Providers vs Strippers... A GFE discussion <== all those mistakenly looking for GFs here should read.

[sixxbach]

Originally Posted by Sensual Sophia

I am pretty certain that providers who regularly initiate contact with clients off the clock are those who don't have much of a social life outside the hobby.

That's not nice to speak of fellow providers. I know a few who might beg to differ. Different strokes for different folks right?

sixx

[Whispers]

unless they make the list in which case you should get a $500 rebate Due to the marketing you give them....

BTW.. In your sig line you should link the list....

[sixxbach]

Originally Posted by Whispers

unless they make the list in which case you should get a $500 rebate Due to the marketing you give them....

BTW.. In your sig line you should link the list....

I am going to go one step better than that! The UPDATED list will be making its coed debut very very soon!

sixx

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by sixxbach

I am going to go one step better than that! The UPDATED list will be making its coed debut very very soon!

sixx

some of the guys on that list might take offense to that!

[JT10]

Originally Posted by KaraLynnKelley

Kara is a companion and fantasy-fulfiller...not a hustler. It's not my intention to blur the lines of hobbyists/provider in a futile attempt gain something later. And I do believe that the strippers you are referring to are more hustlers than companions...and definitely not girlfriends. I think your true desire and fantasy is to simply be needed. Which is fine and I am happy your needs are being met. It really is a great thing that the P4P scene is a diverse one. Guess what the smiley face means!

*BTW, great thread!*

Though Kara may not be a "hustler" that is not an uncommon characteristic of pro-viders. There is a big difference in the two communication examples that you used. The OP I feel was referring to your first example. It does suprise me when pro's dont extend common courtesies such as thank yous or respond to e-mails. I will tip my hat to all of the ladies that have enough business not to have to bother with those things.
yes one of the better threads......

[austinkboy]

I just got a "Thank You" from my ATF and I am on cloud nine!

[Rand Al'Thor]

Somebody slap AKB and take him out to a strip club, STAT!

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Rand Al'Thor

Somebody slap AKB and take him out to a strip club, STAT!

I've been trying Thor... I've been trying.....

but the boy is pretty far gone....

I had him out in the clubs while his "favorite" was pulling an off the books free gangbang with a Eastern European basketball team visiting for a demonstration tour over the valentines break....

and I thought he was starting to see the light......

But I let him out of my site a bit and the last I saw he was walking out of Sugars when a white panel van pulled up and 4 women with hoods jumped out and drug him into the back of it with them and screeched off.....

I have something planned for him though for the next luncheon that should help with the situation

[eglrdr]

Originally Posted by austinkboy

I just got a "Thank You" from my ATF and I am on cloud nine!

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=172484

Originally Posted by Rand Al'Thor

Somebody slap AKB and take him out to a strip club, STAT!

[austinkboy]

uhh... you miss my point. what was my point? oh yes, it is nice to get attention, whether from stripper or from an indy provider when done at the right moment.

[Damon Bradley]

Originally Posted by Sensual Sophia

I am pretty certain that providers who regularly initiate contact with clients off the clock are those who don't have much of a social life outside the hobby.

That's a pretty broad statement Sophia. I feel that you should rephrase that to read "some providers". Not all.

I have spent time with a few providers, off the clock, socially and intimately, and I can assure you, they have very full, busy, productive lives outside of the hobby, including an active social life,with good friends in the civie world.

I'm not being mean, but your statement seems unintentionally a bit insulting.


Just my "point zero two". Carry on....

[Guest031411-2]

they have very full, busy, productive lives outside of the hobby, including an active social life,with good friends in the civie world.

And that is a very important point whether strippers or providers is a good balance and civie world interaction to keep them grounded. If your circle is nothing but providers then they tend to be the ones that cruise the boards at all hours or up all night sleeping all day, and that is not a healthy way to approach the industry. I'd bet its a fairly safe assumption that most hobbyists have a social life that balances their work demands and keeps them fresh and sharp for their work world. This industry can be a black hole that sucks the energy and life out of both sides, I know I always feel refreshed and better after a few days of not posting or participating.

[Yssup Rider]

Originally Posted by sixxbach

I am going to go one step better than that! The UPDATED list will be making its coed debut very very soon!

sixx

I DO hope you're talking about YOUR top 10 list and nothing that may or may not include BCD info...

Then again, your top 10 BBBJ list may include some guys who might be offended!

[Guest041811-2]

Originally Posted by kittyloveratx

And that is a very important point whether strippers or providers is a good balance and civie world interaction to keep them grounded. If your circle is nothing but providers then they tend to be the ones that cruise the boards at all hours or up all night sleeping all day, and that is not a healthy way to approach the industry. I'd bet its a fairly safe assumption that most hobbyists have a social life that balances their work demands and keeps them fresh and sharp for their work world. This industry can be a black hole that sucks the energy and life out of both sides, I know I always feel refreshed and better after a few days of not posting or participating.

That was a very nice post, KittyLover.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by austinkboy

uhh... you miss my point. what was my point? oh yes, it is nice to get attention, whether from stripper or from an indy provider when done at the right moment.

I'm not sure if it will be the right moment Kboy but you will get some attention soon!