should i allow a refund?

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

...If they say I only have blah blah ...just say, well maybe some other time, have a great evening!
Do not let others dictate your rates for your time sweetie, if they can't afford it they shouldn't be calling you!

Or, condensed version. Tell them they always have the option to stay home and fuck themselves for free.

[guest032413]

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Or, condensed version. Tell them they always have the option to stay home and fuck themselves for free.

Oh now I couldn't be rude to the poor guy....yea right
But see this guy didn't say that's all he had he just simply stated in his first messeg to me. That he wanted and hr of play time for this amount...
So baisically he said he was going to pay a hhr rate for a full hr.

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by Kandy Kelly

Oh now I couldn't be rude to the poor guy....yea right
But see this guy didn't say that's all he had he just simply stated in his first messeg to me. That he wanted and hr of play time for this amount...
So baisically he said he was going to pay a hhr rate for a full hr.

The escort industry isn't a great place for weak personalities. You have to have the ability to be assertive. Toughen up, stand up for yourself and learn to say NO.

All you're doing now is making excuses for guys that are shitting on you. You're giving them your permission to do it by publically justifying their behavior.

[Lisa Lowe]

I would give him half back for both.... I mean its an inconvience for both sides so i would comprimise

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by PJ1964

Did you or did you not say most of the men on here are from texas and they are sorry, or however you put it. In any regard, as it was explained to you earlier, dont paint all people with one broad storke. Check out post #25!!

I know you're in N.C. Stay there! If you dont like Texas or Texans...,.stay the hell out!! Dont need you anyway!


And why all the name calling? A person with the 'look down your nose at people' attitude you have are USUALLY known for presenting themselves in a much classier manner. Thats ok. Keep practicing....Im sure you'll get there........sometime......may be.


You may also want to look at the way you make comments. I believe at one point you said something about not feeling good. Hence CRANKY!!

Ive read some of your other posts. You seem high and mighty. It just stuck out to me. Maybe thats why I picked it/you out.

As far as not thinking highly of me....why waste your time dealing with me? Responding to what I write? Maybe cos the shoe friggin fits!!

Am I REALLY worth your time to respond? Or is it how YOU are percieved by others that's most important to you?

Also, forgotten by you and others LIKE you(not necessarily on this thread/site), I began the whole statement with the phrase "with all due respect".

That outta get a rise outta her!

I will edit this post and say that you're a bigger loser than I thought.
You really think I will take advice from a guy that cannot spell, cannot use proper punctuation and
has to get his validation from a hooker board? I feel very sorry for you. You complain and bitch on every post
and it's getting old. Me? Bitch? Ahh that's the beauty of it all. I have all perfect reviews with not ONE bad one here and on other sites. None complaining about my looks or attitude.. what does that tell you? lol. You have to meet a person before you start to call them such don'tchathink? You seem to have an extremely low IQ and I don't care for idiots and btw wth is so appealing about Texas when I can travel wherever I want? Trash. Please go fuck yourself.

XOXO
Naomi

Originally Posted by rrabbit6926

Glad your having a fantastic day Naomi. Mine was just dandy also. FYI you broke a cardinal rule. YOU DON"T MESS WITH TX!!!..

LOL.
I have friends in Texas so it would be a stretch to say ALL of them are like that. I said the majority of the guys I have encountered from Texas are assholes. Well -- I've been proven correct in this thread lol.

Hey what can I say, Boston (back bay) is beautiful. I have a flight to NJ in a few. Can't complain . OH BTW Remember it's London that's big on the no Texas thing. I'm just going there to see friends, fam and hopefully SL and monkmonk

Originally Posted by Shayla

She's not really the "cranky" type IMO, she's just firm on her tactics. I like that she's realistic and offers constructive criticism.

Anyway, it's better to learn and move forward from these type of scenario's than dwell on it.

Yup. As If I care if a loser like him will not see me - . And from reading his posts, he can't afford my new rates.
What do I care?

Originally Posted by anaximander

Are we talking aboot the same naomi?
Mz Prudence Doright? The provider with
a heart of scold?

Must be a different girl.

Provider with the heart of scold? You must REALLY know me huh?
This is coming from the same guy that spreads nasty rumors about providers
as he goes along... Oh yeah my feelings are hurt ...very hurt.. NOT! *rollseyes*
How about you go post in the penis size thread.

Originally Posted by simpleton

You dudes are starting to sound like a bunch of old women. I'm sure Naomi was referring to the men of Dallas.

Just think of like a term of endearment and a compliment.

LOL!! Actually no SL and monkmonk are in Dallas and I heart those guys!
Oh and how can I forget WTF. Love him!

[Anita Lay]

U RIGHT GINGER(cant wait to see you again)...
They will keep calling her and bugging the hell out of her, bless her heart. Being assertive is not being Rude but when SOME guys don't get want they want they are entitled to whine. Do they think we are suppose to tell them what ever they want to hear? If we say nothing and hang up then we are rude and that comes with the JOB.

[Chica Chaser]

Seriously, give it a rest Naomi and PJ.

If you have something related to the thread, state it. If not, and you just want to bash each other and various city/states, I suggest email.

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by Anita Lay

U RIGHT GINGER(cant wait to see you again)...

Me too, Anita!

This is P4P. The clients have choices. They know what they have to work with. If they only have so much, it's their obligation to find girls in that price range...or come up with more for higher priced girls if that's what they want.

This isn't a yard sale. This isn't Ebay.

Once word gets out that a lady tolerates those types of shenanigans, she will have a very difficult time being taken seriously.

[Laz]

Refund money because he wants to leave early is a no brainer. Hell no. You blocked the time off and he has an obligation to pay for it.

Refund over no greek is less obvious. Firs is as long as you were willing and capable of providing the service you are not obligated to provide a refund.

The second issue is more of a customer service issue. A business that provides great customer service gets a good reputation and more customers. A refund of the greek extra could be seen as providing that extra level of service that could make him come back or get others to call if he spread the word about your level of customer service. It is a judgement call of yours at that point.

[petiteassman]

second case seems different as it was not just time he paid for but in fact an activity which was not provided. whenever charging extra for certain services the whole time only argument goes out the window.

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

IMHO...

You pay for the time, not the # of bells rung. In the first case, you don't owe any money back.

Second case is a little harder since you agreed on the extra. However, my answer would be the same as #1.

In any date, he might not be able to get it up. You should still be paid for your time (after all, that's all you agreed to...anything else is consensual conduct between adults). You shouldn't be penalized (yuk, yuk) just because he couldn't get it up. You went and stayed in good faith. He was the one that fell down (yuk, yuk) on the job.

[petiteassman]

3 reviews. you had reviews at 120 hr 150 hr 160 hr and 100 for hh. your now charging 150 hh and 200 hr so you have ajusted your rates to what you think is fair so what would the problem be. if you think they are still too low raise them if you feel they got too high lower them.

Originally Posted by Kandy Kelly

and i get hassled enough about my rates being to high as it is maybe i should wait and suck it up

[guest043013-2]

As far as the origianl topic, either scenario, I would never ask for a refund.

As far as the second scenario, where the greek activity did not occur, sounds like it was attempted, but not completed. Lady made the effort, guy failed, guy's lost.

Now, if Kelly wants to stand out in the guy's memory, she could offer to provide greek at no upcharge on the next time he visits...but no obligation.

As far as guys always asking for discounts, would wonder if these are regulars or their first visit. In any event, Kelly, I had not noticed you until recently on here, even though your registration shows almost a year ago. All of your reviews appear to be in the last few months. A lot of guys may see you as a new provider and are trying to take advantage of you. Happens a lot. All you need to do is read a few of the threads, including the recent spat of B/B/F/S troll threads to gather that there are a group of guys trying to drive prices down or coerce ladies into activities they normally would not do.

A young attractive girl who offers greek to some of the guys here means a possible easy target. Don't let them get to you. I think your prices are in-line, it looked like all of your reviews were positive. (Didn't read all of them, just saw the recommendations.)

I think refunds should be offered when it seems like it is the right thing to do. Neither of these seemed like a refund was the right thing to ask for or to offer. Now, to offer to make the next visit special, and then to deliver on that promise, that is what drives repeat business...

[anaximander]

Me thinks naomith doesth protest
too much. The closer to target
the heavier the flak...tff

Why would I lie about pussy?
What exactly is my gain?
Yeah I could have posted a scathing
review for all to see, but I didn't- why?

I like Sfr too. She is a carbon copy
of my SO. Nobody more bummed
than I for the session. But feelings
aside I have to let the hobbyists
on the board have a slight head up.

A negative review for all to see
would possibly hurt her- not my
intent. But fellow lovers of
pussy eating deserve some
measure of warning.

As screwed up as that rendezvous
went I didn't ask for a refund
nor did I take the gift back.
Just lesson learned @ $240.
Maybe she was having an off day-
tried to fit one too many in- dunno
First impressions are relentless.

[Guest110516]

Excuse the redundancy, but here are my votes...

#1) No refund. If he wants to leave early, that's his choice. He can stick around and chit chat, cuddle, or play thumb wars if he wants to get his full time.

#2) No refund for time. Maybe the extra he paid for Greek, but I can see both sides of that debate. If you generally don't offer MSOG, it's not your fault he shot on the wrong goal. If you generally do offer MSOG, that's makes it trickier.

I generally don't agree with refunds unless the provider has done something blatantly wrong. I don't see that in #1 or #2.

[Miss J]

Nope!