Have you ever been in love with a provider? tell us your story?

[Sweet N Little]

Originally Posted by FlectiNonFrangi

The bird must always be free, and my door is wide open, and she knows that. So I just let things play out as they will.

That's probably a smart decision .let me save you some trouble --your older, she's a smokin hot young thing -not gonna worm-the end

[SelenaAries]

Originally Posted by whitechocolate

I should add that your communications need to be totally open and honest with no secrets for both. When a stable provider finds a man whom she can totally trust and depend on, she will jump at the opportunity for a long term relationship. You just need to have the right personality to deal with her providing. Just make sure she is relatively stable and grounded.

I have to say, although the census seems to be :"dont fall in love with a provider, bad idea, chances one in a million" am gonna have to go ahead and disagree. WC, you breach on my point a little bit here but allow me to elaborate. It appears that most of the guys on here who fell in love with a wl picked the ones that are not, as WC states "relatively stable and grounded". And believe it or not, it is HARD to find such providers considering the very nature of the job. However, a provider who has got her shit together need only sit back, pick & choose of the many clients who have fallen in love with her (inevitable), and decide which one would improve her life just like any other normal girl would. And when I say life improvement, I do not mean in the financial sense only (although this will forever remain a factor) but also for companionship, emotional support & just all the good things that come from having a genuine relationship with one you truly love.
Just my .02

[Ginger Doll]

I guess I need to add...that falling in love with a provider isn't necessarily a bad thing, as long as she reciprocates your feelings. That's the key...

Some guys will convince themselves this is the case when it simply isn't... The provider showing up for an appointment isn't proof of her "feelings." It's business.

One just needs to be able to differentiate between love & business...that seems to be a very difficult feat for some.

[Sweet N Little]

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

I guess I need to add...that falling in love with a provider isn't necessarily a bad thing, as long as she reciprocates your feelings. That's the key...

Some guys will convince themselves this is the case when it simply isn't... The provider showing up for an appointment isn't proof of her "feelings." It's business.

One just needs to be able to differentiate between love & business...that seems to be a very difficult feat for some.

Damn you are hot!! What was the question???"

[Fastcars1966]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Totally. I can see that. I found that all the guys that fell for me saw me during multi-hour / multi-day engagements. There's no way they can hang around that long and not fall in love... lol. Must be a strong or gay man to be able to do that and not catch feelings hehe.

I love you Naomi and we have never even met. so I quess the answer is yes.

[Still Looking]

And they call me "CREEPY!"

[Pink Floyd]

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

That's probably a smart decision .let me save you some trouble --your older, she's a smokin hot young thing -not gonna worm-the end

Not actively working on it anywayI am what is known as a three time loser, you know 3 strikes and your out. I could be the next Larry King - where are my suspenders?

[Sweet N Little]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

And they call me "CREEPY!"

Lol!! Your my creepy though

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

Lol!! Your my creepy though

Call me creepy... call me anything you want, but never call me late to get a taste of that.... ever notice how hot gals in RED dresses makes you loose track of what your thinking

[jughead1171]

Originally Posted by SelenaAries

I have to say, although the census seems to be :"dont fall in love with a provider, bad idea, chances one in a million" am gonna have to go ahead and disagree. WC, you breach on my point a little bit here but allow me to elaborate. It appears that most of the guys on here who fell in love with a wl picked the ones that are not, as WC states "relatively stable and grounded". And believe it or not, it is HARD to find such providers considering the very nature of the job. However, a provider who has got her shit together need only sit back, pick & choose of the many clients who have fallen in love with her (inevitable), and decide which one would improve her life just like any other normal girl would. And when I say life improvement, I do not mean in the financial sense only (although this will forever remain a factor) but also for companionship, emotional support & just all the good things that come from having a genuine relationship with one you truly love.
Just my .02

I don't look or expect a love relationship beyond that of the fantasy of the hour you are together but I do think if you see each other on a regular basis a friendship or bond of sorts could develop as you get to know each other better. I think that is only natural due to the sexual nature of the relationship.

Could I fall in love with a provider? Absolutely, but I wouldn't rush into anything by any means and a lot of trust would have to be built on both sides for it to work. To me even if the chance is 1 in a million is worth the risk to find your soul mate.

[Pink Floyd]

A girl that knows what she is doing can turn a guy inside out, but they also run the risk of encountering a psycho stalker. It is a fine line that a girl walks. The girl I was with Tuesday is a master of this. For the time together she makes you are the only man in the world, but when she leaves you know there are other men in the world, and you just look forward to your next time with her.

[Shayla]

There's more to a relationship than just sex so I have to disagree with those that think it can't work or it's a slim chance. I think it would take two strong, genuine characters for it to work. Honesty would be a huge part of it, also.
I've had numerous guys (pooners and non-pooners) that admit they had feelings for me - knowing what I do. It does happen. We're all human.

[Pink Floyd]

Originally Posted by Shayla

There's more to a relationship than just sex so I have to disagree with those that think it can't work or it's a slim chance. I think it would take two strong, genuine characters for it to work. Honesty would be a huge part of it, also.
I've had numerous guys (pooners and non-pooners) that admit they had feelings for me - knowing what I do. It does happen. We're all human.

Hell Baby, I just looked at your Showcase and I'm already in love. If the chemistry is right the mind is no longer in control. We spend way too much time ignoring our basic animal nature If we met in a social situation, and our eyes locked, and the mating ritual began, no amount of logic can turn off those feelings.

[Inlikeflynn]

I agree with Shayla. Too often we set roadblocks to what could be healthy, loving relationship by allowing where we met, how we met, what we do, etc to get in the way. It would be a shame if two people walked away from a loving relationship just because they met in the hobby. Divorce courts are full of couples who met in the rite place. All this said, there will be challenges that need to be faced and resolved but that's true of any and all relationships. Shayla, you are a very wise women for being so young. I hope I get the chance to meet you someday

[faz]

Haven't fallen for an escort but have been smitten with a few dancers.

Pretty sure they wrote this song for me: http://youtu.be/QjgZZGo881E