minute she was judging me because of dick size compared to some wangs she's gone down on, I'd drop her like a hot potato which would cost her thousands every year. The reality is....guys are competitive and guys who aren't "blessed" are sensitive about it. No provider telling them "it really doesn't matter" is gonna change that. If someone you're with even hints at it, it's over. Unless you've got a cuckold personality. Which I don't.

See this is that bullshit right here. You want a sense of OWNERSHIP on something your dont really own. So if a lady you like to see feels as if she wants to post on board about what she likes and her preferences....no matter what it is....you feel as if that makes you inferior. I mean I know this is fantasy....but often times especially when you continue to see the same ladies whether it be a.dinner date, prolonged pillowtalk or whatever........I kinda like when the females let loose and speak freely on what they like and what they dont like. It wont make me think negative of them unless it directly affectwd my session...which it wont.

So you guys ar basicaly telling the ladys you prefer a sausagefest on threads like these.....or you simply want them to cater their answers to your own individual insecurities. You want everything in fantasy mode with no realism. Thats just sad.

Thos sorta reminds me of a very popular provider in a city I once lived in who had very good reviews. She didnt post that she had a no black men policy.....but she would only agree to see them if they would not do a review. She basically said most of her white clients would not continue to see her and consider her "tainted" if she saw black men. So she would only do it on the downlow. Guess you cant bite the dick that feeds you huh.....

[ArisRose]

Originally Posted by gimme_that

So you guys ar basicaly telling the ladys you prefer a sausagefest on threads like these.....or you simply want them to cater their answers to your own individual insecurities. You want everything in fantasy mode with no realism. Thats just sad.

Ain't that some shit.

[ripiceman]

Why couldn't God have made me rich, instead of well hung.

Bumper sticker I saw once.