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Originally Posted by LovingKayla
You have ONE guy in the hobby that you fuck around with off the clock for free.
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Well, unless the guy happens to be DallasDoc and then some throw that ONE hobby husband bullshit out the window....
But seriously.
ONE?
Are we somehow enforcing monogamy on how people choose hobby spouses?
It really doesn't matter how many hobby husbands/fuck buddies a person who is in this hobby has as long as the communication is clear as to what is going on.
With the exception of one woman, every time I have been off the clock with someone who earns her living (or most of it) through providing, before going off the clock (OTC), it was expressly said.
Things like: "Your time is up but I don't want to go so from now on till I leave this is on me".
"I'm too tired to drive home, do you mind if I stay here with you till the morning? On me of course!"
In other words, the provider made it clear by her words and actions.
IF I invite someone to spend time OTC I make sure it is extremely clear that I am not going to be paying her for her company.
Lack of clear communication is the bane of this hobby.