Nympho's vs Paid Nympho's - true feelings on it

[jjkageab12]

Originally Posted by jdough1211

Silly puppy. Run along before you bite off far more than you can chew.

[DownForWhatever]

I believe that Free Hobby thing has already been tried...in Houston.

Attempted to post humorous image..but the link was too long...please move along...nothing to see here...

[Alyssa Marie]

I would like to treat the meme sharing friends to some ice cream so they can talk out their differences... There is a nice froyo spot just north of me. C'mon boys, let's go.

[jdough1211]

Originally Posted by jjkageab12

I thought I'd share this pic of you I found online.

[jdough1211]

Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

I would like to treat the meme sharing friends to some ice cream so they can talk out their differences... There is a nice froyo spot just north of me. C'mon boys, let's go.

I'm down, but I'm gonna have to the bull in that cuckold scenario. LMAO

[DarkeyKong]

Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

Not everyone here uses sex as their career, but your reasonings on why it can't be are just that - YOUR reasonings.
There is nothing wrong with why you are here - everyone has their own agenda.
I'm 35 and there are plenty of escorts that work well in to their older years.
I chose this as my career. When I was young I had fun with the money. As I'm getting older I'm finding a combination of fun/lifetime plans.

I think the reason that you may butt heads is because you tend to see no other way than your way.

It's best to not judge others with their decisions in life. If you do not agree a, "oh.. Sounds interesting. That's not for me, but if it works for you - that's cool." Would work better than a, "sex isn't really a career." I'm proving that opinion of yours wrong daily. It may not be suitable for you, but it is for others.

If you're truly a sex addict instead of enabling your addiction, perhaps some intense therapy may be a suggestion.

Great answer!

[Guest110416]

Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

Not everyone here uses sex as their career, but your reasonings on why it can't be are just that - YOUR reasonings.
There is nothing wrong with why you are here - everyone has their own agenda.
I'm 35 and there are plenty of escorts that work well in to their older years.
I chose this as my career. When I was young I had fun with the money. As I'm getting older I'm finding a combination of fun/lifetime plans.

I think the reason that you may butt heads is because you tend to see no other way than your way.

I do not know WP, but have had a few PMs with her, never butted heads tho. Your reasoning of why reminds me of a couple of other providers, one in particular who has posted on this thread.

It's best to not judge others with their decisions in life. If you do not agree a, "oh.. Sounds interesting. That's not for me, but if it works for you - that's cool." Would work better than a, "sex isn't really a career." I'm proving that opinion of yours wrong daily. It may not be suitable for you, but it is for others.

If you're truly a sex addict instead of enabling your addiction, perhaps some intense therapy may be a suggestion.

Originally Posted by melannie_star

So i'm going to leave it with this note, if the hobby was free, but the boards and ads still existed, and you were already financially stable (so money was not a problem)... As a woman would you still do this? and if you did would you have the same personality you have as you do in this hobby?


Ok.. I had to copy and paste the question so I wouldn't forget what this whole thing was about anyway.. LOL,

Yes.. yes I would, although I most likely would be UTR and only see my regulars.
I have a saying that I use from time to time..
I am just practicing! lol .. One day I will make a man really, really, really happy in and out of bed But until then.. I am all yours!!
I am not searching for my prince charming because I meet many of them day to day. They are just not MY prince charming. The day I decide to settle down is the day I will stop.. but until then, I'm in it to win it! What ever it is I do, I always give it my all. So when I chose to be a "provider" I made that decision to provide the best way I know how. Any how, I am not sure just one man would be able to handle all of me. LOL.

Wulf Princess, these men on the board have taught me so much in regards to what turns them off and what turns them on. How they like it, when they like it , and the ones who want to learn how us women like it!
I really consider myself to be a nympho, and have no shame in my game!
From the moment I wake up till I go to sleep at night, Sex is on my mind. Not just the actual act of having sex.. but the whole process. There I said it.. I feel better now ..LOL .

I do not have anything bad to say about anyone here because I am the least perfect. There is no reason to put anyone down. You never know the situation or circumstances a person is in behind that keyboard. No one hear is the same and everyone is not going to read your words exactly the way they are written. I am just trying to understand all the hostility. Although, maybe it is best not to even try.

Wishing everyone a good day!

I love these two answers.

The question of the OP is a slippery slope and most providers would not respond directly to and answer the question truthfully due to the fact that if they did, the perception of clients would be tainted and would not call them back. For instance, one of the popular (#of yes reviews, ect.) provider's answer is that she does not like sex much, but she does it so she can pay her bills (basically, all about the money). But up to that point, the guys that have seen her for sessions believe that her IOP is off the charts and feels there is a connection (provider/client) and has her in their regular rotation of providers he sees. After reading her truthful answer, some of those clients would have a different opinion of her, even if it is just 1 client, and probably ditch her so to speak, and find a replacement to give him that illusion of the provider thinking of him to be more than just a wallet, so there goes that income!

[Luke Skywalker]

Originally Posted by melannie_star

I do not have anything bad to say about anyone here because I am the least perfect. There is no reason to put anyone down. You never know the situation or circumstances a person is in behind that keyboard. No one hear is the same and everyone is not going to read your words exactly the way they are written. I am just trying to understand all the hostility. Although, maybe it is best not to even try.

Wishing everyone a good day!

And THIS is why I love you !

Originally Posted by daddyo67

Damn! Wulf-Melannie-Tara threesome! now that's hot!

That would be so hot that I think it is too much for the Universe to bear; That encounter might disrupt the space-time continuum and destroy the Universe. Proceed with caution!

[Grace Preston]

Originally Posted by davidfree986

I love these two answers.

The question of the OP is a slippery slope and most providers would not respond directly to and answer the question truthfully due to the fact that if they did, the perception of clients would be tainted and would not call them back. For instance, one of the popular (#of yes reviews, ect.) provider's answer is that she does not like sex much, but she does it so she can pay her bills (basically, all about the money). But up to that point, the guys that have seen her for sessions believe that her IOP is off the charts and feels there is a connection (provider/client) and has her in their regular rotation of providers he sees. After reading her truthful answer, some of those client(s) would have a different opinion of her and probably ditch her and find another one to replace her to give him that illusion of the provider thinking of him to be more than just a wallet.

But see, in all honesty... those of us who have been around long enough to have a good reputation and be known for great IOP, DO actually enjoy what we do. If you don't enjoy sex, you are going to burn out quickly, I don't care how great the money is. Those of us with longevity, actually ENJOY sex. Now, along that line.. we ARE human, and most humans expect to be paid when they go to work. What's the expression "Love what you do, and you'll never work a day in your life"

[Guest110416]

Originally Posted by GracePreston

But see, in all honesty... those of us who have been around long enough to have a good reputation and be known for great IOP, DO actually enjoy what we do. If you don't enjoy sex, you are going to burn out quickly, I don't care how great the money is. Those of us with longevity, actually ENJOY sex. Now, along that line.. we ARE human, and most humans expect to be paid when they go to work. What's the expression "Love what you do, and you'll never work a day in your life"

Yes you are right, I was talking about the anomaly, and you know there are a few. There are many more who have not been escorting/providing but for maybe 3 years or less, and have developed a decent client base, those are the ones I was referring to for the most part. If a lady likes providing because she enjoys sex and gets paid for it, well that is having her cake and eating it too.

The burn out has been there for a while with some providers, trouble is, in the general work place in the outside world, they cannot make as much as or easy money as they can providing so they just do what they minimally can get away with in some if not most of the sessions, getting the same hourly donation rate, then calling it YMMV.

So, keeping with the subject of this thread, IMO the classifications would go something like this: 1). Nymphos - girls who love and cannot get enough sex 2). Paid nymphos - girls who love-like sex, but for the most part, use it to pay the bills, or today's term, providers. 3). Warm bodies, not nymphos in the slightest - providers who maybe like sex, but most likely not, again, use their womanly tools on/with horny guys, but doing as little as possible for them to get a nut, not totally burned out, but on her way and for the hobbyist's sake, the sooner she leaves the provider business, the better!

[lily blake]

I d8nt know any emotionally stable woman that would hobby if it wasnt for the perks of money, meeting great men you wouldn't meet in your day to day life.

It is un human for a woman to give her all to a man more than once and get absolutely nothing in return, no affection, someone to care, shit even dinner. I would never and if someone wants to not see me for that. Shit oh well, im sorry im too great of a person and a lay to get nothing in return. In my regular life or here

[Barrymccockinner]

Originally Posted by GracePreston

But see, in all honesty... those of us who have been around long enough to have a good reputation and be known for great IOP, DO actually enjoy what we do. If you don't enjoy sex, you are going to burn out quickly, I don't care how great the money is. Those of us with longevity, actually ENJOY sex. Now, along that line.. we ARE human, and most humans expect to be paid when they go to work. What's the expression "Love what you do, and you'll never work a day in your life"

I think there's a difference between enjoying sex and providing. The original question (I think; it's been derailed so much) was whether you would keep doing what you're doing. In essence, providing, if you weren't paid. In other words, are you a "true" nympho. I don't think most would. Now, there would obviously be different levels of sexual intimacy by the providers (for some monogamy, for others a few guys they may see, yet others may have sex with a different guy or two a week. That said, I believe that to truly stay in something like this without the money, there would have to be some psychological issues where there is less than ideal self value and sex is used to compensate for those perceived short comings.

I don't think most ladies want to have sex with three - four random guys a day. Plus let's face it. Generally speaking, we (men) are paying up above our number. Most women here would not give me the time of day if not for this hobby, much less sleep with me. From a sex standpoint, you have the upper hand, and I would think quality of men would replace volume of men in most cases. Not trying to insult anyone so I hope it doesn't come across as that. Just trying to add my thoughts and input to the real question.

[!VI!]

Originally Posted by dallastxbaby

I d8nt know any emotionally stable woman that would hobby if it wasnt for the perks of money, meeting great men you wouldn't meet in your day to day life.

It is un human for a woman to give her all to a man more than once and get absolutely nothing in return, no affection, someone to care, shit even dinner. I would never and if someone wants to not see me for that. Shit oh well, im sorry im too great of a person and a lay to get nothing in return. In my regular life or here

eh, i disagree... sometimes i'm just horny, and i just want easy no drama sex,

to me hobbiests are the easiest targets for that "itch" , because most of s are willing participants, so yo are getting something just not something "big"

but sometimes st the sex is enough

[Eva Damita]

Originally Posted by ~Ze~

I have ONE person actually on my "ignore list" and you know what... next to every post he makes there is this little "show post" button. All that above bullshit is just that. LOL


Grace and her fucking bubble... and no, this time I am NOT talking about dat ass.

Originally Posted by dallastxbaby

I d8nt know any emotionally stable woman that would hobby if it wasnt for the perks of money, meeting great men you wouldn't meet in your day to day life.

It is un human for a woman to give her all to a man more than once and get absolutely nothing in return, no affection, someone to care, shit even dinner. I would never and if someone wants to not see me for that. Shit oh well, im sorry im too great of a person and a lay to get nothing in return. In my regular life or here

+1

[Alyssa Marie]

Originally Posted by Wulf_Princess

eh, i disagree... sometimes i'm just horny, and i just want easy no drama sex,

to me hobbiests are the easiest targets for that "itch" , because most of s are willing participants, so yo are getting something just not something "big"

but sometimes st the sex is enough

She did say emotionally stable..