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Reya Sunshine · 10-25-2011, 12:43 PM

I agree. Most guys don't want to wait a week to schedule with a provider because she is waiting on his references to reply to her. I reply to my ref requests within hours(sometimes minutes!).

Oh and for the record I was never affiliated with mint if that wasn't clear in my original posts on Still Lookings Alert. I found my pics and info on his RisqueBlackBook website about a year ago when I first joined Eccie as "Erotic Emily" and have no idea how he put it up there, I assumed he copied it from somewhere but since all the stats were correct at the time, the pix were of me and current at the time and it had MY email I just figured it was free advertising and not hurting me so I let it be. When I checked his site a couple months ago he had changed the format and there weren't as many girls listed and i was no longer on there- since I never got any clients that I know of from there I was fine with that.

Sometime during my first month advertising on Eccie as Erotic Emily he did call me for one or two ref checks and was very pleasant and chatty on the phone for a couple minutes. I gave him the refs by phone(I no longer give refs out over the phone for security reasons but at the time it was my first month and I didn't know any better) and that was that. Didn't hear from him again until maybe four-ish months ago when he emailed me on my new name and said he had sold mint and left the agency business altogether and definitely wasn't looking to recruit me to work for his agency but that he really liked my posting style on Eccie and complimented me a lot and told me was working on some "New project that I can't go into detail about yet" and that he wanted me to be involved but he couldn't specify how because he didn't know exactly what he had in mind for the project yet and he wanted me to come eat lunch with him and discuss it.

I replied politely to his email that I was flattered but that I was not impressed with his "new project" outline because it was far too vague and incoherent and that perhaps he should work on it a bit more and then get back to me and if I looked it over and thought it was worth discussing then I would meet him for lunch then. I never heard from him or about him again until I saw Still Looking's recent alert.

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Originally Posted by Sexy Roxanne

Ummm.... I am pretty sure she was well informed and is why the thread got started in the first place. Just sayin... Does it really take a week to get back to a reference request? I think not.

Maxeen Monroe · 10-25-2011, 01:21 PM

Just to be clear, I am very well informed. Like I said the version of events differ greatly. That doesn't make her version correct. Well thought out for sure.

She can justify/explain all she wants. It looks good on paper, my friend.

I still have not received the ref request. So ummmm, ok.

Don't mistake my niceness for wrongness. (perhaps my own word! Lol)

Reya Sunshine · 10-25-2011, 01:35 PM

LOL I think the phrase is "Don't mistake my kindness for weakness"...and it's a phrase I've had to use often as well.

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Originally Posted by Maxeen Monroe

Just to be clear, I am very well informed. Like I said the version of events differ greatly. That doesn't make her version correct. Well thought out for sure.

She can justify/explain all she wants. It looks good on paper, my friend.

I still have not received the ref request. So ummmm, ok.

Don't mistake my niceness for wrongness. (perhaps my own word! Lol)

Maxeen Monroe · 10-25-2011, 01:47 PM

Thank you, Reya. I like that saying but it was being implied I was wrong about my post so I felt "wrongness" applied better. Lol!

Anyone notice she just ran an ad and STILL has yet to reply to my ref request. After over a week of requesting it she can get on here and reply to the thread and defend herself, run ads and still NOT respond.

That's ok, I'm seeing him anyways.

missi hart · 10-25-2011, 01:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Maxeen Monroe

Just to be clear, I am very well informed. Like I said the version of events differ greatly. That doesn't make her version correct. Well thought out for sure.

She can justify/explain all she wants. It looks good on paper, my friend.

I still have not received the ref request. So ummmm, ok.

this just goes to show that despite maci lynn's loquacious response in this thread, actions speak louder than words.

harkontume · 10-25-2011, 02:53 PM

loquacious: I like that word. I shall use it in a sentence.

Despite continual exposure to Maxeen's loquacious tatas in her avatar I still haven't contacted her due to my lack of loquacious cranial capacity!

harkontume · 10-25-2011, 03:12 PM

LOL

my definition of the word may not be normal or in the dictionary. I looked at loquacious as being " a lot of"

Just a stupid Teddy Bear kind of Joke.

Hug the bear don't be mad it!!

Reya Sunshine · 10-25-2011, 03:46 PM

You are so silly! That bear does look cuddly.

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Originally Posted by harkontume

LOL

my definition of the word may not be normal or in the dictionary. I looked at loquacious as being " a lot of"

Just a stupid Teddy Bear kind of Joke.

Hug the bear don't be mad it!!

Ms Francisca · 10-25-2011, 05:47 PM

I have to admit there have been times when a lady emailed or PM for a reference & it had been 2 months before I read it.
I am not always active in the hobby. When I am active, I do my best to respond to reference requests.
I tend to recommend several ladies to the gents I see and suggest they tell the ladies I recommended him. Makes the screening process a little easier for both parties.

harkontume · 10-25-2011, 07:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Reya Sunshine

You are so silly! That bear does look cuddly.

awwww... words fail me. I kinda like that!

Whispers · 10-26-2011, 02:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Maxeen Monroe

Anyone notice she just ran an ad and STILL has yet to reply to my ref request. After over a week of requesting it she can get on here and reply to the thread and defend herself, run ads and still NOT respond.

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Originally Posted by Maci Lynn

I ultimately called to ask him which lady he wanted to see since I recieved more than one request for him. My window to get on and send out refrences and to be active on the board is very limited, so I wanted to minimize the time of getting on the board. I also even asked him to send the lady of his choice my provider number so she could text me. We then got off topic and the conversation went a different direction.

I believe she asked the client to clarify WHICH of several providers that asked for the reference he would like her to respond to as she did not have time to respond to them all. Seems reasonable.

If he had already dealt with things with you, perhaps he opted for the reference to go to someone else.

Seems reasonable.... Then again we won't ever really know.....

Some of you ladies are getting so catty lately.....

Maxeen Monroe · 10-26-2011, 08:35 AM

Oh please. If you're calling me catty you're barking up the wrong tree.

I enjoy women and enjoy this playground. I just don't play nice with such desperate and cock blocking techniques.

You're one to talk, having spent most of your time discussing and spreading rumors that may have or may not have been true. Whatever.

The situation I addressed has come straight from the client that was unhappy with how he was feeling pressured and controlled. Period. So I addressed it.

I've made my point. She knew I was the one requesting the ref AND I continued to request it. He and I were scheduled to meet. So. . . .If she wants to continue cock blocking me she can ALL she fucking wants but I will never refer anyone to her. Nor will I ever be interested in meeting her or playing with her. And before you step and say "maybe she doesn't want to meet you blah blah blah" yes, she has asked before to get help and meet.

harkontume · 10-26-2011, 09:33 AM

Who wants to see the new boobs?

Raise you hands!

sixxbach · 10-26-2011, 05:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Maxeen Monroe

Oh please. If you're calling me catty you're barking up the wrong tree.

I enjoy women and enjoy this playground. I just don't play nice with such desperate and cock blocking techniques.

You're one to talk, having spent most of your time discussing and spreading rumors that may have or may not have been true. Whatever.

The situation I addressed has come straight from the client that was unhappy with how he was feeling pressured and controlled. Period. So I addressed it.

I've made my point. She knew I was the one requesting the ref AND I continued to request it. He and I were scheduled to meet. So. . . .If she wants to continue cock blocking me she can ALL she fucking wants but I will never refer anyone to her. Nor will I ever be interested in meeting her or playing with her. And before you step and say "maybe she doesn't want to meet you blah blah blah" yes, she has asked before to get help and meet.

You have made your point and apparently made your money by seeing this guy. Why so much anger in your posts? The members have seen your accusation and response by Maci. Let the members vote with their wallets......

sixx

Reya Sunshine · 10-26-2011, 05:56 PM

Why are you so seemingly desperate to point out something(her alleged anger) that you think should be obvious and then in the same post tell her she should just drop it without giving any update as to the progress(or lack thereof) on the ref request?

Do you think the male members of this board need you to decide for them what a certain provider is feeling when she posts? Have you got some other prudent info that the rest of the members here haven't been made aware of RE: the topic at hand? Just curious and eager to learn what you might have to share with the rest of the class.

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Originally Posted by sixxbach

You have made your point and apparently made your money by seeing this guy. Why so much anger in your posts? The members have seen your accusation and response by Maci. Let the members vote with their wallets......

sixx