This might be a big mistake...

[WTF]

Originally Posted by Rudyard K

. But only a fool would think that such conclusion was the only conclusion possible. .

Originally Posted by Rudyard K

. . And if I really wanted to know, I'd ask her.

That would be the best advice our thread starter has been given. IMHO just ask the lady already! WTF do we know!

For the record, I'm more worried about her running a white flag up my pole than her sporting a Rebel Flag covering her tata's.


AveryMoore, I think you over thunk.

[Katy Alexander]

Hi Avery,if I was in your situation I would just talk to him , and let him know what is bothering you, and why.If he is understanding,and makes an effort to make you feel more comfortable then that would be a good sign that this is someone you may want to get to know better. After all even if you do not share the same views on the subject you are not planning on marrying the guy.Sometimes it can be fun to get to know people who have very different opinions from your own.You can learn a lot that way.

I hope all goes well.

[AveryMoore]

Originally Posted by WTF

AveryMoore, I think you over thunk.

I just thought it was an interesting topic. It's nothing I was losing sleep about. And clearly other people found it similarly stimulating or there would not have been so many replies. I might overthink a lot of things because I like thinking—so thanks for the compliment

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by Becky

Hi Avery,if I was in your situation I would just talk to him , and let him know what is bothering you, and why.If he is understanding,and makes an effort to make you feel more comfortable then that would be a good sign that this is someone you may want to get to know better. After all even if you do not share the same views on the subject you are not planning on marrying the guy.Sometimes it can be fun to get to know people who have very different opinions from your own.You can learn a lot that way.

I hope all goes well.

+1. You're just going to spend an hour with him and screw him. If he's a reviewer, you won't see him more than once because the boards don't give credit for more than one review done on the same provider. Most ladies can put up with an uncouth, smelly & crass hobbyist for an hour, or they wouldn't be in the business. I'm sure some clients make an hour seem longer than it is, while others make it seem shorter.

In the final analysis, you're trading your time for his money. The human animal can withstand an uncomfortable situation for a long period of time. And however much providers harp on hygiene being a #1 concern (tied, I think with $$$), I don't think I've ever seen a provider post that she will not see a guy arriving who is stinky. So, between hygiene and $$$, it appears money wins.

[nevergaveitathought]

Originally Posted by TexTushHog

So is your argument that a symbol only means what the person displaying it wants it to mean? So it would be OK in your book for a provider to wrap her self in a Nazi flag with a swastika on it? That would carry no anti-semitic or fascist connotation?

do you read or do you ask half questions to misstate things for the purpose of misleading of another?

i said that the flag means many things to many people so how could i be arguing that the flag only means what the displayer wants it to mean?

i said in a perfect world that everyone should be sensitive and be understanding, that includes the displayer (and this includes the decision whether or not to even display the rebel flag) and the displayed to. It would be great if we just never went off half cocked (ok sorry i know WTF is only half cocked, didnt mean to offend that subset of humanity).

My point was, she could have love of heritage as her meaning and in jest i said it could merely be an anti yankee statement.

[Ansley]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

I don't think I've ever seen a provider post that she will not see a guy arriving who is stinky. So, between hygiene and $$$, it appears money wins.

Well I'll be your first Charles. Knock on wood the situation has never come up.

[Guest083011]

Originally Posted by Ansley

I would like to take this opportunity to thank the northerners for bringing that Yankee money down here and making Atlanta a great city.

Hey Ans, if you ever come up north I'd be happy to share my money for you to take back down to Atlanta. And we'd have more than just coffee.

[Ansley]

Originally Posted by SR Only

Hey Ans, if you ever come up north I'd be happy to share my money for you to take back down to Atlanta. And we'd have more than just coffee.

Me head north for money? But I am so used to y'all bringing it down here.

[nevergaveitathought]

if ansley ever came to where i am, well i hear the cracking of ice.....the long frozen artic sea being disturbed....

[Guest083011]

Originally Posted by Ansley

Me head north for money? But I am so used to y'all bringing it down here.

I thought it was "damn Yankee" that moved down there. A *regular* Yankee stays up north (me).

If ya come up here, I'll take you to New Haven for REAL pizza (Pepe's!).

[atlcomedy]

Originally Posted by SR Only

I thought it was "damn Yankee" that moved down there. A *regular* Yankee stays up north (me).

If ya come up here, I'll take you to New Haven for REAL pizza (Pepe's!).

I don't think anyone has ever bragged about pizza in ATL (although you wouldn't believe how many "Yankees" have tried to import their "secret recipe" and make a go of it...

[Ansley]

Originally Posted by atlcomedy

I don't think anyone has ever bragged about pizza in ATL (although you wouldn't believe how many "Yankees" have tried to import their "secret recipe" and make a go of it...

I was wondering if southern recipes make it up north.

[Katy Alexander]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

+1. You're just going to spend an hour with him and screw him. If he's a reviewer, you won't see him more than once because the boards don't give credit for more than one review done on the same provider. Most ladies can put up with an uncouth, smelly & crass hobbyist for an hour, or they wouldn't be in the business. I'm sure some clients make an hour seem longer than it is, while others make it seem shorter.

.

This poor potential client of Averys. First we label him a racist, and now he stinks:rof lmao:.


For me there is a difference between seeing someone who has different beliefs from my own when it comes to politics, religion etc over seeing someone who may be smelly, and disrespectful.The first is easy because I find people with different beliefs, and backgrounds to be interesting, and fun to talk to .The second would be a definite deal breaker because I like what I do , and one too many smelly,rude clients could end up changing that

I agree that there are times when you do have to deal with less than perfect situations just as you have to do in any business, or job, and feel that many escorts do far too much complaining over situations that could have been avoided in the first place.

In Averys case I do respect her for the fact that she is attempting to avoid a possibly bad situation .I just hope that she talks to her client first, because I have a pretty strong feeling that this is not one of those stinky clients who needs to be avoided.

[WTF]

Originally Posted by AveryMoore

I just thought it was an interesting topic. It's nothing I was losing sleep about. And clearly other people found it similarly stimulating or there would not have been so many replies. I might overthink a lot of things because I like thinking—so thanks for the compliment

National Pride, Regional Pride, Racism and Fucking will always invoke a lively discussion. If nothing else, we've found you and TTH would make a lovely pair.

And your very welcome!

Originally Posted by nevergaveitathought

(ok sorry i know WTF is only half cocked, didnt mean to offend that subset of humanity).

.

It's half cocked doers in this world that get shit done. We make it where you two bit philosophers' can debate this crap!

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by WTF

If nothing else, we've found you and TTH would make a lovely pair.

And your very welcome!

Does this mean you've become the Board matchmaker???