I have tried it, and would again if the situation was in front of me. There we're things that were a little tough, like the time I met her at her incall for lunch.
Things got hot, and clothes went flying, but when I stuck my finger inside her I found a rubber. Trust me when I say, thats a tough image to get out of your mind.
The thing that makes it possible for me is my attitude toward sex. It is a recreational activity, not some sacred bonding ritual to be selfishly guarded. There is a rumor flying around that some sick bastards use it to make children, but I don't think that's true.
To be sure, sex is a bonding act, but so is cooking dinner together. So is taking care of each other when one of us is sick. So is staying home all day with the phones off and watching movies. So is tag team wrestling.
If my SO was in the WWE I would not be jealous of her tag team partner. If she watched movies all day with someone else, I would not go into a jealous rage.
The things that ended it between us were other things. She could not (would not) get rid of her ex, who was constantly trying to cause trouble, both between us, and with the cops. She was ok with providing, but if I so much as got a blow job (in or out of the hobby) from someone else, it would be thrown into my face at the next disagreement, and in the end, it turned out she resented the fact that I didn't resent her job. Go figure.
I would have helped her in whatever field she chose, and asked her at the beginning of the relationship if there were other carrier goals she wanted to pursue, but she said that she was comfortable as a provider, so I dropped it. I was very surprised to find out that everything was my fault, because I was stupid and selfish for taking her at her word.
As I have said before, they are women, as confusing, as difficult, and as wonderful as any, in any profession.
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