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Originally Posted by i'va biggen
Like if a woman is raped it is her fault? NOT THE SAME THING. These are people she knows and has a relationship with. Some people have a hard time breaking the cycle of abuse, and tend to gravitate to the same type of person.
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Just making the point that if every guy she dates is driven to violence eventually, maybe she needs to look in the mirror. She must make people crazy with her behavior.
That doesn't excuse it. But still ... what are the odds?
And I don't buy the "gravitate to the same type of person" argument. That never made any sense to me.
How can she know (or sense) in advance if I guy is prone to violence? Do they give off some kind of vibe?