The Pretty Woman Syndrome

[Guest083011]

Originally Posted by Camille

I just wouldn't snog you

C x

Originally Posted by SR Only

"Snog?"

Answer to my question (does this mean I am talking to myself?). Gotta love urbandictionary:
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=snog
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=snogging

[Raphael]

Originally Posted by Alex Lieberman

Have you ever fallen in love with a client or provider or have they ever fallen in love with you? If yes, what did you or do you do?

Sure. And we fought and bickered and distrusted one another unhappily for ever after.

This said, I don't believe in this talk of such relationships doomed to fail. But they require intelligence and a fair measure of freedom - a guy whose self-image and livelihood cannot be damaged by a relationship with a girl with a past, and a girl who does not see in relationships and marriage a path back to "respectability."

The painter Pierre Bonnard had a lifelong relationship with a girl called Martha who when he met her had a "reputation;" so did the girl's mother. Late in life - both nearing retirement age - she overheard two housewives at the market saying of her: "She is not the sort of woman one marries." Within a week, Bonnard married Marthe.

[Laurentius]

Originally Posted by pjorourke

Even I am not going to touch this line.

What? About sex being a pain in the @ss sometimes? Well, I admit ... an unfortunate choice of words! LOL

How about this: "Sometimes the pleasure derived from sex is insufficient to justify the logistical and scheduling problems it entails."

For me, the minimum time outside of a session that is entailed in travel, logistics and scheduling is 6 hours. That time is shortened up to only 2-3 hours if there is no sex; so sometimes a no-sex date is just a lot more feasible.

This is no different than the pricing arguments really. A man plunks down his money when he believes the woman's merits cross the threshold of her pricing so that *to him* she represents a good value. Well, my time is valuable just like my money. For me to plunk down 6 hours of time on top of the time scheduled for the session, the woman has convinced me that I would enjoy her intimate company sufficiently to be worth the 6 hours.

Sometimes, even if I am quite convinced, I just don't have the 6 hours. But I might scrape up two or three. That's where the no-sex date comes in. Anyone I'd schedule for a no-sex date is someone that, if I had the 6 hours proximately, I'd happily schedule for a sex date instead.

[pjorourke]

I understand Laurentis, I have the same trouble scheduling 6 hours. Of course, I can't last 6 hours -- at least not more than once a week.

[Niki Filly]

you guys are going way to deep. making my head hurt.

I got into this buisness cause i dont seem to be able to like someone well enough to want to put up with them on a daily basis. and im trying to get out of debt faster. its been working. im almost there. i love their peckers. but thats as far as it goes for me. u do it for free n they want to get attached. so im killing 2 birds with 1 stone

i have met alot of real nice guys though. im learning they are not all jerks. ty to all the nice guys who have visited me.

[Laurentius]

Originally Posted by Niki

you guys are ... making my head hurt.

Hey! Hold on! Aren't we paying for you to *not* have a headache? (*chuckle*)