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Originally Posted by searchthelimits
When any tragedy happens most people express sympathy for the injured party and try to show some support. That was the entire purpose of this thread. But because I didn't want to publicly identify the victim, I became a bad person for believing that we should cherish all providers. Later the provider that was attacked became somehow to blame for any future problems because an alert was not forthcoming quickly enough to satisfy some very vocal providers.
This doesn't make any sense. For the injured party to be outed and then attacked is beyond any justification. Too many of you that added to this thread are either crazy or the most uncaring people around. If in a time of tragedy the only thing that people can worry about is their own safety without any sense or desire to comfort or provide relief then there is something really wrong.
Attack me all you want for starting a compassionate thread. Attack me for not publicly identifying the injured party. I frankly don't care. If you read all of my posts, their intent was clear. But to out and publicly attack the beaten provider is inexcusably. I feel sorry for you state of mind.
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I really don't mean to give you any grief, really ....but
Perhaps another option is to express your feelings privately. Your anger and your concern more privately directed or expressed.
It really didn't take a lot to figure who you were talking about...did you even think to mention this thread to her, prior to posting it???
And right or wrong, didn't you take the time to think how this thread would play out. The focus then becoming who the provider is, will she say something,
did she alert the ladies, etc, etc.
And I really know you didn't mean to cause any more issues to the provider....but come on. When we post something, when they say you own it....
it means knowing how many different ways the football drops. Not saying that's right, just saying it is.
And remember the last thread you started....and how all that particular provider said was to move things along. With that in mind, maybe this thread,
good intentional, but still not such a good idea??
But perhaps your discretion is something to work on
Hey Ms E.....I'm keeping an eye on ya, lol