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Old 12-02-2010, 05:00 AM   #76
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And I found that the gentlemen always rewards for that spontaneity.
Hopefully not in the way of a tip.
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Old 12-02-2010, 01:58 PM   #77
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Those impromptu meetings have never been confusing for me. But then again, these meetings have been with people that I'm very close with and have certain kind of understanding. In the first situation where I meet the patron for an impromptu meeting, the key is the meeting being "impromptu." And I found that the gentlemen always rewards for that spontaneity.
And on the flip side, gents who are the recipients of such time are close enough with the lady that I think they also understand what a meeting is or isn't.
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Old 12-02-2010, 02:35 PM   #78
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You assume they're trying to convince other people, Silly Girl. Me thinks they're trying to convince themselves it's alright not to tip.





Not surprised.
Why would you not be surprised at that? I don't ask for extra time and don't expect any and surely, don't hang around til the lady has to ask me to leave.
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Old 12-02-2010, 02:43 PM   #79
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Sydney, you have a valid point but it just confirms my feeling that a Provider is a professional on par with doctors and lawyers. You may feel that Providers are even above them in service. I'm not sure about your opinion on that but wouldn't argue the point either way.
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Old 12-02-2010, 02:58 PM   #80
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The barber gets tipped because in the general structure of tipping hair folks get tipped.
The service providers give is highly intimate, for sure. But is it any more intimate than a doc poking around your insides or a lawyer poking around in your secrets?
I don't like using the words "lawyer" and "poking" in the same sentence.
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Old 12-02-2010, 03:01 PM   #81
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(is there a smiley for eyeballs rolling?)
Yup! I use it a LOT!
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Old 12-02-2010, 03:10 PM   #82
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Victoria, do these situations ever get confusing for you? For ladies who insist they're being compensated for time/company (which is all of us), how do you start to distinguish certain times when your company is to be compensated, versus just going out as friends? I would wonder if it would be awkward to request/expect compensation for the next get-together after an earlier one had been off-the-clock.

Not that I've never done it. But it did get confusing.
I had a similar conversation with a friend recently (who may drop in here). He has mainly been following the sugar baby route recently (after a particularly nasty experience with an escort/pimp) where the compensation patterns are often ongoing as opposed to per meeting.

Candidly, the form, frequency or amount is not really the issue to me. You find a lady (or ladies) with whom you are compatible and work out some kind of a deal based on your mutual expectations regarding frequency of meetings and degree of involvement. Seems I've been doing that with women since my teens. (And please, no cracks about how long that's been.) The escort world is more oriented towards posted prices, the SD world less so. but a variety of arrangements prevail in both.
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Old 12-02-2010, 11:34 PM   #83
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I know that random acts of kindness go on all the time. I was just trying to say that I took SRonly's action as just that. A kind gesture. No more, no less. Why analyze every little thing that is done out of kindness. Accept it, say thank you, and enjoy it.
If that was aimed at my initial comment, then you've spent too much time analyzing to see that there was just a simple basic question in there. If it wasn't (aimed at me) then I have no idea who your initial comment was aimed at because no-one else had responded to SR's post at that point. Either way, I don't really care what you think about me enough to go back and explain...or to comment further on this.
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Old 12-03-2010, 12:00 AM   #84
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If that was aimed at my initial comment, then you've spent too much time analyzing to see that there was just a simple basic question in there. If it wasn't (aimed at me) then I have no idea who your initial comment was aimed at because no-one else had responded to SR's post at that point. Either way, I don't really care what you think about me enough to go back and explain...or to comment further on this.
I understood what she she was trying to say Camille. I think your response was too harsh. You know, 'tis the season...
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Old 12-03-2010, 03:24 AM   #85
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If that was aimed at my initial comment, then you've spent too much time analyzing to see that there was just a simple basic question in there. If it wasn't (aimed at me) then I have no idea who your initial comment was aimed at because no-one else had responded to SR's post at that point. Either way, I don't really care what you think about me enough to go back and explain...or to comment further on this.

Relax Camille it's the holiday season and gifts are flying. You appear to be a beautiful woman and your reviews are great. I see no issue with you getting tips
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Old 12-03-2010, 07:18 AM   #86
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Im a very big tipper due to the fact ive been there & know how it feels to b given next to nothing while being paid next to nothing (long long ago)....and i give a p411 discount
I never expect a tip and i feel it would b rude to even mention expecting one
Its just pure joy when u do get one as to me its a sincere form of flattery IT MEANS YA REALLY REALLY LIKED IT!! mmmm
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Totally and completely agree!

I have been on every side of the fence as far as money is concerned. I know how hard it can be to make it, and I also know how easy it is to come by. Now that I am in the latter, but still strongly feel the effects of the former, I do tip! But, my SO still tips way more then me, especially when it involves a pretty thing!

Again, like Sweet n little said, tips are never expected. I do understand how hard it can be to make the money.....also the reason why I run specials. When I do specials, I never, ever expect a tip to equal my full price. Actually, it would upset me because then I know you didn't take advantage of a special I was offering you.
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Old 12-03-2010, 07:35 AM   #87
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When I do specials, I never, ever expect a tip to equal my full price. Actually, it would upset me because then I know you didn't take advantage of a special I was offering you.
Well said!
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I know that random acts of kindness go on all the time. I was just trying to say that I took SRonly's action as just that. A kind gesture. No more, no less. Why analyze every little thing that is done out of kindness. Accept it, say thank you, and enjoy it.
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If that was aimed at my initial comment, then you've spent too much time analyzing to see that there was just a simple basic question in there. If it wasn't (aimed at me) then I have no idea who your initial comment was aimed at because no-one else had responded to SR's post at that point. Either way, I don't really care what you think about me enough to go back and explain...or to comment further on this.
I'm sorry if you felt like you got caught in between my comments. I was trying to explain to Flwrite and Rudyard that I knew that random acts of kindness do happen. When I said "why analyze...." it was more of a statement than a question that I blurted out. All my life I thought gifts had strings or promises attached to them. Just in this past year I have learned differently. Again, I am sorry if you thought my statement was aimed at you. I guess it was aimed at no one in particular, everybody in general.
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Old 12-04-2010, 04:01 PM   #89
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Theyres cheap whores out there for you boys, no worries (:

With all due respect, If a guy made that statement because of a girls rates, we would jump right down his throat. That's not very nice to say. Every woman that has ever set a rate considers many things when she does so. I personally don't think she deserves to be called names any more than someone in a higher price range. Come on now! Be nice....


Oh, and I have no idea what you guys were arguing about, I just saw that and it bothered me. Sorry!
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Old 12-04-2010, 07:14 PM   #90
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With all due respect, If a guy made that statement because of a girls rates, we would jump right down his throat. That's not very nice to say. Every woman that has ever set a rate considers many things when she does so. I personally don't think she deserves to be called names any more than someone in a higher price range. Come on now! Be nice....
Totally agree.

I absolutely cannot stand it when a provider who charges more (say $500) either states or implies that a provider who charges less (say $250) is somehow inferior to her. That is utter crap! Every provider is an individual and every interaction is unique.

That sort of mindset is a hyper-materialization of humanity to the nth degree and IMHO, morally repugnant.
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