Male Members who do not review

[daty/o]

Originally Posted by Boltfan

Anyone who solely uses reviews as their information exchange is also not using everything to their advantage.

Originally Posted by DarkeyKong

I don't mind guys who don't review, but the ones who don't contribute at all yet still have the audacity to ask anything of the posters are my pet peeve. At least pay for premium access to contribute to the continued financial stability of the board. They give absolutely no value to the hobbyist community and serve to only take.

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by davidfree986

...Here is what I am saying. ... What I have a problem with is guys that have not reviewed a provider in over 6 months, yet multiple times a day, they post their comments on a review board and for the most part, usually have nothing but negative things to say about other members, basically looking for a reaction, trying to stir shit up.

I will bet others are tired of it as well.

well then, name those guys so we can either confirm or disprove your assumption.

as well as pay or collect on your last bet.


this is not much diff than a client commenting about some "bad" treatment they received but not telling who the provider is.

[Guest110416]

Originally Posted by pmdelites

well then, name those guys so we can either confirm or disprove your assumption.

as well as pay or collect on your last bet.


this is not much diff than a client commenting about some "bad" treatment they received but not telling who the provider is.

There is no assumption for you to confirm or approve and those two types are totally different, so bad examples on your part.

A provider who treats a hobbyist bad, but that hobbyist does not review her or starts a thread about what he perceives as mistreatment by her and does not name her is a waste of a thread in the fact that the provider may have good reviews or no one has ever heard of her and in order to do a proper info exchange on her, guys need to know who she is to avoid her.

Guys that have not posted a review in over 6 months, yet post multiple times a day on a review board, with the majority of those posts, negative and condescending are pretty clear without naming names. But, most of the names go without saying, all you have to do is look at the guys who have the shit ass and thread hijacking comments to take personal shots at others, look at their post history of the same types of negative remarks and comment on how reviews should be or tell others of their experience with a provider, and yet there are no reviews of that provider by that person, nor are there any recent reviews at all, yet they post multiple times a day, with nothing good to say about anyone or anything, aka a troll. Do you really need names to figure that out?

[cheatercheater]

I have neither the time nor the ambition to go find examples of these trolls you say are present every day. And I am a whore on the board, at least when it comes to reading.

Why do these guys bother you? You feed into what they want, a reaction. Fuck em, block em, skip over em.

When reading the bs here becomes too much, I flip over to provider ads and look at heavenly bodies, junior becomes aroused, and I forgot anyone else is here.

[Guest110416]

Originally Posted by cheatercheater

I have neither the time nor the ambition to go find examples of these trolls you say are present every day. And I am a whore on the board, at least when it comes to reading.

Why do these guys bother you? You feed into what they want, a reaction. Fuck em, block em, skip over em.

When reading the bs here becomes too much, I flip over to provider ads and look at heavenly bodies, junior becomes aroused, and I forgot anyone else is here.

Wise words. I have a few members on ignore. The point is, it is not just me that is tired of the negative trolls looking for reactions as that is their fun on Eccie. Other than the guys (even a couple of providers) who claim they know it all and try to project that on all threads they can, why else would a guy post multiple times a day, on a daily basis, on a whore review board without at least one of those posts being a review at least every so often?

[Alyssa Marie]

Originally Posted by Nina the Dicknapper

if you dont review me, I will not be a reference for you or anything vouching you. It takes a quick sec to write a review. This is an INFORMATION EXCHANGE site. its just defeating the purpose of it if you guys can't take the time out to exchange info .

i would take some time to seriously think about this. not all men are good at writing. many are embarrassed with their spelling and lack of english language. many can't put together a christmas card that says "love, dad." i wouldn't punish them for this. by punishing them you are also punishing other providers and keeping the community safe.

i undertand references are a personal preference and in the end we all do what we want to do... but not giving a reference for a guy not writing a review, there are many many many reasons that are far from selfish as to why some men dont review. i would take a man seeing me as a regular way more important then a man writing me a review and i would gladly give that reference when he wants to see someone else.

of course you are free to do as you please, but men are often far more nervous of being vulnerable and this is why many do not review.
xo

[Chung Tran]

very well said AM.. I think you know us better than we know ourselves!

[Nina the Dicknapper]

Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

of course you are free to do as you please,

Your Right, Thank You. Giving a reference is a privilege not mandatory. When writing a review, all the guys have to do is pretty much answer questions, fill in blanks & think back on the previous session. Its nothing hard about that. I'm not asking for a novel or anything. I value my reviews. Having them & getting more feels like a huge reward to me. & if I'm selfish for not writing references then so be it. When guys don't write reviews I think that's selfish as well... I don't think I'm asking for too much. If the hobbyist can't help me out then why should I help him out?

Also, Great Thread Subject David!

[CaptCroakers]

Writing a meaningful review that adds value is hard work. Now if there were canned reviews where we could just check boxes and select activities from a drop down menu, I'd review a lot more. And not that I dont eventually have time to write a review, just not before I forget most of what took place.

[Alyssa Marie]

nina, doesn't the man help you out when he leaves the money?

it may not be hard for you to come here and articulate yourself as you want, but that doesn't mean that it is easy for everyone. my step dad has my mother write everything. everything. he is a beast when it comes to machines and fixing anything that you need him to fix, but he cannot write worth shit. imagine if he said to you, "you go change the oil, fix the ac and that leaky pipe." whats easy to him isn't easy to others and etc etc etc.
xo

[Nina the Dicknapper]

Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

nina, doesn't the man help you out when he leaves the money?

it may not be hard for you to come here and articulate yourself as you want, but that doesn't mean that it is easy for everyone. my step dad has my mother write everything. everything. he is a beast when it comes to machines and fixing anything that you need him to fix, but he cannot write worth shit. imagine if he said to you, "you go change the oil, fix the ac and that leaky pipe." whats easy to him isn't easy to others and etc etc etc.
xo

Yes true. The cash does help me out just like my skills help them out. Just because they saw me doesn't mean I have to be their reference though. If u can't review me you won't simply get a reference. Im not gonna break my back & waist my time vouching for him when he can't simple write a 2min review

. I think of it like this
My skills + his cash = a great time
A reference given + a review written= just simply being fair.

He doesn't HAVE to write the review just like I don't HAVE to have him use me as a reference. if a guy politely says "sorry I don't write reviews so good" then I'll politely say "sorry, I don't give out references too good".

[DarkeyKong]

Originally Posted by Nina the Dicknapper

Yes true. The cash does help me out just like my skills help them out. Just because they saw me doesn't mean I have to be their reference though. If u can't review me you won't simply get a reference. Im not gonna break my back & waist my time vouching for him when he can't simple write a 2min review

. I think of it like this
My skills + his cash = a great time
A reference given + a review written= just simply being fair.

He doesn't HAVE to write the review just like I don't HAVE to have him use me as a reference.

I'm sorry writing a great review takes an overwhelming amount of effort compared to an "um yeah.... he's cool". I'm not sure if that's the gist of it, but I can't imagine a reference is mich more than that. Please correct me if I'm wrong.

[Nina the Dicknapper]

Originally Posted by DarkeyKong

I'm sorry writing a great review takes an overwhelming amount of effort compared to an "um yeah.... he's cool". I'm not sure if that's the gist of it, but I can't imagine a reference is mich more than that. Please correct me if I'm wrong.

That's the point though. I don't have to do all that if I don't have too. I could be PMing my next client instead of waisting my time PMing with another provider. I've had a couple of guys write the review right after the session in my face. It didn't take long at all. A good review consist of telling other guys if her pics are accurate, filling in blanks & remembering something u did a couple day ago. Dont seem to hard to me. Who said reviews have to be story book like? Just share some simple info & move on to the next provider .. A reference is a privilege just like a review is.

You give me donations, I give u a fun time
You give Me a review & I'll give you an awesome reference

You give me no donations, I give u no fun time
You don't give me a review, I won't be used as your reference.

[DarkeyKong]

What if it's a no review? You don't have to answer that, I'm just being a jackass. I do wonder how many gals would give a guy a referral if he writes them a no review lol!

[Nina the Dicknapper]

Originally Posted by DarkeyKong

What if it's a no review? You don't have to answer that, I'm just being a jackass. I do wonder how many gals would give a guy a referral if he writes them a no review lol!

Yes, I would still give him a reference. Maybe we just didn't click/vibe. Not everyone is going to like me and I'm OK with that. As long as u can do your part I will do mines.