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Originally Posted by anita germane
this really caught my eye...so basically..kiah is not your friend..she is just a hooker and when your money well dry's up..she will be on her merry lil way to someone else's well...hmmmmmm...or wait..i get it now.. she's your bottom girl... i understand why you wouldnt considar her your friend...
also.. i considar a few gents on here to be very good friends of mine.. and we havent gone bcd nor was there any types of donations given...we are friends very good friends at that...how you ask... they treat women with respect.. and understand..even though we are working girls..we are still human beings that feel..love..trust..and we can hurt..we cry..we bleed..we feel the loss
of a loved one just like a regular human being's do.....and those friends of mine see that and understand that and except that...
.thats probly why you feel you cannot be friends with a workin girl..you lack
respect for women in general...
I feel sad for you..more like pity..yea..pity...thats the word...you obviously had a very tramatic expirience when you were younger and you have never quite gotten over it...so you lash out..and you lash out at certain types of women...usually the stronger ladies...because they wont allow you to controle them....and you dont like that..you
want the upper hand...
as far as the lurkers are concerned..thank God in heaven for those lurkers...you see..they want to stay safe and not have their biz put out there..and thats just fine with me..ol school speaks volumes to some..and usually its the lurkers that totally
understand that phrase....not every man wants to put out the interactions of himself and the lady...and thats just fine with me....
I just have one more thing to say in this post....in regards to the gobc...
I hope they havent nominated you to speak for them... because if i were to judge them by you...wow...smh.....scary...
What we do to make money does not define us...it just enables us to survive in a world that can be cruel and harsh..and we do our best to get through every day..just like ya'll men do...
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I luv Nita.
Why do you do what you do Nita? You have no other options? You sent out your resume, and nobody called you back? You tried all legal channels before turning to a life of crime? ijs Wait a minute.....it's just for time, anything else is whatever a man and woman decide to do with all their "spare" time together.
"Prostitution is the business or practice of providing sexual services to another person in return for payment [1]. The person who receives payment for sexual services is called a prostitute or sex worker, and the person who receives such services is known by a multitude of terms."
1. "Prostitution Law & Legal Definition". US Legal. Retrieved 19 March 2013.
It's a way out, easy or not. Big money, no real requirement for an education, or people skills, just a knack for evading the law, and convincing the "client" that he is number "1" for an hour, when in reality, clients are most probably thought of as bottom feeders, and a paycheck.
All the aliases, the screening, the PA, the back-channel workings all lead to anonymity and security, the anonymity is just my point, we sift through the options, select and choose based on menu, attitude and age, pay the gatekeeper, and in the end we both get to go our separate ways with absolutely no emotion, drama (most cases), and an air in our step.
Perfect situation for all involved.
I'm sorry Nita you feel I need to "respect" and "idolize" the profession, and the women in it, but I don't. It has nothing to do with a childhood trauma, or misplaced rage.....simply put, it is a business transaction.
