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Old 03-10-2016, 01:17 PM   #76
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Old 03-10-2016, 03:13 PM   #77
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A win-win because we get to be disrespected and degraded on the boards yet still make money? How about if you only like spinners then don't pay to fuck a bigger girl. No need to demean her in the process.

From what I have seen on eccie there's not much of a prejudice against fat hookers. I believe that an overweight hook is more likely to receive a chorus of affirmation when complaining that a paying customer became critical about her weight. This alone surprises the shit out of me. That's not all there is to it though.

In a professional environment, or in any work environment really, a female that does not sell her ass for money should not be tormented about physical imperfections. I believe this to be true and I think most normal people feel the same.

If you choose to be a hook, the rules of the game change. That $200 an hour you wouldn't be able to demand under any other circumstances is an invitation to be objectified. Along with the extra $$$ comes judgmentalism, and criticism.

You ask for it when you sell your ass for money.

On the plus side you don't need an education, a clean criminal background, or a moral compass of any kind.

It's give and take. Like push/pull.

Most of the hooks make a conscious (if they're intelligent and self-aware) or subconscious (if they're morons) decision to forego participation in socially acceptable lifestyles in exchange for easy money. But there's like consequences for everything, and being poked, prodded and fucked with is the cost of doing business.

That's my take on this critical issue folks.
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Old 03-10-2016, 03:22 PM   #78
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Old 03-10-2016, 03:38 PM   #79
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Old 03-10-2016, 03:41 PM   #80
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I'm making it my business to seek out a chunky-wunky hook and give her some business.
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I'm with you , finally someone gets it

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Old 03-10-2016, 03:46 PM   #82
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how the fuck hard could it be?
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And still the constant complaining.
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Old 03-10-2016, 04:21 PM   #84
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I don't have an issue with it. In the time I've been here I can only remember seeing two or three slightly rude comments made about me in terms of my weight. I've been here since
August so for me personally rude comments are not a regular issue. I just feel bad for other girls sometimes.
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Do you believe that hooks relinquish the right to sanctimony and moral indignation when they make the decision to fuck for money?
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Well I've never been sanctimonious. I think we still deserve a certain level of basic human respect, just like anyone else. Just because many view what we do as immoral doesn't mean all morality and justice go out the window. And the men on this site are just as immoral as we are, we are only on opposite sides of the slash.
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Yes. We are all pigs.

My point is that the hooks are selling a service. As long as the paying customer observes a set of very loosely defined rules, I find it silly that the hook believes she is entitled to very much more than the agreed upon price.

Do not take this to mean that we should have the freedom to be physically abusive.

But objectification is an essential element to the entire transaction.

Complaining, and I mean really complaining, about being called a fatso is essentially equivalent to an athlete or a performer complaining about being booed. It's not just unprofessional (hookers should not be expected to be professional), it's idiotic and childish.

You pay the admission price and you buy the right to express dissatisfaction. Simple.
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The issue is when men who haven't paid the admission price still feel the need to input their opinion. Sure, if someone pays for time with a lady and they leave a bad review because they're unsatisfied it is much different than men on the board verbally attacking and degrading a girl when they have never even met them in person.
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Honestly though, it can be a good thing when men are blatant assholes on the board. It gives us ladies an additional screening tool when choosing who we agree to see and who we turn down.
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Honestly though, it can be a good thing when men are blatant assholes on the board. It gives us ladies an additional screening tool when choosing who we agree to see and who we turn down.
Interestingly, I am told that I'm on a bunch of Provider's "TODO" lists....
In spite of Tori besmirching my character.....


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like the OP of her latest review?
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Nah...he might not be thrilled that I spill the beans, but he's actually a nice guy lol sorry Pauly
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