Providers and their S.O.'s

[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by StinkyFingers

I'm listening ...

It's easier to protect someone's privacy with some limited info. Additionally, the motivations of a single guy who hobbies are many times different from a married hobbyist.

Other silly things like asking if you can keep his usual soap etc only apply if the guy is attached...

[GlobeSpotter]

Originally Posted by LilMynx69

....Other silly things like asking if you can keep his usual soap etc only apply if the guy is attached...

The guy is attached to who?...the provider?....or someone at home with a good nose?

I carry my own soap and used to keep a bottle at the agency incall I lived at last year LOL.

[Guest051115]

Originally Posted by Beau Derierre

Just act as if you were taking the trash out. Meet me behind your garage I will not be wearing any panties just a quick taste of your cock and a nice bent over fuck will do.. No need for talk as I will disappear in the night.

My point was that while this sounds steamy and erotic I can see why you've had no takers due to the risk factor. While some may not care most guys no matter how close a friendship they develop with a provider simply don't want them knowing where they eat and and shit. Back to your fantasy... what sounds really erotic is sneaking you inside the house when everyone is asleep and fucking you across the kitchen Island and then sneaking you back out. Sounds like that would be an awesome rush. ;-)

[txman123]

I want to know whatever you want me to know, of course that's different for each lady.
If you ask me about my rl, you'll get an honest answer or an I'd rather not say.
I will not knowingly give my money to a pimp or lazy bf or SO that is living off a lady.
As far as I'm concerned they are one and the same and are to treated as the same chicken shit bastards.

[Beau Derierre]

I once started a thread about relationships and being a provider.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=688099&highlight=


I till this day am still enjoying the single life.

[txman123]

Originally Posted by Sonya

Just curious. Many of you have wives and gfs and have no qualms of telling us. But is it a no no for us ladies to admit relationships? Does it turn you off? Do you assume it must be a pimp or less of a Man who deals with our job? Does it ruin the fantasy of the gfe?

To the op's original questions:
I don't consider it a no no for you to admit to a relationship, as long as you and I still enjoy each other.
Doesn't turn me off or on, only you do that.
My first thought is not that he's a pimp or weak, rather I wonder what he thinks when making love to you about your job and all then men who share your sweet body.
Doesn't ruin gfe, only you could do that.

[Beau Derierre]

Originally Posted by Sonya

Just curious. Many of you have wives and gfs and have no qualms of telling us. But is it a no no for us ladies to admit relationships? Does it turn you off? Do you assume it must be a pimp or less of a Man who deals with our job? Does it ruin the fantasy of the gfe?

After reading your thread again. I began to ponder on a VERY special gentleman I had the opportunity of spending last New years with. He choose me to bring in his new year at his home. He was the most amazing gentleman to date I had ever met. The more he discussed his wife, the more I wanted to draw his attention far away from her, as he was very orally talented. He had eyes of an angel. He will always be a wonderful memory and a dream I will keep wishing on I would definitely retire without the lame "I'm retiring thread" lol Oh Smarty Marty how you remain in my dreams babe. Where ever you are darling man I hope it's pure enjoyment!

[StinkyFingers]

Originally Posted by LilMynx69

It's easier to protect someone's privacy with some limited info. Additionally, the motivations of a single guy who hobbies are many times different from a married hobbyist.

Other silly things like asking if you can keep his usual soap etc only apply if the guy is attached...

Sorry, I'm not following your logic.

The expectation is that my privacy will be protected under any circumstances, so what you know about me has nothing to do with whether or not you divulge my personal information. Actually, the less you know about me, the more secure I am that my information cannot be divulged. And, just who would you be protecting my privacy from?

Really, all a provider needs to know about me is my first name (real or whatever fake name I may use), my e-mail or telephone number (again, no RL info in either) and my references. And, if I use P411, she can check that on her own.

So, at the end of the day, all that any provider I see knows about me is a Fake first name, a handle on P411, a hobby e-mail address that does not have my RL name in it and a hobby telephone number that I pay for with cash.

My motivations for seeing any particular provider is first and foremost, that I want to fuck her. Pretty simple, really. Now, if I see her as a regular client, if simply means that I enjoying fucking her and that she has a nice personality.

Unless your motivations are other than stress relief and the pleasure of fucking a hot woman that fits some kind of physical ideal for you, but that you are not likely to meet in RL ... well, you got problems.

[StinkyFingers]

Same goes for a provider. I do not need to know any of her RL information. It is all irrelevant to the task at hand.

Of course, in friendly conversation, getting to know a bit about one another is fine if you become a regular.

But, whether she has an SO or not is none of my business and not my concern.

[oilfieldscum]

Originally Posted by Beau Derierre

Clients pay/deserve fantasy...Not RL info :-/

Originally Posted by LilMynx69

It's easier to protect someone's privacy with some limited info. Additionally, the motivations of a single guy who hobbies are many times different from a married hobbyist.

Other silly things like asking if you can keep his usual soap etc only apply if the guy is attached...

Me thincks these two gals are getting it right.

[Sonya]

I agree clients pay for and deserve fantasy. Thats why im in a hotel room in crotchless panties, thigh highs n heels waiting, as i type this. But not all want to converse and be more personal. Just cant cast everyone in the same wants and needs.

[cr76]

I don't care, it's your personal life and I've seen girls who have had bfs or husbands. Most were cool , one ime the guy came home but te girl, told me not to worry , he is well aware and will wait I. The other room which I was fine with and we didn't have an issue. But one ime at a strip club, a dancer was siting wih me , but tying her bf the whole time which was a bit of a buzzkill. I guess what in trying to say is I not doesn't affect my session or time I could care less. It's your personal life, if your happy, then by all means be happy

[Dorian Gray]

Originally Posted by Sonya

Thats why im in a hotel room in crotchless panties, thigh highs n heels waiting, as i type this....

Pics or you're lying

[boxluvher]

+1

[Sonya]

K im back. Pm your email again please. Got something for ya.