First Contact - Separates Men from Boys

[Admiral Giggle]

TT & BLM

Stop the childish behavior.

It ends now.

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by Tsmokies

Just another trolling blm shit show. Bashing another woman he couldn't see even IF he could afford her. That's his claim to fame...getting his ass owned by ladies on here

You still salty about the embarrassment you suffered for being a WK for BSC Tara? 😂 Talk about getting owed, you are consistent, I give you that.....these discussions turn out this way once the insults start coming my way because I disagree (not bashing) nothing wrong with disagreeing, not sure why she gets worked up and starts the personal attacks

Afford TT? I would have to be interested for starters, you tricks like a hooker up in the age, I'll stick with the younger options. Just like most guys here that hobby. Everyone has their type.

Now get back to the subject how not to be a SIMP and send your style of message, if a simple one liner sets her off, find someone not stuck on their ways, maybe someone that enjoys the hobby still.

[Guest122922]

This isn't fun anymore ... (sad face)

BLM ... how about we take this to a different playing field.
Meet me at the gym ..... I will have you puking up your guts before you even know what's happening.
Perhaps you will respect the "granny" side of me then

Just a word of advice .... living in a "dream world" is not healthy
Especially when you label yourself as "the ultimate existence to mankind".
What will it take to snap you out of that mentality?
Who want's to take on the burden to do so?
You're on your own my friend.

Just Saying .... BIG latin male ...

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by Torre Tames

This isn't fun anymore ... (sad face)

BLM ... how about we take this to a different playing field.
Meet me at the gym ..... I will have you puking up your guts before you even know what's happening.

Just Saying .... BIG latin male ...

I may pull knee and you might break a hip going hard at the gym, thanks for the invite though

[Guest122922]

uuuuhhhh.... I "go hard" at the gym VERY frequently. Didn't earn my three NPC Trophies (National Physique Committee) without knowing the ropes (literally).
I will kick your ass in the gym.
Yeah, you will blow out a knee AND your back AND your hips.
Of course, carrying all that weight, you might not even make it to the gym.

So stop acting like you rule this game ... and you've "got'em where you want em".
Hell .... I would even be glad to take you on in the cage.
You'de be huffin and puffin .... hell, your heart will probably go out in the first round,

Back to the subject ..... You keep mentioning "why is it that one liners get on our nerves"?
Well, why am I going to reply to and try to guide them to proper behavior!
If they haven't taken the time to learn the hobby or who it is their contacting and what is required ... then screw it .... I ain't messing with that junk.
Ain't nobody got time for that!

[Wile E Coyote]

Let's face it, in the hobby, one liners, seduction techniques, ect. are not required. The donation a client pays is all the tantalizing encouragement a provider needs to go BCD with him.

However, it is true that politeness and brevity go a long way in determining a mutual conversation, especially on initial contact.

[Guest122922]

Wile E Coyote
However, it is true that politeness and brevity go a long way in determining a mutual conversation, especially on initial contact.[/B]



Wile E Coyote

[B]... The donation a client pays is all the tantalizing encouragement a provider needs to go BCD with him.

Wylie .... Wylie
You are contradicting yourself here.
"the "tantalizing encouragement" may be different for some providers than others.
Yes, the solid bottom line is the envelope on the table .... but for me (and other providers) ... what is most important upfront is knowing they are sane, safe and civil.
Feeling out if there will be a connection .... very important.

So then you say true politeness is necessary ....
Do you determine who will get the proper polite first contact and abide by that?
But then .... the HH girls ... you don't feel the need?

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by Torre Tames

uuuuhhhh.... I "go hard" at the gym VERY frequently. Didn't earn my three NPC Trophies (National Physique Committee) without knowing the ropes (literally).
I will kick your ass in the gym.
Yeah, you will blow out a knee AND your back AND your hips.
Of course, carrying all that weight, you might not even make it to the gym.

So stop acting like you rule this game ... and you've "got'em where you want em".
Hell .... I would even be glad to take you on in the cage.
You'de be huffin and puffin .... hell, your heart will probably go out in the first round,
!

Relax old timer 😌, you're getting a bit too excited now, Them glory days are way behind you....A Man/Men must of really hurt you at one point of your life, Go take out on him, not on me!........That's right you can't! He put you on your place and checked you years ago and disappeared from your life 😂

I run my own show, hobby just like I like, get it served my way! Why is that a problem? I don't SIMP, I don't kiss ass, I don't buckle, I decide what I want to do, don't care what the next Man is doing. Why is that a problem for you? Maybe I remind you of someone? Tell us about it TT, Who broke you down? I mean what fool would actually stick around and want to deal with the real you?

[GayleMeyers]

Originally Posted by Lucas McCain

If it makes you feel any better ladies, my bosses don't sleep. I'm a corporate bitch so they decide my base salary and quarterly and year-end bonuses. I receive emails at all kinds of fucked up hours from them 7 days a week - half are coherent, half are not. It is what it is. I don't even understand half of their emails so I don't even know why they bother to send them.

My point is that shit is annoying with any job, but I just deal with it because it's the job I signed up for to have pricks determine my compensation so I have to placate them by dealing with their inconsiderate and lazy bullshit emails.

On a lighter note, at least you guys know what the dudes want when you get bullshit emails. I don't even know what the fuck half of my emails are even about and what they are asking me for. I treat their emails like it is a lame ass guessing game at this point.

Yes, there are annoyances with any job. However, being independent means you do not have to see anyone who causes you to think he might be unsafe. Unsafe can mean physically or just that he might be someone who would be less than discrete if given a chance ....

[GayleMeyers]

Originally Posted by Torre Tames

This isn't fun anymore ... (sad face)

BLM ... how about we take this to a different playing field.
Meet me at the gym ..... I will have you puking up your guts before you even know what's happening.
Perhaps you will respect the "granny" side of me then

Just a word of advice .... living in a "dream world" is not healthy
Especially when you label yourself as "the ultimate existence to mankind".
What will it take to snap you out of that mentality?
Who want's to take on the burden to do so?
You're on your own my friend.

Just Saying .... BIG latin male ...

Best to not feed trolls .... they will ALWAYS be hungry for more responses.

[Guest122922]

BLM
Go take out on him, not on me!

Oh. Boo Hoo .....
Maybe you should be saying that to yourself once in a while.

BLM
A Man/Men must of really hurt you at one point of your life...

So ...What .... are you're some kind of psychic?
Waaayyy off base mister. I've only had positive male influences in my life.

I just like messin with you .... although you start to sound like a broken record ... and it just gets boring ...

Gayle Meyers
Best to not feed trolls .... they will ALWAYS be hungry for more responses.

Yes, I got you girlfriend. But like I've mentioned .... the fact is .... ANY publicity is good publicity :-D

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by GayleMeyers

Best to not feed trolls .... they will ALWAYS be hungry for more responses.

Now I'm a troll when I didn't take you up in the only fans invitation 😂 and called you out on it? Sucks that people can't keep it real these days

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by Torre Tames

BLM
Go take out on him, not on me!

Oh. Boo Hoo .....
Maybe you should be saying that to yourself once in a while.

So ...What .... are you're some kind of psychic?
Waaayyy off base mister. I've only had positive male influences in my life.

I just like messin with you .... although you start to sound like a broken record ... and it just gets boring ...

Uh huh, okay 😆 I believe you. It's really easy to get along with me TT, you come at me with respect, you'll get it right back, ask the whores that know me. We can disagree on topics and hobby styles and keep it respectful without the personal attacks

[Bald Bryan]

No way/no how am I going to read this whole, errr, "discussion", but my thoughts on "first contact"....

It's tricky and inconsistent. Some ladies want a full bio, activities wanted, screening info up front and then some just want a brief "hey, you available on June 3rd?" or whatever. There's no standardized approach to how a potential client is supposed to go about that first reach out. If there was, I'd follow it. But unfortunately, unless it's laid out VERY specifically in an ad or a website, there's just no uniform way to go about it and so we have to decide on our own just how brief/long to make our introduction.

What I find strange is that here in DFW, it seems like the majority of ladies want your age and race right up front, which I provide, cool story. But then I go scrolling on Twitter and I see tons of talk from ladies elsewhere saying things like "If you approach me with this shit about what your race is and how old you are, imma block your ass", lol. Like I said, no magic template to follow here...

[Wile E Coyote]

Originally Posted by Torre Tames

Wile E Coyote
However, it is true that politeness and brevity go a long way in determining a mutual conversation, especially on initial contact.[/B]



Wile E Coyote

[B]... The donation a client pays is all the tantalizing encouragement a provider needs to go BCD with him.

Wylie .... Wylie
You are contradicting yourself here.
"the "tantalizing encouragement" may be different for some providers than others.
Yes, the solid bottom line is the envelope on the table .... but for me (and other providers) ... what is most important upfront is knowing they are sane, safe and civil.
Feeling out if there will be a connection .... very important.

So then you say true politeness is necessary ....
Do you determine who will get the proper polite first contact and abide by that?
But then .... the HH girls ... you don't feel the need?

If I am not interested in seeing a provider, be it for whatever time that we chose, I do not contact her in the first place. Being polite is one thing, and depending on the response on lack thereof back, so is how polite I am.


Since the bottomline is the envelope on the table, then that is all that is necessary for a provider to make the connection for the guy to have a good time (it is called roleplay, those that can pull it off and make it seem real and the ones that do not have to advertise all the time and sit around waiting for the phone to ring). Sure, he has to respectful and have excellent hygiene, but let's face it, in this scenario, the donation is the ultimate factor when determining you giving a client a good time. Seduction skills, buying gifts, ect. are not required to get laid.

Turning the tables, going through the motions, telling a guy to hurry up because you have to get ready for your boyfriend to come over, laying there like a warm blowup doll or texting your potential next appointment while your current client is balls deep in you is NOT giving him a good time. Just getting a guy to nut is NOT the definition of a client having a good time nor a basis for a good review. If all I wanted was to bust a nut, rather than paying a provider $300+, I would J/O to free porn on the internet. The total experience separates the real providers from the fakes.