Girls Advertising BBFS

[Grace Preston]

That's essentially what I said BLM. Stats don't mean much... no matter what the stats say-- it would suck ass to be one of the few...

One also isn't required to leave the hobby because they don't partake in BBFS.

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by Grace Preston

That's essentially what I said BLM. Stats don't mean much... no matter what the stats say-- it would suck ass to be one of the few...

One also isn't required to leave the hobby because they don't partake in BBFS.

The leaving the hobby part was for the scared guys that worry too much.

[Guest121018]

Originally Posted by milfy2002

I prefer the term fun-sized.

Besides, round is a shape!

Ooooops, got yourself the ban Hammer by being too rude on the board.

ROTFLMFAO @ $500/handjobs. Will that be bare palm hand jobs or will the ladies be wearing latex gloves?

I'm trying not to be rude but Gross.. I wouldn't have a session if you were paying me..

Second, I wish you knew how many pre-op time outs I do and announce to the operating staff that the patient is a male, born 1973, getting A XYZ procedure, no known allergies, creatine level is 1, AND the patient is HIV POSITIVE.

[milfy2002]

Originally Posted by DrBWC

I'm trying not to be rude but Gross.. I wouldn't have a session if you were paying me..

Second, I wish you knew how many pre-op time outs I do and announce to the operating staff that the patient is a male, born 1973, getting A XYZ procedure, no known allergies, creatine level is 1, AND the patient is HIV POSITIVE.

I didn't realize you were a real doctor, this whole time I thought you just played one on eccie.

It's okay, you don't have to fuck me, that's the beauty of the hobby! No one has to play with anyone they don't want to.

I wonder how many of your favorite ladies are barebacking on the down low in order to keep their CFS clients from leaving them.

[Grace Preston]

Originally Posted by milfy2002

I wonder how many of your favorite ladies are barebacking on the down low in order to keep their CFS clients from leaving them.

Yeah-- see, I've very much become live and let live with those of you who wish to advertise BBFS-- but this right here? This is a bunch of bullshit.

I've never had to BBFS in order to keep a client. If a client decides that he must have it, then he ceases to be my client. I've lost a couple of regulars over it-- but ultimately it is no big loss. If a gentleman cannot respect "my body, my rules", then he is no longer a gentleman in my eyes.

If a lady "has" to BBFS to keep a client.. then her issues run way deeper than a condom.

[parasitius]

Originally Posted by Grace Preston

Yeah-- see, I've very much become live and let live with those of you who wish to advertise BBFS-- but this right here? This is a bunch of bullshit.

I've never had to BBFS in order to keep a client. If a client decides that he must have it, then he ceases to be my client. I've lost a couple of regulars over it-- but ultimately it is no big loss. If a gentleman cannot respect "my body, my rules", then he is no longer a gentleman in my eyes.

If a lady "has" to BBFS to keep a client.. then her issues run way deeper than a condom.

LOL you read it too fast... it didn't say what you assumed it did

[Grace Preston]

Originally Posted by parasitius

LOL you read it too fast... it didn't say what you assumed it did

No.. that particular line said what I thought it did. She may have directed it towards the ladies that DrBWC sees-- but its something I've seen more than once-- including ladies messaging me about situations along this vein.

Point blank-- if you want providers to respect your choices, you've gotta have respect for theirs as well.

Was it directed towards ladies who BBFS to keep clients-- not directly, but yes. Most ladies who are primarily CFS-- end up caving to pressure to keep a regular.

[TheOracle]

Originally Posted by Grace Preston

Yeah-- see, I've very much become live and let live with those of you who wish to advertise BBFS-- but this right here? This is a bunch of bullshit.

I've never had to BBFS in order to keep a client. If a client decides that he must have it, then he ceases to be my client. I've lost a couple of regulars over it-- but ultimately it is no big loss. If a gentleman cannot respect "my body, my rules", then he is no longer a gentleman in my eyes.

If a lady "has" to BBFS to keep a client.. then her issues run way deeper than a condom.

Yeah, I think you misinterpreted. I believe she was alluding to girls who do it on the down low so that clients who might view them as unsafe will still see them.

Hence, why she referred to them as "CFS clients".

[rcinokc]

Originally Posted by TheOracle

Yeah, I think you misinterpreted. I believe she was alluding to girls who do it on the down low so that clients who might view them as unsafe will still see them.

Hence, why she referred to them as "CFS clients".

That's how I read it.

[Crock]

Originally Posted by Grace Preston

No.. that particular line said what I thought it did. She may have directed it towards the ladies that DrBWC sees-- but its something I've seen more than once-- including ladies messaging me about situations along this vein.

Point blank-- if you want providers to respect your choices, you've gotta have respect for theirs as well.

Was it directed towards ladies who BBFS to keep clients-- not directly, but yes. Most ladies who are primarily CFS-- end up caving to pressure to keep a regular.

That is exactly the opposite of what she said. Re-read her post.

[Grace Preston]

Fair enough-- I did misread. Apologies.

[milfy2002]

Originally Posted by TheOracle

Yeah, I think you misinterpreted. I believe she was alluding to girls who do it on the down low so that clients who might view them as unsafe will still see them.

Hence, why she referred to them as "CFS clients".

This is how I meant it...I didn't mean that any lady should cave.

HER BODY, HER RULES!

Oh hell-no on that caving shit. I've tried it, makes the hobby unbearable. I put Greek on my menu due to pressure from hobbyists, ended up taking it off because not only do I not enjoy it but it actually puts me out of commission for days. Same with that deep throat shit... Someone forced it on me a few months ago and I literally had no voice for 3 weeks.

NOT ALL MONEY IS GOOD MONEY. A lady should only do what she's comfortable with and what works for her and her body. I just happen to be comfortable with BBFS. It works for me, I love the feeling and intimacy and I have less down days as opposed to using condoms for every visit because even my favorite brand can sometimes irritate my kitty-kitty from just one CFS session.

[GiovaniDosSantos]

How many of you guys/gals really believe a provider when she says she has never bbfs a client before lol?

[!!Sexy Erotic Morgan]

I'm sorry to bring this back up because I'm sure many of the 8000 people that read this understood what I was saying but the 100 people that responded did not at all.

This post was not about BBFS. I've been around long enough to know It's part of the biz. However, it has been our choice when and with whom we want to do this with. It is not something that guys feel entitled to.

When one or two girls start advertising BBFS it takes away from our ability to choose because now guys do feel entitled. A lot of guys think that we all do the same things and if one girl is advertising that, we all do.

It's not as simple as I don't like her ad or I think everyone should do things my way. I'm sorry for saying anything rude about Milfy. I wish her no ill will. Ze I'm sorry you don't know me at all but don't like me because of a really stupid thing I said 5 years ago. I've grown considerably as a person since then. If you look back at my past posts, it's clear that I support our community as a whole. I don't dislike any provider.

My intention was not to state my own opinion because who cares? My intention was to bring an issue to everyone's attention that effects all of the providers here. Guys are already calling us all asking for BBFS and girls advertising it adds to their thought that this is ok. I can imagine it becoming like BBBJ in the near future and I don't want that to happen. I am concerned about the safety of providers and clients. This becoming the norm is bad for all of us.

Everyone, male and female, please just think twice. Be selective about who you do this with. There is no such thing as "looking clean". Anyone that is bored and wants to make their day more fun should go get tested for STDs. There are some interesting people in the planned parenthood waiting room. You may even make a friend!

[Tiny]

Any provider who regularly does BBFS has herpes and HPV. She also has chlamydia and other STD's from time to time, until she's treated or they clear on their own. The same goes for the majority of hobbyists who regularly have bareback sex with providers. This isn't speculation, just look at the incidence of these STD's in the general population and transmission rates.

If they just fucked each other and no one else, then no one should care. The taxpayer has to foot the bill for treatment for HIV, cervical cancer, and hepatitis C, among other diseases, through Obamacare, Medicaid and Medicare. But that's a drop in the bucket compared to what smoking related diseases cost.

The problem is that they don't just stick to fucking each other. The guy fucks his wife or a girlfriend. Diseases are spread. Marriages and relationships are destroyed.

Yeah, you can make the argument, "Don't give me shit because it's my body and my partner's body, and nobody else's business." Well, maybe you should feel comfortable randomly shooting a few hundred rounds from your AK-47 around the neighborhood every day. One might fall to the ground or ricochet and kill you, but that's a risk you're willing to take. It's not exactly fair to the neighbors though.