The Real Slave Guinevere

[biomed1]

Originally Posted by Victoriajolie

Biomed AH ! You know I’m transparent good or bad it costed me a lot of points especially past subject :.Now please educate me &?others right way to tell truth .. within the guideline ?
He didn’t defend Z because he went public when I made you aware 2 providers were plotting against you ? So I’m okay because I warn you in pm but he post publicly?do people know?
Have you notice océan been calm in Arkansas .. Oh wait there no ocean just few tornados mostly detained to exempt of Texas blowing your way
My request ain’t disrespectful but would like clarifications S many would do .., I respect your admins as well as you which I don’t know 🤷♀️ HOw
It has drive away many from here
Most members aren’t mean spirit in Arkansas but I did point out bad apples and one that was toward you ..

You may not like what I will say give me points but one or several companions may reflect on others ..I need to screen for my safety and when action create a fear among the community it’s a problem guys think I may put their information in or extort them because of others
He didn’t delivery well it was the truth he removed himself from the board previously because of all issues but please educate the community what would have been okay please ?

Look at the big picture I don’t think I refrain your guideline I’m asking clarifications and please not the to words ..

Biomed am I doing an infraction by asking?
I have insult or attack neither reveal info ..
Im sorry my French loud ass had to speak but in no way I was disrespectful
Im handful trouble with language barrier

Give me points ban me if you want which I don’t think I deserve
But explain to community how he should have done it
I would wish a bit more of community I guess was expecting too much and shouldn’t have share to the one concern for their safety
C’est la vie !
VJ

I responded to the following statement

Originally Posted by Baconman

Well I don't agree with Slave and what she tweeted but I give her credit for defending her friend. However misguided it was. Hobo aka Spanky got banned for defending Zen and telling the truth about the Twitter chicks.

My response was that he was not banned for defending Zenovia.

I further stated that there were a number of ways in which he could have done so.

The ways to defend another from an attack by a third party are numerous and vary based upon situation and the parties/people involved.

Passion when coming to the defense of another is often misguided and misunderstood.

Many things are best communicated through "back channels" (PM's, email, Text, Phone Calls, etc)

This permits the communication of information that; if posted in the Forums, would be in direct violation of the Eccie Guidelines.

It also permits you to share your concerns within a group of people/members that you trust and are comfortable knowing the information you want/have/need to share.

As to the 2nd part about "telling the truth".

Again, how to tell the truth depends on the Individuals involved and the means/manner in which you "tell the truth".

If the means/manner you chose to "tell the truth" is not permitted by the Guidelines, then once again, "back channel" communications may be the best method or only method to accomplish your goal without finding yourself Banned.

I cannot give you a step by step playbook on how to accomplish your goal, as each situation/issue and group of people is different.

[WMJ4657]

Originally Posted by biomed1

To provide context to your question, in post # 53 I was replying to a question about why posting screenshots from Twitter being a bannable offense.

https://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p...1&postcount=53

Based on the question, the perception was that the Member had been Banned for posting a screen shot from Twitter.

As such, it is a question about the Guidelines.

I provided the Eccie definition of a Troll as a part of the initial question as to why the user was Banned.

The Thread was posted with an agenda to attack another Eccie Member, Targeting them for Harassment and Attacks.

My response does not mention Hoblius or the self admitted Spanky.

To the 2nd portion of your question, Hoblius was a NEW USER ID.

As to your accusation that I was being rude or insulting to Hoblius?

The answer is No.

With all due respect I wasn't accusing you just simply asking so if in the future I word something in same manner I am ok with it!

Thank you for the clarification

[biomed1]

Thank you for your clarification.

[Johnsson]

Spanky did what he intended, brought to light what slave and ginger are saying about Zen, how hateful both can be and feed on it, he said he didn't plan on being here long, just repeating what we all already know, and even keeping this thread going gives ginger what she needs, and for some reason slave defends ginger, so spanky accomplished his goal, so when she comes back we can ignore her or feed her ego by responding to her, I for one will ignore her, I don't need anymore 3 am drunken texts coming to my phone

[Precious_b]

Spanky should have kept it where it was referenced.
Unfortunately he suffers the same problem he claims SG has.
A secret account on his part can be equated to a closed/locked account he complains about of another.

Well, thanks to Biomed1 response....

[Victoriajolie]

Originally Posted by Johnsson

Spanky did what he intended, brought to light what slave and ginger are saying about Zen, how hateful both can be and feed on it, he said he didn't plan on being here long, just repeating what we all already know, and even keeping this thread going gives ginger what she needs, and for some reason slave defends ginger, so spanky accomplished his goal, so when she comes back we can ignore her or feed her ego by responding to her, I for one will ignore her, I don't need anymore 3 am drunken texts coming to my phone

Man you are smart indeed since the time out how many she badgers to post or treatened Calling beyond sick I wish Biomed would see that Biomed I personally shared things and wish you understand how many members feel uncomfortable and don’t want issues in this section on the board

Since you are dancing around subject :how he should have display that information ? I think rocky asked you what’s the guideline ?
Don’t label me as a troll because I asked a legitimate question ..So as others
Don’t let Texas ruling you
Unless someone is active touring or working in Arkansas they should keep for themselves

[Baconman]

Originally Posted by Johnsson

Spanky did what he intended, brought to light what slave and ginger are saying about Zen, how hateful both can be and feed on it, he said he didn't plan on being here long, just repeating what we all already know, and even keeping this thread going gives ginger what she needs, and for some reason slave defends ginger, so spanky accomplished his goal, so when she comes back we can ignore her or feed her ego by responding to her, I for one will ignore her, I don't need anymore 3 am drunken texts coming to my phone

Well I agree with you said! But I'm more of the kinda guy who likes to expose the type of person who spews shit on threads. Then sees who their friends are by the responses. See how the angles are being played. Oftentimes I'm disappointed by the way their supposed to be friends leave them dangling out there. It happens more than you think.

[Victoriajolie]

Originally Posted by Baconman

Well I agree with you said! But I'm more of the kinda guy who likes to expose the type of person who spews shit on threads. Then sees who their friends are by the responses. See how the angles are being played. Oftentimes I'm disappointed by the way their supposed to be friends leave them dangling out there. It happens more than you think.

Baconman I agree but one doesn’t have your number to taunt you .As the op is banned Clarifications were given can this tread be closed? So the Arkansas community can move on to positive things ?Is it possible because long this tread go on Baconman is right… a wise men told me once to not bring my personal problems to the board what he didn’t know or want was the issues are core of the board.. one rotten apple can rot an entire basket…why letting the outlet open ? And the problem resurface here?
Again I’m not attacking or targeting close this tread talk to other what’s always the issue in this section…
I would like to move to better tread positive ones Thqt is my request to Santa
Joyeux noel !
Vic

[Baconman]

Originally Posted by Victoriajolie

Baconman I agree but one doesn’t have your number to taunt you .As the op is banned Clarifications were given can this tread be closed? So the Arkansas community can move on to positive things ?Is it possible because long this tread go on Baconman is right… a wise men told me once to not bring my personal problems to the board what he didn’t know or want was the issues are core of the board.. one rotten apple can rot an entire basket…why letting the outlet open ? And the problem resurface here?
Again I’m not attacking or targeting close this tread talk to other what’s always the issue in this section…
I would like to move to better tread positive ones Thqt is my request to Santa
Joyeux noel !
Vic

Victoria that would be incorrect! One has my number to taunt me. But my point I was trying to make I have a certain amount of admiration for a friend defending a friend right or wrong.

[Victoriajolie]

So what are you saying ??
Admiration for who?

[Baconman]

Originally Posted by Victoriajolie

So u you ou are saying ??

No idea what you're saying

[centralarkyguy]

Clear as mud, place makes no sense a lot of the time.

[Baconman]

Originally Posted by Victoriajolie

So what are you saying ??
Admiration for who?

Spanky for Zen and Slave for Ginger! We've seen other threads where friends did the complete opposite. So let's not get it twisted there's no admiration from me for GD and Slave but at least they defend their friends at the expense of others.

[Victoriajolie]

Originally Posted by Baconman

Spanky for Zen and Slave for Ginger! We've seen other threads where friends did the complete opposite. So let's not get it twisted there's no admiration from me for GD and Slave but at least they defend their friend at the expense of others.

Now we speak same language per say ( I try my best been French )
Thanks for the clarification
I am not sure if I understand please explain me “expense of others “
Can you say?if you need glasses it’s pretty clear to me
I could have been that friend literally until I saw what was really happening
I defend deeply wounded ones will I get ban to speak up maybe it will be worth I haven’t cross any look lines on this tread
If I stand by guys I never know maybe it’s the right thing after stories
Vj

[Baconman]

I'll speak as clear as I can to you. You was that friend to Ginger last year. Then you had that blowup with her.