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dilbert firestorm · 10-25-2011, 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by sketchball82

For sure.

I also think that there is an element of the unknown in play. Marriage gets old just because it's a commitment. That's exactly what makes it hard. Forget that you have to deal with the same person in all of life's conundrums.

It's like poker... playing that hand that isn't as strong after the flop. It's easier to just fold and get a new hand.... yet sometimes those risky hands come through in the river and make you rich.

(Cheesy analogy, but it gets my point across I think.)

play texas hold-em poker?

sketchball82 · 10-25-2011, 06:30 PM

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Originally Posted by dilbert firestorm

play texas hold-em poker?

There's another type of poker? ;p

dilbert firestorm · 10-25-2011, 07:01 PM

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Originally Posted by sketchball82

There's another type of poker? ;p

what's the name of the poker you play?

I thought that was what it was called, considering you mentioned flop and river.

sketchball82 · 10-25-2011, 07:52 PM

Ohh yeah. I was just kidding. I play a lot of poker for fun. Normally low stakes quarter poker or something, with some buddies and work friends. Texas Hold'em is a fav, but I play stud, draw, no peek, follow the queen, ... pretty much anything. We normally do one hold'em tourney a month, a hold'em cash game, a dealer's choice night, and a 5 card draw night.

acp5762 · 10-25-2011, 08:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Kandy Kelly

probably because with a provider there is no drama, no fights, great sex, and never denies them of sex...as wife might do all these often.

You can't compare yourself to someones wife. Remember you're getting paid to kiss his ass and give him sex for one hour. The next married client you get picture yourself with that prick for twenty years. Most of the time providers are defense of married guys cause thats the bulk of their buisness. Not only that for some reason you think these guys are the product of an unattentive wife.

guest032413 · 10-25-2011, 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by acp5762

You can't compare yourself to someones wife. Remember you're getting paid to kiss his ass and give him sex for one hour. The next married client you get picture yourself with that prick for twenty years. Most of the time providers are defense of married guys cause thats the bulk of their buisness. Not only that for some reason you think these guys are the product of an unattentive wife.

lol...thats a great point

Anita Lay · 10-25-2011, 08:22 PM

He is playing strip poke her... Dilbert

sketchball82 · 10-25-2011, 08:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Anita Lay

He is playing strip poke her... Dilbert

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acp5762 · 10-25-2011, 09:20 PM

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Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

Perhaps. Lol

What if a whore told you she loves your cock....is that an ego boost?

Good thread, an interesting read. The L-word......does not belong in the hobby world.

I've had a few compliment my cock. But since I am not involved with her emotionally it had little impact.

acp5762 · 10-25-2011, 09:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Naomi4u

I've had three (two last year and one this year) propose to me. Then there was the one that wanted to leave his wife and kids for me (didn't propose but ...yeah). You know that saying about "We pay them to leave?" It's all bullshit. A lot of these men catch feelings quick.

It would serve one of those idiots right to have a Hooker take him up on his marital offer. He invites her to dinner with his family. At the dinner table one of his parents ask, " so how did you two meet" How people meet is often times quite interesting and can make for good conversation. But now this slug has to lie about it, cause he doesn't have the nerve to tell the truth, lol.

sketchball82 · 10-25-2011, 09:57 PM

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Originally Posted by acp5762

It would serve one of those idiots right to have a Hooker take him up on his marital offer. He invites her to dinner with his family. At the dinner table one of his parents ask, " so how did you two meet" How people meet is often times quite interesting and can make for good conversation. But now this slug has to lie about it, cause he doesn't have the nerve to tell the truth, lol.

I have a cousin that married an escort he got close to. He was military and married her when he got back from Iraq. She left the biz. Everyone in the family knows, but no one acknowledges it or talks about it. ... except when they aren't around of course.

Old-T · 10-25-2011, 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by acp5762

I'll say this. If she's not pregnant with your child then you have no buisness worrying with her. I might be able to see it if you were single and had no kids. But she's a pregnant down on her luck prostitute and probably only using you anyway. You have a legitimate child spend time with her.

Man, you come across as one cold hearted guy. I read nothing that said he spends time with one at the expense of the other. I travel a lot--and as I related earlier in this thread I have met two ladies who are each very special to me in their owm ways. I see each when I am in their city for work--that is not at all "at the expence" of the other.

So we should have no empathy, compassion, or concern for a pregnant woman just because it isn't our child? Nice to know the candle of charity burns brightly inside you.

Your assume a down on her luck lady is "probably only using you" based upon what? The nature of her business? I obviously can't know the tone in your voice as you make these posts but as I read them I can hear the disparaging tone as you refer to the ladies in this business. Combining that and your other posts in this thread you project a pretty clear message. Just not one I can agree with at all.

Old-T · 10-25-2011, 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

wow...who knew doing this could become so complicated, quite the balancing act there Old T

Once we all accepted the relationships for what they are (and are not) it became far less of a ballancing act. The two ladies have never met (as far as I know) and are different enough I don't know if they would get along well or not. I suspect not. Curiously, they actually both briefly worked for the same agency--not at the same time. Both completely agree the owner of that agency was a jerk and worse

I didn't meet either of them that way.

Anita Lay · 10-25-2011, 10:33 PM

Naomi, they just want something they can't have and the minute you get into a relationship and see them EVERYDAY they don't want that anymore.
Play hard to get works everytime.

Dilbert, texas hold em means holding your balls. lol.. ha ha
or hold your wallet close.. lol

Doove · 10-26-2011, 08:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Kandy Kelly

probably because with a provider there is no drama, no fights, great sex, and never denies them of sex...as wife might do all these often.

And it's also easier to treat someone well when you're dealing simply in 1 or 2 hour weekly/monthly increments.

And when you're paying someone $200 or $300 an hour to show you a good time, you don't want to do or say anything which might spoil that by upsetting her in some way.