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@ ProudofTexas: thank you so much for the well wishes!!! But in response to the idea that I'm not understanding my audience I think you might be mistaken... Just because hobbyist like to talk about sex openly and can sometimes be crude, vulgar and disrespectful, doesn't mean they don't want what every single person in the world urns[yearns] for.[:] Human Connection.
Yes sex is awesome, but only if it's fun! And maybe my thinking is outdated. But I don't enjoy being repulsed, uninterested or bored when I'm getting fucked, made love to or trying to make my partner cum in whatever way pleases him (or her, sometimes). So, in the old tradition of treat others as you want to be treated, I don't send my friends on appointments with men that I think there is a chance they won't like. I rather loose a little money than someone I care about!
That being said, correct me if I'm wrong... Regardless of whether $200/hr or $2,000/hr is your price point, you worked hard for that money and you deserve to be treated with respect and admiration when spending time with a provider, not like a dollar amount that will be replaced in an hour.
@ London Ray: I think you've misconstrued what I said. Like on any date, if you get along you wana experience that chemistry to the max! For some that means sex, for others that means worshiping you, for some it's just feeling like they had a real human connection with someone whose attention was 100% on their happiness; putting limitations, judgments or expectations on what your clients need or want may be why you find yourself working too hard!
@burkalini: Well now I know what your need is, which means if you called me to help you find the perfect provider, I'm sending you someone who you will get along with. To guarantee she and you have chemistry, so you can have the satisfaction you require
And yes, my friends don't have STD's cause we're selective about our clients. Having cash in your wallet isn't good enough to meet one us. There has to be an innate potential for both parties to enjoy themselves... Do you really wana be with a provider that just bends over and says "go ahead" or do you wana experience being with a women who expects as much from you as you expect from her?
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I hope this has cleared the issue up! LOL
xoxo
GABY
Oh honey, who are you kidding, us or yourself?
Pick any term you like - courtesan, escort, call girl, hooker, street walker - we all sell the same product. We just package it differently.
Myself, I am partial to saucy little tart. But that's just me.
Do tell about this mysterious "we are selective" style of determining STD status. The CDC and enquiring minds want to know! I was not aware that simply being picky magically protected one from STD's. Guess I can toss these silly little condoms!
Final thought, I applaud your marketing strategy Madam if it works for you. However, if you desire to cultivate the image of gentility and class, thus placing yourself above the STD riddled masses, do try to avoid the use of words such as "wana". Failing that, at least spell "wanna" correctly.
I suppose at the end of the day it's a question of are you looking for a hooker or an escort?
You pay a hooker to get off... but so does everyone else (can we say STD cesspool?).
You pay an escort for her company (if she fucks you it's cause she like you!). A true escort is paid for time, not deeds... so who have you been seeing???
What's the use in sugar coating things on a fk board...I mean really lol. I don't care what you choose to call yourself, your reviews are what let people know what the real deal is. I need to find a pimp who can make me money, for just talking and dinner. London would be a happy girl bwahahaha...or not, since I would never get laid!
i wasn't sure if i liked you until now (not that my opinion matters or holds weight)
but as of now, i do
wink
If I were a hooker or a courtesan or escort or workin' girl, I wouldn't be shy about collecting something less than my full rate for dinner. That is time I could spend with some other client at the full rate. So, the loss of income component would justify 200 for dinner versus 300 for a full session.
At the end of the day, it is a free market. Willing buyer and willing seller. I've paid for dinner before and wouldn't ask without first offering approx 2/3 the rate for a full session.
Okay, so just think of my rate as double for the second half and free for the first half. Instead of $1500 for dinner and desert, just $1500 for desert, the dinner is free. BTW, the desert is amazing!
Very true, but if you're a woman who claims to never see more than one guy a day, what money are you "missing" by going to dinner with your ONLY client that day? Heh....
I can AFFORD to go to dinner off the clock, because I don't work every day, or even every week...my post count on 3 boards proves that, but not all women have that luxury. Some of them have to actually fly out of town to work, so they have to charge a fee that covers all of that.
Some women actually do have to see 2-3 guys a day, 5 days a week, so for them, you're correct...they lose money by giving their time away, because they probably have another dude coming in an hour.
I have 2 dinner rates listed, but if I am being honest, I only charge for that dinner when I am out of town...why? Because I had to pay for a hotel and a flight. At home, I use incalls that are being paid for regardless, and I don't see but 1-2 guys a week. Why not have dinner after?
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Originally Posted by Jewish Lawyer
If I were a hooker or a courtesan or escort or workin' girl, I wouldn't be shy about collecting something less than my full rate for dinner. That is time I could spend with some other client at the full rate. So, the loss of income component would justify 200 for dinner versus 300 for a full session.
At the end of the day, it is a free market. Willing buyer and willing seller. I've paid for dinner before and wouldn't ask without first offering approx 2/3 the rate for a full session.
There is nothing better than sharing a nice meal with a beautiful, intelligent, charming and funny lady, followed by some amazing BCD time. It gives you the opportunity to discuss a wide range of topics, have a few laughs, and flirt outragously, all the while building the anticipation of what's to come. When the time comes for the physical portion of the evening, it is so much better than just jumping into the sack for a quick fuck. Of course, that's just my opinion. Not begrudging anyone else who prefers the proverbial "wham, bam, thank you ma'am", it's just my preference.
There is nothing better than sharing a nice meal with a beautiful, intelligent, charming and funny lady, followed by some amazing BCD time. It gives you the opportunity to discuss a wide range of topics, have a few laughs, and flirt outragously, all the while building the anticipation of what's to come. When the time comes for the physical portion of the evening, it is so much better than just jumping into the sack for a quick fuck. Of course, that's just my opinion. Not begrudging anyone else who prefers the proverbial "wham, bam, thank you ma'am", it's just my preference.
Yes, yes, yes! That's what I'm talking about.
And I have to say, I agree with London. I have to fly to all my appt. so I don't have the luxury of just grabbing bite with someone in my home town.
