MFM enjoyment. To what extent do you allow yourself to be UNINHIBITED?

[DEVIN0131968]

IT'S KIND OF INTERESTING HOW LONG THIS THREAD HAD BEEN RUNNING:

HERE ARE MY THOUGHTS WICKED MILF ON DEMONIZATION AND DEMORALIZATION:

I AM A DEMON IN MY OWN RIGHT.....

TO EACH HIS OWN FROM THE MALE PERSPECTIVE, I'M NOT INTO THE BISEXUAL

ASPECT BUT FOR THOSE MALES WHO ARE: GOOD FOR YOU...

I'M OF A DIFFERENT BREED BECAUSE I ENJOY HOT WHITE WOMEN WITH
BLACK STRAP ONS FUCKING EACH OTHER, BUT I DON'T WANT ANY STRAPS IN ME, I JUST DON'T ROLL LIKE THAT. PLUS I HAVE AN ORAL FIXATION AND ONLY PREFER WOMEN THAT DO SMOKE BECAUSE I HAVE A SMOKING FETISH AND LOVE TO WATCH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN SMOKE DURING SEX, IT'S HIGHLY EROTIC.

BUT, I DIGRESS.

I JUST LOVE AN EMULATION OF THE MFM EXPERIENCE IN A DIFFERENT FORMAT WITH 2 WOMEN AND IF ANYONE STEREOTYPES ME AS A FAGGOT OR A SOME WHAT CONFUSED BISEXUAL WITH A WEIRD ORAL FIXATION GO RIGHT AHEAD, CALL ME WHATEVER THE FUCK YOU WANT.

BECAUSE YOU KNOW WHAT?

I AM LIVING THE DREAM AND I LOVE IT AND COULD CARE LESS WHAT ANYBODY THOUGHT OF ME. PLUS I HAVE AN ASS LOAD OF BANKROLL TO FUND MY FANTASIES....

BE WHO YOU ARE AND YOU WILL FOREVER BE...

DEVIN

To see a wormhole in your eyes, Fall to earth
And plague my heavens black

With fear I kiss the burning darkness
Forever burn

Leave not only me
But for every thought I think

Forever Burn..........

[Guest101811-4]

You lost me when you left your Caps Lock on.

[DEVIN0131968]

CAPS ARE MY SIGNATURE, IF DON'T LIKE EM DON'T READ IT...

NOT TRYING TO BE A DICK EITHER, JUST HOW IT IS...

DEVIN

[Guest101811-4]

That's my point. I didn't read it.

Congrats on making my Ignore List. LOL

[DEVIN0131968]

CONGRATS ON MAKING MINE,.....

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by IDMT

You lost me when you left your Caps Lock on.

way off topic, but, after my post are you going to say "You lost me when you quit using the shift key"???

that's not much different than saying - i'm going to ignore you cos you wear loud colors. or i'm going to ignore you cos you drive a 10 yrs old car.

it is different than saying - i'm going to ignore you cos you are <insertRace, Sex, Creed, etc.>, which is a form of discrimination.

CAPS LOCK DOES NOT IMPLY SHOUTING.
imo, people that INFER that are showing their bias.
and when one has a bias, there is always a probability of missing useful info.

that's my opinion.

now back on track.
i've never let myself completely go when in a MFM encounter [letting go = engaging in intimate activities w/ the guy and letting him engage in intimate activities w/ me]. it just has never been something that tickled my fancy. but i can see where and why lots of folks enjoy that. and if they get off to it, more sexual power to them!

and if one does engage in intimate activities w/ a gu, that does not necessarily imply that the person is homo-sexual, maybe not even hard-core bi-sexual. it just means that they engaged in sex w/ someone of the same gender.

does eating tofu mean you are a vegetarian?
does going to a sports event mean you are a hard core fanatic of the team?
does writing a short story mean you are an accomplished writer?
if not, then why apply such a hard black/white line to sexual interactions????

if you enjoy it, enjoy it. and dont give people shit if they dont enjoy it.
if you dont enjoy it, dont do it.and dont give people shit if they do enjoy it.
it really is that simple - respect for diversity!

[FREAK1714]

I found the hard part is finding the other participants who truly want to find their limits. If you were to go to a provider maybe she is not into it then to find a friend who wants to go that route too. Then you are kind of messing with the whole dynamic of a friendship that might mess things up and past girlfriends have been judgmental about the subject that I never brought it up. This has long been something I have wanted to try.

My ideal session would be to start off with some drinks and a little 420 then put on some music and some porn and take the word “ no “ and put him outside and just let what happens happen.

I think getting to know the same sex party before hand would be helpful but not completely allowing him into your life. Kind of like a work friend that you never have over for dinner or talk about the wife and kids just football and guy shit.

So if you in Austin or San Antonio and want to give this a whirl. I'm willing to chat, exchange stats, and see what happens.

[Jack Bauer 24]

Had a MFM encounter a few months ago with a DFW providier who briefly advertised MFM sessions on eccie. It was a ton of fun. The only problem it's super difficult to locate a provider here in DFW that does MFM. There's one other couple that openly advertises it but due to their reviews.....no thanks. Anybody have any recommendations?

[bjameson33]

I've done this before, and it was amazing. A buddy who I served on active duty with, and his girlfriend (later wife). He was more interested in the bisexual aspect of it than I was, and would be down there as his lady was riding cowgirl on me. Licking my balls, running his tongue over my shaft and her pussy, occasionally pulling my cock out of her pussy to suck me, and then guide me back inside her.

She was not a fan of anal, so we never DP'd her that way, but he would slide his cock in her pussy right against mine, and the feeling of us both moving inside her was unbelievably hot. Primal.

Would love to do it again, but I agree that chemistry is paramount.

[Guest050911]

I do know someone, so ping me....

PPE

[Guest032516]

Originally Posted by DEVIN0131968

CAPS ARE MY SIGNATURE,

What does that mean exactly? You like to write as annoyingly as possible?

ALL CAPS makes reading something more difficult. So people are less likely to read it. Why would you do that?

A "Signature" is supposed to be something unique and (preferably) enjoyable. Using ALL CAPS is neither.

[Guest032516]

Originally Posted by pmdelites

CAPS LOCK DOES NOT IMPLY SHOUTING.

Oh, yes it does. Always and everywhere.

And that is a near universal opinion - not just mine. It is so obnoxious that some blogs/websites automatically delete such posts. Other have software that automatically converts to lower case. Can you think of any other situation where something analogous is done?

OK, probably auto-deleting posts with obscenities, but other than that?

Originally Posted by pmdelites

that's not much different than saying - i'm going to ignore you cos you wear loud colors. or i'm going to ignore you cos you drive a 10 yrs old car.

Actually, using ALL CAPS is nothing like those 2 examples. Wearing loud clothes or having an old car has nothing to do with your writing style or trying to persuade people.

But when you post, persuading people is the whole point. You are trying to get people to read what you wrote. So, make your writing attractive - or at least not annoying.

Originally Posted by pmdelites

it is different than saying - i'm going to ignore you cos you are <insertRace, Sex, Creed, etc.>, which is a form of discrimination.

OK, I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you meant to say "It IS different..."

But I have a sneaking suspicion you meant to say "It is NO different...", which would have been an absolutely awful argument.

[Mature Companion]

Thank you for your input. but your comments on demonizing & demoralizing. You took it so far off track, that what you mentioned, has nothing to do with this topic of MFM, or the extent of how far a man/men will allow themselves to be UNINHIBITED in a MFM experience.

Please feel free to start a thread topic on all that you mentioned. And let's talk about your Caps some other place please. Not here.
Thanks.


Now back to the MFM uninhibited experience.


Thanks to all who've responded in this thread and via PM and shared their experiences. It's beautiful thing when you can step outside your comfort zone with a trusted partner and explore and enjoy your wildest yet erotic fantasies.

Originally Posted by DEVIN0131968

IT'S KIND OF INTERESTING HOW LONG THIS THREAD HAD BEEN RUNNING:

HERE ARE MY THOUGHTS WICKED MILF ON DEMONIZATION AND DEMORALIZATION:

I AM A DEMON IN MY OWN RIGHT.....

TO EACH HIS OWN FROM THE MALE PERSPECTIVE, I'M NOT INTO THE BISEXUAL

ASPECT BUT FOR THOSE MALES WHO ARE: GOOD FOR YOU...

I'M OF A DIFFERENT BREED BECAUSE I ENJOY HOT WHITE WOMEN WITH
BLACK STRAP ONS FUCKING EACH OTHER, BUT I DON'T WANT ANY STRAPS IN ME, I JUST DON'T ROLL LIKE THAT. PLUS I HAVE AN ORAL FIXATION AND ONLY PREFER WOMEN THAT DO SMOKE BECAUSE I HAVE A SMOKING FETISH AND LOVE TO WATCH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN SMOKE DURING SEX, IT'S HIGHLY EROTIC.

BUT, I DIGRESS.

I JUST LOVE AN EMULATION OF THE MFM EXPERIENCE IN A DIFFERENT FORMAT WITH 2 WOMEN AND IF ANYONE STEREOTYPES ME AS A FAGGOT OR A SOME WHAT CONFUSED BISEXUAL WITH A WEIRD ORAL FIXATION GO RIGHT AHEAD, CALL ME WHATEVER THE FUCK YOU WANT.

BECAUSE YOU KNOW WHAT?

I AM LIVING THE DREAM AND I LOVE IT AND COULD CARE LESS WHAT ANYBODY THOUGHT OF ME. PLUS I HAVE AN ASS LOAD OF BANKROLL TO FUND MY FANTASIES....

BE WHO YOU ARE AND YOU WILL FOREVER BE...

DEVIN

To see a wormhole in your eyes, Fall to earth
And plague my heavens black

With fear I kiss the burning darkness
Forever burn

Leave not only me
But for every thought I think

Forever Burn..........

[Mature Companion]

You're absolutely correct. It's not easy at all, in finding the right partners for a MFM experience.

What I suggest is: find a lady who knows herself (first & foremost) and who is 100% uninhibited.
Then spend a date or two with her. Get to know her/share with her your fantasies and then talk about the *other* type of guy you'd like to join ya'll in a MFM.
And then allow her to find that person & meet with him and from there she will set up the 3sum date.

Yes, you can find them in a swingers situation or on any adult site.
But if your looking for safety/compatibility and keeping a low profile.
Then the hobby is the place to explore & enjoy it.
And whom better to find the right partner, than the companion.
She's the one who knows her men and how each with be compatible with the other in a MFM.
Not to mention, she also needs to make sure the *cocks* are in working order & pair then up to make sure that the 2 men she brings together for said MFM, that the overall fucking experience will be thoroughly enjoyed and both cocks put to work at the same time/same place and both equally able to reach a spot when bodies are in different positions.

So, yes. While it may be difficult to find the right partner. Trust that your companion will pair you up with someone you & she will enjoy!

And if your a man (speaking in general) that's BI and enjoys giving or receiving. Let your lady know. Let her know the type of cock you enjoy pleasing or being pleased by. As well as the type of guy.
A woman loves shopping.......and shopping for a cock, for another guy is a wonderful & exciting experience!

There's something beautifully sexy about a man who explores & enjoys beyond the norm!

Originally Posted by FREAK1714

I found the hard part is finding the other participants who truly want to find their limits. If you were to go to a provider maybe she is not into it then to find a friend who wants to go that route too. Then you are kind of messing with the whole dynamic of a friendship that might mess things up and past girlfriends have been judgmental about the subject that I never brought it up. This has long been something I have wanted to try.

My ideal session would be to start off with some drinks and a little 420 then put on some music and some porn and take the word “ no “ and put him outside and just let what happens happen.

I think getting to know the same sex party before hand would be helpful but not completely allowing him into your life. Kind of like a work friend that you never have over for dinner or talk about the wife and kids just football and guy shit.

So if you in Austin or San Antonio and want to give this a whirl. I'm willing to chat, exchange stats, and see what happens.

[Chislaine]

Originally Posted by IDMT

You lost me when you left your Caps Lock on.

Well this part lost me
"BECAUSE I ENJOY HOT WHITE WOMEN...."
I guess that leaves out women of color who like to go bi.