PSA for the hobbyists...

[handyGiraffe]

I am completely with Tracie.

And....we need to remember-- She is in this community for a reason...so am I...

If I was seeking a marriage partner I would be looking in other areas.

[ck1942]

Giraffe said it well....

If it were not for the Ladies here, the Gents would be elsewhere. And, fwiw, there are many Ladies out there who are not in here for their own very good reasons.

That said, there are GENTS here, and there are GUYS here, and please do not confuse the two.

As I have said on more than one occasion:

1) Ladies, you are in charge of the rules, and

2) Ladies, you are in charge of making sure the Gents know the rules.

As for "hobby relationships" I urge all to understand that

-- We all have (or should have) private, personal lives and hobby lives, and

-- there must be a line between the two lives

-- those who can respect that line will do well in the hobby;

-- those who cannot will eventually learn why they should have respected that line.

= = = =

I've been around long enough to learn (and to repeatedly learn) the above.

[fenix11]

Amen!!!! Couldn't have said it better myself.

And for the record that shit is definitely Platinum!!!

Originally Posted by handyGiraffe

I am completely with Tracie.

And....we need to remember-- She is in this community for a reason...so am I...

If I was seeking a marriage partner I would be looking in other areas.

[thatgirlbailey]

Originally Posted by ck1942

Giraffe said it well....

If it were not for the Ladies here, the Gents would be elsewhere. And, fwiw, there are many Ladies out there who are not in here for their own very good reasons.

That said, there are GENTS here, and there are GUYS here, and please do not confuse the two.

As I have said on more than one occasion:

1) Ladies, you are in charge of the rules, and

2) Ladies, you are in charge of making sure the Gents know the rules.

As for "hobby relationships" I urge all to understand that

-- We all have (or should have) private, personal lives and hobby lives, and

-- there must be a line between the two lives

-- those who can respect that line will do well in the hobby;

-- those who cannot will eventually learn why they should have respected that line.

= = = =

I've been around long enough to learn (and to repeatedly learn) the above.

A HUGE bold/underlline/italic +1

[Guest101314]

I love you fenix11.

LOL

Originally Posted by fenix11

Amen!!!! Couldn't have said it better myself.

And for the record that shit is definitely Platinum!!!

[Guest101314]

And thank you ck!! Yes, the rules should be respected at all times! I hate to have to tell a gent that I can't see him anymore because he's making me uncomfortable. :/ We have a mutually beneficial relationship, let's not mess it up. If I wanted weirdness in dates, I'd date civie guys. hhahahaha :P