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Kendall4U · 03-06-2017, 01:16 PM

I am absolutely amazed at the bs some of you men fall for. I, for one, don't appreciate being lumped into the "all whore's can't be trusted" category. Most of us are very trustworthy. We have real world jobs, families, friends...we supplement our income here. I read the escapades described by the OP and mrredcat43....seems to me you wanted to be captain save a ho.
This girl didn't even have good game and she still schooled you. Rather than lump all whore's into her category, take responsibility for your part. She fed you a line and you swallowed it hook, line and sinker, several times. I would be embarrassed to admit that I allowed anyone, not just a whore, to take advantage of me like that. Just wow.

Smokin · 03-06-2017, 01:39 PM

Laurie Darling...

alaine · 03-06-2017, 02:58 PM

Thanks for taking your time to post the details. We can all learn something from this.

I just can't keep from asking you two gentlemen a question....

1.) What was so SPECIAL about this particular chic that took you to this degree of drama? Was it looks, personality, good BJ, tight VJ? WHAT was the hold she had on you? Please explain.

I certainly understand (first hand) that people that use (forbidden topic) can be very convincing, deceptive, manipulative, liars and thieves. It's been a hard lesson for me to learn, but you just can't help those that don't/won't help themselves.

Realizing that time is our most valuable asset...you wasted a lot of time that you will never get it back. Putting your "real world" life, relationships and personal safety in jeopardy should be a wake-up call. If you think about it, the money lost isn't the scariest part of this scenario.

KARMA is a Muther Fucker....

mrredcat43 · 03-06-2017, 03:49 PM

Kendall, you're right, I tried to play captain save a hoe, only because I saw the conditions of how a homeless person lives, I don't see that in the boonies. Doesn't excuse the fact that I got played. You live and learn.

Also, let me rephrase, MOST can't be trusted, I have met a few, mainly ones who work a RW job, and does this as a side gig.

After the weekend I had in retrieving my rental, I decided to disable my account for a few days in order to keep from doing anything rash as well as take a step back. I ALMOST GOT IN TOO DEEP.

Am I a better person after everything went down? You better believe it!

Bluesplyr · 03-06-2017, 03:52 PM

redcat,

your rental car bill must have been way over $5000. wowza, thats tough to keep hidden from the S.O.

thanks for the lesson and info though.

Blues

mrredcat43 · 03-06-2017, 04:06 PM

Blues, I still haven't got the final bill on all the damages.

GeminiGuy · 03-06-2017, 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by mrredcat43

Blues, I still haven't got the final bill on all the damages.

Did you get the "insurance" option when renting the car? Or, did you by chance pay with a credit card? I decline rental insurance through the rental company because both visa and mastercard include rental car insurance. Not trying to pry too much, just hoping someone can help figure out how to hedge your costs associated with car rental damages.

trexxxs · 03-06-2017, 04:25 PM

Mrredcat, did you ever report the car stolen while she had it?

~Ze~ · 03-06-2017, 04:34 PM

All i wanna know is - WHAT THE FUCK does "across state lines" really fucking mean...

So much low class shit from all sides..

Glad I had a cocktail before reading this drama lama...

corona · 03-06-2017, 04:39 PM

~Ze~ my read on state lines was between Texas and Lousiana, but I am just guessing.

TheEccie214 · 03-06-2017, 05:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Kendall4U

I am absolutely amazed at the bs some of you men fall for. I, for one, don't appreciate being lumped into the "all whore's can't be trusted" category. Most of us are very trustworthy. We have real world jobs, families, friends...we supplement our income here. I read the escapades described by the OP and mrredcat43....seems to me you wanted to be captain save a ho.
This girl didn't even have good game and she still schooled you. Rather than lump all whore's into her category, take responsibility for your part. She fed you a line and you swallowed it hook, line and sinker, several times. I would be embarrassed to admit that I allowed anyone, not just a whore, to take advantage of me like that. Just wow.

My apologies because I was the one that made that generalization and you certainly do not fall into that category. You know my real name, what I drive, etc and I have zero concern about that. I made that statement in haste when in fact there are easily 30 girls here that know quite a bit of personal information about me and I have no concerns. However, I don't see the 20 something gals, I prefer the 40 and 50 something crowd and I can't see any of them pulling any of these games. Maybe it's age, but seems to me seeing these youngens often leads to problems. Another difference not often pointed out is, at least in my mind, there's a difference between an escort and a hooker. An escort has class, many of these girls just seem to be street walkers with Internet access.

London-James · 03-06-2017, 07:39 PM

I come from a military background; an Army Brat till I was 18 and then I was a Navy Sailor. All I could envision in my mind was me standing up in my Navy Whites (it's almost Summer y'all) and throwing the Escort version of the "UCMJ" at everyone involved. I feel like I tripped and landed in Oz. What in the world?

Maybe I'm old-school for a mid-twenties person but this was all highly unprofessional on both sides. Yes, there will be times when a provider and a client really click. That initial relationship may evolve into a deeper friendship; however, there is a time and place where we have to draw the line.

At this point, there is some introspection that needs to occur. As Alaine said above, you need to consider what it was that kept you coming back. Did she appeal to your biological nature to protect and provide for a woman? Was it her personality (face palm)? Was it the apparent total package?

What does not need to happen is assuming all providers are the same. Understandably so, it is usually the negative stories that get the most play. I think this thread is evidence enough. However, there are a plethora of women here who either do this full time or for fun, who truly enjoy it and want an unblemished resume. I don't know who in the world would take an Escort resume but there are so many transferable skills (insert joke here lol). It truly is disheartening that the actions of one or a few impact all of us.

TryWeakly · 03-06-2017, 07:44 PM

That story is waaay worse than WolfTurd and BoneTakerBarbie. Sux man.

mrredcat43 · 03-06-2017, 08:16 PM

London James, you make some good points. I'm the type of guy who doesn't think chivalry is dead, as well as old fashioned in the sense where I want to be the provider for the woman. It wasn't personality, she has none.

My spider sense is more heightened to the signs now, and I won't lump all providers in the same pool. The ladies I see often got their own place, transportation, a full time rw job, and aren't complete nutcases

mrredcat43 · 03-06-2017, 08:55 PM

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Originally Posted by trexxxs

Mrredcat, did you ever report the car stolen while she had it?

Unfortunately, no, I did not. I was speaking to another provider where a gentleman got a rental for her a couple years ago, and one day she went to see her kid and he found out, he got angry, reported the car stolen, and she was on state vacation for 9 months. I think back to how many times that car was pulled over, with all those citations I found..........