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Oralist · 12-02-2012, 04:16 AM

Chemistry between Client and Provider certainly helps with the GFE thing.

For me, getting the Provider to "like" me goes a long way. Talk with them as a friend, compliment them on their looks and skills, pleasure them first.

It is known as "The Golden Rule". Treat them as you would like to be treated. Make them feel special and they will make you feel special.

Actually, this works in the Non Hobby world as well.

Sarunga · 12-02-2012, 04:53 AM

Very well said!

BDD · 12-02-2012, 08:36 AM

I have been pondering what to add to this thread, composing a post in my mind for a couple of days. Then Oralist puts up the perfect post. Well said Man! My hat is off to you. Well said...

TheAntichrist666 · 12-02-2012, 09:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Oralist

Chemistry between Client and Provider certainly helps with the GFE thing.

For me, getting the Provider to "like" me goes a long way. Talk with them as a friend, compliment them on their looks and skills, pleasure them first.

It is known as "The Golden Rule". Treat them as you would like to be treated. Make them feel special and they will make you feel special.

Actually, this works in the Non Hobby world as well.

I agree. Mutual respect is always important. + 1

Guest071514-1 · 12-02-2012, 09:07 PM

I have had great fucking sex and believe me I still got my roses. Even if a woman gets married, dating or whatever the man still pays! Yes, there are bills to pay, but I like to make love like its something great, and even special!!! Nasty or nice, if I have 20 orgasms I still have bills to pay and roses I will get either way! Just because you HAVE to pay, doesn't mean we HAVE to fake it with you!

coffeelover351 · 12-02-2012, 11:22 PM

I think if the chemistry is there, most providers treat you , at least like a date if not like a girlfriend. But it is true sometimes GFE ones just lay there like a dead fish.
And someone said about declining to see the client if they don't see chemistry - yeah right. They sure gladly decline away after the transaction - but never before.
I can understand the ladies can't be GFE to everyone ,and shouldn't advertise as such- but again, a washer -drier that costs $399.99 is advertised as "washer drier well under $400".