I have - i guess in previous threads regarding that topic already said my thoughts on this classification of providers into two (or more categories). First, i have to agree with London on what she says, that many people in escort world of course use a fake persona and especially reality can`t hold up to it. People pretend to have degrees they don`t have and all sorts of things. Its like we all have "delusions of grandeur" when it come sto creating our escort persona. The issue is " how far do you go" with the labeling? For me anything related to class stops when i read "Best GFE ever" "Smartest person on the planet " (or such best of the best categories). Its derogatory to other people and fellow providers. I don`t want to make enemies in this realm, but be friends with other ladies and not put them down and state how much more "whatsoever" i am. Based on what measurements they think they come to these conclusions.
And - here comes my take to the rest of these delusions people have:
There is not difference between so called HDH and other providers. I am sick and tired to my stomach by this - sorry - stupid and ignorant bashing of providers of either side. I am sick and tired of reading on so called HDH homepages of how much they are more educated and how "upscale and elitist" their clients have to be. And quality instead of quantity. Some even think they are on the same "level" like their clients. Really? Then how come SHE is not paying HIM for his company :-))))))....... Gosh......
Such people are the ones i would never exchange links with.
OTOH i am also sick and tired of women who choose to earn more money by this profession with lower rates bashing HDH as pretentious. We are talking about people here. And i have worked and still work on both ends (same like all providers do or did) and there is no difference. In Europe my rates are pretty high although in comparison to USA they might be low. But i can`t simply charge 2000 Euro for an hour, because NO ONE in Europe would ever pay that. With my page i get 4 to 5 clients a month. That is what i want. ANd i tour and travel a lot of course, sometimes with Gents and sometimes alone.
Stupid people, people with drug issues, inflated sense of self are on both ends of the dollar and i do not define something like class by the hourly rate. Its simple: Charge more - have less clients and prefer to engage in LTR. Some people prefer different approaches and its justified to.Plain and simple.
The providers i like - no matter how much they charge are the ones that have no inflated sense of self or superiourity complex issued on their webpage.
Providers that turn me off are people who think they are the best thing on earth when it comes to sex and education and advertise as such. "Best GFE" or whatever. As far as education goes - for me personally education does not come with a university degree. I have seen the most dumbest people on the planet with a university degree. Whatsoever, i am offended by people PRETENDING to have university degrees, when they don`t. Its elitist and crappy and i prefer authenticity.
As long escorts of whatever approach or realm do not put other escorts down, that is class. I expect an educated person to not bash women of whatever rate. Its not like someone who charges 300 is unable to charge more, its just like you don`t want to have more clients. I will raise my rates for outside Europe to 1200 for two hours. Am i better? Of course not. Do i have more class? Of course not. Its just a different approach. Period. This elitist BS going on on boards about someone chargind this or that, and who is classy and who has drug issues and who doesn`t is related to persons and not escort identities.
You will find escorts with issues (eating disorder, delusions of grandeur, drug issues, doing clients bareback down the road....) in every part of the hobby. And i personally don`t think that any person who has an escort page and advertises as such on the internet is a HDH . A HDH does not have an escort page. I agree with everything John Bull has stated in this regard. I know Models charging 10 000 for an hour. Well, beat that :-). I don`t see the big difference between 300 and 600 dollar. Its delusional to say there are differences in personallities because someone is capable of taking photos and putting up and internet page and copy-paste herself thru other escorts pages to not have to come up with own ideas
). That means NOTHING. As to Photos:
Don`t bash me for saying so, but i sometimes don`t understand why in the USA women either have completely crappy photos that look like i could do better ones with any i.phone to proof they look real. Or they are so overly photoshopped that its pretty obvious they are no way looking like that.
Of course i am exagerating. MeeShee makes great photos and i have seen some really nice pages. But i don´t think to proof i look really like my photos i need to take crappy i - phone photos. You can also do that just by having nice photos and not prolonging your legs or making boobs bigger or face different like model photos do.
So - anyone can command any rate. The question is - who pays and how important is that business to the provider. If i have an escort charging 2000 per hour )or for two hours ) and the lady has the i phone style photos on her page then i just laugh my ass off, sorry . Obviously no one seems to pay them, because they have to do free modelmayhem shots with crappy wannabe photographers. So - even if this is the nicest person on the planet - it`s just a marketing strategy that sucks. So - NOT very clever.
On the other hand , if someone has lower rates and a profile like mine - it might scare people off. Not recommended either. People want approachable ladies . Not art figures. SO each business marketing strategy has different approaches. But it has nothing to do with class intelligence and these elitist crap i sometimes hear.
So my plain and simple answer: what makes a HDH: a homepage with photos and the according rates. THAT simple. Nothing more. Oh and advertisements and/or networking as John Bull states. Are ladies who charge more - more classy , intelligent, attractive, educated than others? No. Plain and simple. They might be a little more snobbish but that is all.
And i hope you don`t bash me for saying so: But these elitist approach is such an "american" thing to do. I had classmates of mine living in the USA for years and they also said to me that one thing hard to stomach for a european is that americans seem to have the tendency to "maximize" everything which IMHO also relates to the inflated sense of self some providers have. It can`t just be a nice experience , no it has to be "earthshattering" special and "oh so never had before". Who would ever believe that? But maybe that is just a marketing strategy i am not fond of. But - specially when i read reviews on escorts homepages i really wonder if they hired a ghostwriter for writing science fiction or fantasy. :-)). I hope i have not offended anyone but i wanted to just "say that" because it is sometimes bothering me when interacting with US providers :-).
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