Change in policy?

[enderwiggin]

You guys type too much.

[boardman]

Originally Posted by internet_inventor2

Someone wake when BP finishes writing the next chapter of War and 'Tards. This thread is a prime example of person taking themselves too serious not to mention all of his racist over tones.

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[Killersalt]

Originally Posted by boardman

Warning, Warning.......Thread derail will occur in 5...4...3....

Is it possible to derail this sucker at this point? It's been pretty far of the original topic for a while now.

[Wakeup]

I'm not quite sure why you chose to make this thread suddenly all about me...but I'll respond...

Originally Posted by KaraLynnKelley

But, I gotta ask you, my love...cause I havent seen you in many, many years:

It's going to be a recurring theme here...for you to remember this. You haven't seen me in a few years, and you've only seen me maybe half a dozen times, always in a social setting with others.

Originally Posted by KaraLynnKelley

Whatcha doing with your time these days? I mean, besides posting inane pics of cats, or making dumbass inside jokes that no one gives two cat shits about? Or...trashing gals you're not interested in? I do not remember 2006-7 Wakeup like this!

Again, I refer you to above to start with. Give me a list of the women I've "trashed" since I've been on this board. Seriously Kara, I'd like to see a list, and once I see it, I think you'll see my point here. I can guarantee you that it has nothing to do with whether or not I "want to see them" or if "they're my type", it has everything to do with their actions here.

Originally Posted by KaraLynnKelley

I'm very much aware of the fact you find a good 98% of women on this site not just unnattractive, but straight repulsive. I could delve into the territory of latent misogyny, narcissism and homo-eroticism, due to the fact you only seek tall, thin, flat chested blondes. But, alas...I won't. I'll just do you a favor! Here is a site where non of us shapely, brown uglies are. I think you shall find a great number of tall, thin, young and flat-chested blondes for your liking:

www.adam4adam.com

C'mon Kara, you've been reading the Powder Room posts by Amber and Brooke too much. If you gals really want to take my feelings toward two or three specific providers on this board and blanket apply that to every other provider on this board, then feel free. You'd be massively mistaken, but you gals can, and have always choosen to do what you want. Far from me to argue free will with you. Speaking of blondes...don't you think Valerie is EXACTLY my type? Why was I sparring with her if this was my only motivating factor in life?

Originally Posted by KaraLynnKelley

But really... I Miss you, T! I'll be back soon. Can't wait to have a drink w you and the crew again! xo I would so love for you to say to my face the things you've been saying about gals on the board! *muah*

Is there some reason that you'd think that I wouldn't have these same conversations to your face? I don't have a problem with you, but if you asked me about certain people I'd give you the exact same answers across a dinner table as I would here.

Originally Posted by KaraLynnKelley

Oh no, Im several shades of color past cute for him. But I have seen him at functions! he's so sweet and quiet! Kinda stays by himself and those he knows! Which is why this new persona is tripping me out? WTF happened, Wakeup?

I've explained this a million times before...but I guess I'll do it one more time for posterity sake. Refer to your above statement. You've seen me in a social setting with other people around. In situations like that, people tend to NOT act blatantly stupid. If you're not acting blatantly stupid then you don't need to pop up on my hostility radar. People on a board have no such compulsion to NOT embarass themselves, so when they act up, I call them on it. In real life, people tend to police themselves a bit better for a multitude of reasons. If they're policing themselves, there's no need for anyone else to do it for them. Back in the Hellraiser days I met everyone who walked in the door, it was part of being one of the people who put the things together. Now, I have no need to try and meet everyone. If people want to meet me, they can feel free, but I don't feel the need anymore to go and randomly introduce myself to everyone at a social...after all I'm not the one trying to get people to pay to sleep with me.

Originally Posted by KaraLynnKelley

Why are you trying to hide the fact you are nice person and just a tad scared of women?

I AM a nice person. Refer once again to your above post. Just because you've never seen me in a situation where this different side me has been exhibited doesn't mean that I'm faking it or something of that nature. It just means that you haven't seen it in person. "Tad scared of women"? Again...I can only imagine the reasons that you girls come up with in the Powder Room for my behavior. My girlfriend beat me up. My wife was controlling me before she died so now I'm acting out. My wife cheated on me while I was in Iraq. I've had several heartbreaking relationships in the past. None of them are true, and your statement here isn't either, but you can feel free to think whatever you want.

Originally Posted by KaraLynnKelley

I know, Merlin. Which is why I want to meet him for happy hour again and have him tell me to my face everything he's said on these boards. *teehee* (as we say in Austin, the happy face makes it light hearted!)

Again, anytime you want to meet me and have a discussion about the board, providers in general or in specificity, or anything else, let me know, and I'll have it. I'm afraid you're just going to be disappointed though, I'll never claim to be something I'm not.

Originally Posted by KaraLynnKelley

BOY! You know I will get all up in that ass like hemorrhoid! Now play nice, Wakeup!

Why would I play any other way with you? As I said, you, and the other women in the Powder Room are free to think anything you would like about me, just as I'm free to think anything about you, there's nothing to get angry about, far from it, it's pretty amusing to see the things you all will stretch for to try and explain me.

[Guest041811-2]

Originally Posted by Wakeuр

I'm not quite sure why you chose to make this thread suddenly all about me...but I'll respond...


It's going to be a recurring theme here...for you to remember this. You haven't seen me in a few years, and you've only seen me maybe half a dozen times, always in a social setting with others.


Again, I refer you to above to start with. Give me a list of the women I've "trashed" since I've been on this board. Seriously Kara, I'd like to see a list, and once I see it, I think you'll see my point here. I can guarantee you that it has nothing to do with whether or not I "want to see them" or if "they're my type", it has everything to do with their actions here.




C'mon Kara, you've been reading the Powder Room posts by Amber and Brooke too much. If you gals really want to take my feelings toward two or three specific providers on this board and blanket apply that to every other provider on this board, then feel free. You'd be massively mistaken, but you gals can, and have always choosen to do what you want. Far from me to argue free will with you. Speaking of blondes...don't you think Valerie is EXACTLY my type? Why was I sparring with her if this was my only motivating factor in life?


Is there some reason that you'd think that I wouldn't have these same conversations to your face? I don't have a problem with you, but if you asked me about certain people I'd give you the exact same answers across a dinner table as I would here.


I've explained this a million times before...but I guess I'll do it one more time for posterity sake. Refer to your above statement. You've seen me in a social setting with other people around. In situations like that, people tend to NOT act blatantly stupid. If you're not acting blatantly stupid then you don't need to pop up on my hostility radar. People on a board have no such compulsion to NOT embarass themselves, so when they act up, I call them on it. In real life, people tend to police themselves a bit better for a multitude of reasons. If they're policing themselves, there's no need for anyone else to do it for them. Back in the Hellraiser days I met everyone who walked in the door, it was part of being one of the people who put the things together. Now, I have no need to try and meet everyone. If people want to meet me, they can feel free, but I don't feel the need anymore to go and randomly introduce myself to everyone at a social...after all I'm not the one trying to get people to pay to sleep with me.


I AM a nice person. Refer once again to your above post. Just because you've never seen me in a situation where this different side me has been exhibited doesn't mean that I'm faking it or something of that nature. It just means that you haven't seen it in person. "Tad scared of women"? Again...I can only imagine the reasons that you girls come up with in the Powder Room for my behavior. My girlfriend beat me up. My wife was controlling me before she died so now I'm acting out. My wife cheated on me while I was in Iraq. I've had several heartbreaking relationships in the past. None of them are true, and your statement here isn't either, but you can feel free to think whatever you want.


Again, anytime you want to meet me and have a discussion about the board, providers in general or in specificity, or anything else, let me know, and I'll have it. I'm afraid you're just going to be disappointed though, I'll never claim to be something I'm not.


Why would I play any other way with you? As I said, you, and the other women in the Powder Room are free to think anything you would like about me, just as I'm free to think anything about you, there's nothing to get angry about, far from it, it's pretty amusing to see the things you all will stretch for to try and explain me.

I apologize. I remember you being a nice person. I understand why you're a little different now; You've been through things I could never comprehend. If you need to use this board as therapy, go for it. I just wish the best for you, but please remember this is not a battlefield. Hobbyists and Providers are NOT enemies.

Good luck, T. And I mean this with all the love, positivity and well-wishes I have to give.

[carkido45]

Wow!!!! Wakeup I didn't know it was like that for you...I feel sorry for you.
Hope ypu feel better.

[Guest041811-2]

Originally Posted by carkido45

Wow!!!! Wakeup I didn't know it was like that for you...I feel sorry for you.
Hope ypu feel better.

CK, he was being facetious. I was apologizing and wishing him luck with the demons he did NOT mention. I hope you are doing ok, too.

[Wayward]

Originally Posted by blowpop

Not exactly. My point is that we're here to discuss the hobby and to share information about it, making it safer and more enjoyable for all involved. Running off providers accomplishes nothing, other than to reduce the number of providers.

Riddle me this, Father W: What is the point of the drama, and the grief that seems to rain down on new providers if they somehow get on the radar of some of our local he-men? What's the upside? (Other than to allow one he-man to brag to another about how he outsmarted a poor, dumb provider?)



First, I'm not doing anything with regards to Carkiddo; I don't know the guy. If he says something worth agreeing with, I'll agree with it. I care more about the ideas being discussed than the personalities behind them.

As far as carnal delight, tell me again how running off providers enhances this for anyone?

Heck, I've thought some guys were total idiots here, but they turned out to be nice guys in person. I have no doubt that the same applies to providers; I'm sure there are several who rub me the wrong way online, but who'd be a whole lot of fun to play with BCD. What's the upside of running them off?

In short: If you run off providers, there's less fun to go around. That's the harm to hobbyists. To the provider involved, it's more direct: You are fucking with her source of income. Only a fool does that lightly.

(I appreciate your typing slowly; I'm nowhere near as smart as those chess players that always get talked about.)

I wrote six lines, you wrote about 14 paragraphs, in several posts. There was a point, but not that you were less than clever. We have been friends for over a decade and shared a lot of highs and lows together. I wanted you to distill your arguments.

Carkiddo is a punch line and the BP I respect knows it.

The point was equity to all providers, which isn't much of a riddle, we thinck of it as active SHMB darwinism, you see drama. Is it my version of your top ten list, hell yes. The providers on this site have run off one hell of a lot more women than even you could give us credit for. But you know that.

Let's try this you make a list of all the providers I've run off the boards and we will make a list of all the providers we have mentored over the last decade. Then we'll see who you would like to receive fellatio from on my list and on yours.

Now are we done?

As a YMWV staff member it confuses us that you aren't aware of the original mission statement for that site. The intent was to have a board where the women we love, could go nuts when they felt like it, with out destroying their brand on the major boards. But we think you did know that too and are so ate up with deerhunter you have completely lost your sense of humor and normally well balanced view of SHMB politics.

[carkido45]

Originally Posted by KaraLynnKelley

CK, he was being facetious. I was apologizing and wishing him luck with the demons he did NOT mention. I hope you are doing ok, too.

I'm doing well Miss KaralynnKelly.
I learned one thing, men never look good fighting with women ...win or lose.

[Mojojo]

Originally Posted by Merlin

This thread is not about threADs or the Lynch Mob or the Hellraisers or Horndogs (did I leave anyone out?). It was more directed at some recent events and how they correlated to a directive stated by St. Chris. And to the mods credit, they did address nearly all of the issues save the edited post but that was more than I expected.

Merlin thanks for the props.

This thread has run it's course, become derailed beyond repair, AND become a haven for "piling on" or other various infractions.