clock watching and time management

[Guest011914-1]

I am with you Tiffany I very rarely have to worry and if the date goes over so be it...if we are both having fun that is what matters....

Originally Posted by Tiffany Cums

+1!

This is the reason why I try to schedule only 1 for the day, or if by chance I end up with 2 sceduled, there are hours between them!

[npita]

Originally Posted by incognito isis

you are the exception, not the rule. I'm glad you didn't take advantage of the womans generosity and you paid her accordingly.

It actually had nothing to do with her generosity. I saw her as an outcall and a provider friend of mine lent me her incall to use. I didn't keep track of the time as I should have and the tip I included in the envelope didn't cover the time we ran over. She didn't know we'd run over until I called her and actually, she was quite the opposite of generous. The next session I scheduled with her was for two hours and for that session, I paid for two hours. She was apparently unhappy that I wasn't going to do the same as I had done before, so the session was about the worst I'd ever had. She tried to hit me up for $200.00 for p411 ok, which I had to report to Gina.

I paid for the overtime because I don't like to feel like I've taken advantage of a situation or be indebted to anyone as well as give people the benefit of the doubt, initially. It had nothing to do with her.

I'm not sweating up anyones sheets unless it's on the clock. I'm an escort, ya know?

That's one strategy. However, I tend to be more generous with people who are generous and avoid people who are worried about always keeping score, so there are various approaches one can take.

[Lesa Tyler]

Ladies I have been a provider for a long time and have never used alarms, bells, nor whistle's.
If you are truly the GFE experience which should be a more relaxed visit, maybe you might want to try just experimenting on judging on how long an hour is.... I have through the years gotten pretty good at it.
I do go over sometimes 10 or 15 minutes but what the hell, where are you going to make this kind of money??? I have an MBA from Stanford and can't make this kind of money working any where else, so I am greatful.
Maybe you could just be discrete in checking your phone at the beginning if that is your watch just use a ringtone like someone is calling you.
I love what I do, so if I go over alittle it is no big deal; but hear again I only have
2 appts. a day at best.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Lesa Tyler

Ladies I have been a provider for a long time and have never used alarms, bells, nor whistle's.
If you are truly the GFE experience which should be a more relaxed visit, maybe you might want to try just experimenting on judging on how long an hour is.... I have through the years gotten pretty good at it.
I do go over sometimes 10 or 15 minutes but what the hell, where are you going to make this kind of money??? I have an MBA from Stanford and can't make this kind of money working any where else, so I am greatful.
Maybe you could just be discrete in checking your phone at the beginning if that is your watch just use a ringtone like someone is calling you.
I love what I do, so if I go over alittle it is no big deal; but hear again I only have
2 appts. a day at best.

Yes I did the same thing. Gave an extra 15 minutes. What bothers me is the lady that give extra time in return for reviews. On a thread in Diamonds and Tuxedoes a girl said that she didn't care if the date went 2 hours over and it always gets her good reviews. Well I wonder why. That to me is just another example of providers trying to cheat the game but playing themselves at the same time. That guy that you're giving 2 free extra hours has the money to pay if you just asked. Oh and better yet.. you're charging $250 but he saw soupy sally a week before for $500 an hour and paid her her full rate.. ya see? It's just bad business and it never ends well.. especially when other hobbyists finds out that she's giving free time. What do yall think? Puzzling eh?

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

It's easier to implement a playlist lately than setting an alarm.

[roxiestarr]

We are ladies being paid for our time, it's important to keep that in mind. But should a gent actually be a gentleman I certainly don't mind going over or under (backwards, forwards) especially if a good vibe is going on. I've had one hour dates turn into dinner dates, and two hours into over nighters. Clock-watching is tacky IMO though. Use a playlist, or set up an alarm with a cute song on your phone! Plenty of ways to say "time's up" without staring at the second hand ticking away.

[Guest101811-4]

Originally Posted by roxiestarr

I've had one hour dates turn into dinner dates, and two hours into over nighters.

I'm still relatively wet behind the ears in the hobby, so bear with me.

Hypothetically, if I were one of those dates you listed, how would I know that this extra time was something you chose to do of your own volition, and not something where I'd suddenly be but on the spot of having to compensate you for the additional time?

I'm sorry that sounds convoluted. Basically, how do I know exactly how much you should be compensated without coming right out and discussing it?

[roxiestarr]

Originally Posted by IDMT

I'm still relatively wet behind the ears in the hobby, so bear with me.

Hypothetically, if I were one of those dates you listed, how would I know that this extra time was something you chose to do of your own volition, and not something where I'd suddenly be but on the spot of having to compensate you for the additional time?

I'm sorry that sounds convoluted. Basically, how do I know exactly how much you should be compensated without coming right out and discussing it?

It's not really on the spot of sudden compensation. If a date is going well and more time is requested proper compensation is received (you know the saying, nothing in life is free)
All providers have their different rates, mine are on P411 or you can inquire within. $$$ Isn't something I personally like to discuss. I think my date should do his research and be prepared if we hit it off and things go longer (or we can just go up the street to an atm).

I'm also not certain if any of that was any less convoluted than your question, I've had a couple cocktails. Hahaha
xoxo

[Guest101811-4]

Originally Posted by roxiestarr

It's not really on the spot of sudden compensation. If a date is going well and more time is requested proper compensation is received (you know the saying, nothing in life is free)
All providers have their different rates, mine are on P411 or you can inquire within. $$$ Isn't something I personally like to discuss. I think my date should do his research and be prepared if we hit it off and things go longer (or we can just go up the street to an atm).

I'm also not certain if any of that was any less convoluted than your question, I've had a couple cocktails. Hahaha
xoxo

OK...seems I misinterpreted your post. I understood it to say that you extended a date without an expectation of compensation.

Like I said, I'm still learning. And yes, I know...nothing in life is free. LOL Drink on, darling!

[incognito isis]

That's one strategy. However, I tend to be more generous with people who are generous and avoid people who are worried about always keeping score, so there are various approaches one can take.[/quote]

Thats great. And like I said earlier, you are the exception not the rule. The reason why I keep score, is because if I didn't I would get taken advantage of. But it's nice to know there are people out there who don't try to take advantage of others generosity.

[KlassyKelliAnn]

I am not a clock watcher but I do have a job to do and I expect my compensation for my time as this is a business nevertheless!

You buy a phone card and it doesnt care whether it likes you or not- when the minutes run out- thats it!

I have been known to stay over in many of my appts but this has worked for me in the past for those of you ladies who may need a non chalant way to keep track of time.

If it is your place you can have a clock visible. If it is an outcall, you can leave your cell in the bathroom and excuse yourself as needed for breaks and freshening up a few times when you think it is almost that time. Dont leave to check every 5 damn minutes- you should only have to excuse yourself once maybe twice depending on the length of the appointment. This saves being obvious which can and will be viewed as rude.

[Nataleelovesyou]

When I worked at the bunny ranch there were intercoms and we were to wrap it up or they paid more...kinda hard in other situations though...I got really well at time early on...

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by janwalshs

The number of times the lady has an orgasm during a session probably equals the number of times a politician tells the truth. Like, almost never?

Anyway, concerning the topic...I always look around for a clock before the session starts. I try to keep track of the time myself because it can be awkward to tell a guy when he's heading into the last lap. It doesn't bother me to life my head out of her lap to glance at the clock.

If no clock is visible, I ask the lady to remind me when there are 15 minutes left in the session. I've trained myself to be really good at time management and have never had a problem

There are physical signs that a woman can't fake. Am I saying that every orgasm a provider has had with me is real? No way. But never? I would change my technique a little if that's the case with you. Not trying to be a smart ass at all but if you have never given a provider a real orgasm then you might just ask them what you can do to accomplish that.

[Naomi4u]

Wow... no comment.

[incognito isis]

I've decided, I'm just going to use my cell phone. When it goes up, times up. I don't care how tacky it is. If I keep looking at a watch, then they're gunna say I'm a clock watcher!! You really can't win sometimes. Not unless you stroke, stroke, stroke that ego!