Falling in love with a provider???

[JohnnyYanks]

Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy

... she doesnt want to return to a hardscrabble existence ...

That's a beautiful word right there, pardner. Good luck.

[justafantasy]

Go for it! Falling in love with a girl who has sex with other guys for money! Make a honest girl of her. What could possibly go wrong? Sounds like a great idea!

[Teagenluv]

I love when guys fall deeply in love with me as it makes for very intense passionate fucking almost always bare since I make them get fully tested) I want my lovers to cream me))

[Dudgeonpolymath]

I know love is blind but a reality check must be done. Having met the way you did, after a few months of being together, can you really trust each other? Can she be happy with having sex with only you? Will she be questioning if you are not back int he hobby?

Finally, could you accept moving forward with her still in the hobby? Many guys would say no as they do not want other guys fucking their lady.

[motocrossman39]

Not Possible

[scsholar]

Originally Posted by Dudgeonpolymath

I know love is blind but a reality check must be done. Having met the way you did, after a few months of being together, can you really trust each other? Can she be happy with having sex with only you? Will she be questioning if you are not back int he hobby?

Finally, could you accept moving forward with her still in the hobby? Many guys would say no as they do not want other guys fucking their lady.

For my situation, I had no problem with her doing it since it was her only source of income.

The problem came in with her not knowing what she wanted. She was a manipulative lying narcissistic wench. I take full responsibility for putting myself in that situation.

[Gemineye]

Emotionally it is dangerous.

[TexTushHog]

Originally Posted by scsholar

For my situation, I had no problem with her doing it since it was her only source of income.

The problem came in with her not knowing what she wanted. She was a manipulative lying narcissistic wench. I take full responsibility for putting myself in that situation.

She didn’t know what she wanted??!! No winder Freud was stumped!!

“The great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is 'What does a woman want?'”

— Sigmund Freud

[Playday]

Simply ask yourself this... what would you do if every night for a month she came home too tired from seeing clients all day to have a regular physical relationship with you. Would you get pissed that you weren't getting laid anymore, or would you run a bath and rub her feet? Would you try to talk her out of this lifestyle even if it's what she wants to do? and if you did, would you use invalid arguments and emotion or cold hard fact (honey, you don't have to work, we'll just become swingers!). The reality is that it probably can happen, and if it is genuine, it deserves a chance, but the majority of the time it's a one sided infatuation being pursued in concert by both the big and little head. I adore every lady who has graced me with her time and presence in the hobby, and while there have been one or two I could see myself taking things further with, I know that it's the wrong 'situation' to assess the comparability in. If you can survive being locked in a tiny one bedroom apartment for several days (due to a storm, blizzard, Godzilla attack, what have you...) then there might be a possibility of a spark, but not seeing each other for an hour or two a week...

Mind you, this is being said by a guy who has that 'one' unicorn he would drop everything in his life and run off to live on the beach if she asked, so take it with an enormous grain of salt...

[zJS]

scshlar summed it up perfectly above.
"manipulative lying narcissistic wench"

Find another woman or leave the hobby. Regardless, ditch the bitch.

[JohnnyYanks]

Originally Posted by scsholar

... The problem came in with her not knowing what she wanted ...

She says the problem came in you not asking: rapey?

[TxTraveler]

Nice thread. Been close to that but didn't work out.
But did have a wife that became a "non-paid" whore when she couldn't accept turning 40....oops, I should say EX-WIFE.
I'd choose the prior over the latter.

[Bestman200600]

If the woman isn't ready to walk away from the hobby nothing is going to work out. All of these ladies have baggage.

[Wanderingcargo]

You can have those feelings for her... it’s doesn’t mean you have to act on them. I’ve had “feelings” for a “provider” before. That feeling of connection with her that you are almost certain she does not share. I just try to enjoy the feeling for as long as it lasts, because it likely won’t last forever.

[darkwader]

Originally Posted by TxTraveler

Nice thread. Been close to that but didn't work out.
But did have a wife that became a "non-paid" whore when she couldn't accept turning 40....oops, I should say EX-WIFE.
I'd choose the prior over the latter.

I thought those are called sluts?