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Sweet N Little · 07-09-2011, 11:36 AM

Ive only been asked for a face picture maybe 3xs in my year of doing this so its never been a issue or problem for me, I don't post mine as its not worth someone stumbling across my pic as I have lots of family/friends/past coworkers here (my community) that I don't care to know my business.
Now when that "wife" stalked me on the board I was glad as hell I didn't have my picture posted

(this was due to a guy I never met but had emailed and pm'd)

vixxenkitn · 07-09-2011, 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

Ive only been asked for a face picture maybe 3xs in my year of doing this so its never been a issue or problem for me, I don't post mine as its not worth someone stumbling across my pic as I have lots of family/friends/past coworkers here that I don't care to know my business.
Now when that "wife" stalked me on the board I was glad as hell I didn't have my picture posted

(this was due to a guy I never met but had emailed and pm'd)

Indeed, very true. With all those facial recognition software issues out there, it's a bit scary how stalkers can profile and find you. To me, it's not a risk I'm willing to take. On another note, I've heard from many ladies that hotel management has come to their room with a copy of their Eros Ad stating "please leave we don't want your kind here." I don't want to walk into a hotel and be "Miss Vixxen" from the Internet. Also, when dining with gentlemen friends, I also wouldn't want them to be embarrassed that the men at the table next to them know who he's with. Just my 2 cents.

samantha thom · 07-09-2011, 11:13 PM

UOTE=Thatdude;1454597]ST blame your fellow providers. Think about the countless bait and switch situations that goes reported and those that don't. So if a guy is requesting a face pic, chances are that is why. I dont require a face pic because before i see someone I make sure i am comfortable with their demeanor via phone,pms, emails etc. As chica said, you can say no and move on. Not all money is good for you

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Those are not 'fellow providers'. As a matter of fact, they're not providers at all. They're called scam artists, or robbers. I have a lot of reviews that say I'm legit, nothing negative. It's the guy's decision to go ahead and meet someone with no reviews or they don't do their homework.

Introuble · 07-10-2011, 07:13 AM

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Originally Posted by samantha thom

My stomach churns if I think about someone I've never met before have my picture. He might cancel or NCNS and still have my picture. I would die if my friends, my job or my family finds out!

If it is THAT big a deal then you are in the wrong business. It is always a risk that everyone takes including the guys.

As far as the pic, I have a process that works for me.
1) If there is a pic posted and has no face it is probably fake. I assume there is something to hide. I know all you "pretty" girls think your shit doesn't stink, but it does MOST of the time so buyer must be AWARE of the risks.
2) If there is no face pic and I still want to see her, then the reviews better be awesome.
3) If there is no face and no reviews, then I have a perfect right to ASK for a face picture. Whether you provide that pic is up to you and whether I decide to see you without it is up to me.
4) The only recourse is two-fold at this point. You show up and if I do not like you, I send you on your way reminding you that you could have saved a bunch of grieve and time by sending me a pic, or you decide to not see her to begin with which is what I do. Or I guess you could bring some #2 grocery sacks just in case. You are not paying for our good looks, but we are paying for yours.

If it is a massage, then I will risk $100 on a "as is" basis of what you see is what you get. On the other hand, $200-$300 is another issue.

To me, if a provider does not understand the basic concept of we have a right to see what we are buying, along with the concept that you will loose business by denying some people that right - then again they should not be in the business.....shall we say "stupid"? I am assuming that those that have spoken up against the pics do not care about the money and THAT is OK too.

But to suggest that we are wrong in asking for a pic is to me suggesting that you are stupid and do not understand the dynamics of pay for play. It would also be equally stupid of ME to assume you HAVE to provide a face pic just because I asked.

Your decision. Without the face pic in the ad or before the appointment, I would probably not see you without GLOWING and STELLAR reviews to back up the No-Face risks usually associated with the the hobby. Leaving THEM standing at the door because they did not look like the pics etc would only be fair in cases like this. That includes pics from the neck down. Do you think we are so stupid we cannot tell those are not the tits and ass in the pics?

I think some providers have realized this issue as more and more advertise "its me or its free".

smoothnsilky · 07-10-2011, 08:12 AM

I just happened on this post today. I am really curious as to people forgetting that once you send that face pic you have no control over what happens to it. You are going to trust someone with that pic? No matter how nice, sweet, understanding, honest they may be if they want revenge at some point, don't get their way or their wife/girlfriend finds it (because most guys don't know how to clear shit off their computer, etc.) or some other unforeseen event occurs, that is theirs to do with what ever they want.

Honestly, I do not understand how anyone can post their face pics in this industry. Once it is on the internet, it is there forever. We are taking a risk not knowing what kind of person you are when you come to see us, then you can stand taking a risk of how pretty or ugly someone might be. I think that is more than fair.

SeverusSnape · 07-10-2011, 08:48 AM