Any African-American providers are tired of the Race Wars

[The Cock Connoisseur]

Originally Posted by PsychedelicMut

When I started looking for providers, I understood fully why most specified that they didn't want alcoholics (no AA - not joking - not LOL). When I found out the actual meaning of "No AA", I was dumbfounded that most providers of all races (Including AA) specified "no AA".

So happy I wasn't the only one. I was like what the hell is "AA"?
I eventually figured it out..Thinking to myself,how could you not figure it out.

[romanticgent]

Skin color does not matter to me so much as what kind of vibes the woman is projecting and how she treats me.

I think anybody who superficially judges someone is refusing to connect at deeper levels.

First thing people notice about me is that I'm really tall. Ironically, I do not care for tall women. lol I dress in a somewhat preppy manner and am a middle-aged white guy, yet I totally dig Hip Hop...go figure. lol And that's just a few things...If people judge me based upon my appearance, they're gonna end up missing who I am, just like I'm gonna miss who they are if I judge them by their appearance. I've found in my short time on this planet that a few people live up to the stereotypes, but most don't.

Judging someone based upon her race is childish: it shows inexperience, ignorance, and fear. I think King would smile at how far America has come, yet he would not say we have reached the promised land.

Ok, this is getting way too serious and philosophical. I can only do so much social commentary in one way.

Peace out, folks.

[Dallasguy]

Originally Posted by GuddKitty2589

I am really sick to my stomach at how much the color of my skin still matters in 2016. growing up as an African American is already challenging but as the fact that I am a sex worker and that makes it even more challenging. I'm tired of hearing the comments :you're my first African-American so I'm nervous: oh I never been with a black girl before :I'm sorry I only do Asian Latino or white(in other words you'll do anyone besides a black girl). the world we still live in still struggles with racism and it is very much alive I see it hear it feel it everyday and I am sick of it! I mean really grow up! nevertheless I would like all African American women who run across this post to voice their opinions in hopes that one day just one day our opinions will matter and we will matter not as a race but as another human being.

Chill. Don't worry. I've only seen ebony providers for 20 yrs. Don't judge the while man, and I won't judge you. I prefer and want all the ebony providers I can get. Not one of my reviews mentions the provider is ebony other than in the initial stats.

[Tiny]

Originally Posted by mattsack2

Hey GuddKitty if race does not matter why do you advertise no black men under 35 here under your biography?

GuddKitty has not answered so I shall speculate based on what a provider told me. Ninety-five percent of clients who are black and on on the youngish side are great. And the other 5% are pimps who can become very aggressive in their recruiting efforts. Thus she may be foregoing the 95% to avoid the 5%.

I don't believe the observations in her original post are indications of racism among hobbyists. However I also don't believe she's a hypocrite for her policy of not seeing black men under 35.

[dilbert firestorm]

Originally Posted by Tiny

GuddKitty has not answered so I shall speculate based on what a provider told me. Ninety-five percent of clients who are black and on on the youngish side are great. And the other 5% are pimps who can become very aggressive in their recruiting efforts. Thus she may be foregoing the 95% to avoid the 5%.

I don't believe the observations in her original post are indications of racism among hobbyists. However I also don't believe she's a hypocrite for her policy of not seeing black men under 35.

that is certainly a different answer for the reason not seeing AA men. passing up the 95% to avoid the 5% doesn't seem to make sense.

I was told that many of the AA men under 30 don't treat women right or rather don't know how to treat a woman right as many of them don't have fathers and have a type of gang or street mentality. In other-words, they lack culture or not as cultured in the ways they should have been raised under.

[Becca Blossoms]

Originally Posted by GuddKitty2589

I am really sick to my stomach at how much the color of my skin still matters in 2016. growing up as an African American is already challenging but as the fact that I am a sex worker and that makes it even more challenging. I'm tired of hearing the comments :you're my first African-American so I'm nervous: oh I never been with a black girl before :I'm sorry I only do Asian Latino or white(in other words you'll do anyone besides a black girl). the world we still live in still struggles with racism and it is very much alive I see it hear it feel it everyday and I am sick of it! I mean really grow up! nevertheless I would like all African American women who run across this post to voice their opinions in hopes that one day just one day our opinions will matter and we will matter not as a race but as another human being.

Very well said. We're all human and the color of our skin says absolutely nothing about us as humans. About 7 or 8 years ago I had a client stop seeing me because I told him I'm not 100% white. I look all white. He said he only sees "pure white girls". WTF???

Racism is a disgusting thing. I chose to not participate in it. I don't choose my clients by the color of their skin, rather by them as people. I don't understand ladies who have "NO AA" in their ads. Like somehow all AA men are bad. My "NO" list consists of the rainbow of colors of people as well as my client list. There's no safety in racism.

You're beautiful. Don't allow the racist assholes live in your head.

Some may have a fantasy of being with a lady of a certain race, look, height, weight, hair color, body type, etc. Don't take it personal, there's all kinds out there.

[cowboy8055]

Originally Posted by Becca Blossoms

Racism is a disgusting thing. I chose to not participate in it. I don't choose my clients by the color of their skin, rather by them as people. I don't understand ladies who have "NO AA" in their ads. Like somehow all AA men are bad. My "NO" list consists of the rainbow of colors of people as well as my client list. There's no safety in racism.

You're beautiful. Don't allow the racist assholes live in your head.

Oddly, the lady who stated this thread has in her showcase "no black men under 35". It is not uncommon to see black providers with this kind of policy.

[Boudin3112]

Your opinion does matter. Opinions alone do not make for change. Action makes change. I do not know where the line is drawn between preference and prejudice. I don't like being with heavy set women, I am not into fat asses, I do not prefer tattoos on women, I do not like short haired women, I do not unshaven armpits or legs on women, I do not like pale skinned women, I do not like stick figure or too skinny women. I don't think any of that is racist it is preference. In this hobby world we, the men, get to decide which women we want to see by contacting who we prefer. The women have no choice who will call and usually do not see a picture of us before the first session. Some women advertise their preferences, I don't think that is prejudice on either the woman or the man. I have never been with an Arabic woman, an Indian, a Latino woman (except blow jobs), and a lot of other races as well. If a guy says you are his first black woman maybe show him why you are unique instead of allowing him to get under your skin. Be grateful your actions can help unfold racism for that individual, if it is racism at all.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by cowboy8055

Oddly, the lady who stated this thread has in her showcase "no black men under 35". It is not uncommon to see black providers with this kind of policy.

LOL!!! Didn't even look at the showcase but yeah that's pretty..hypocritical.

[Randall Creed]

Not really.

More of an age restriction than anything else.

[Gotyour6]

Skin color matter a lot to me

I like dark, short, young girls

I don't like light skinned black girls.

I just wish they would stop saying African American

You are black, I am white

I work with a guy that IS African American but he is white.

So get over yourself.

AA this, AA that

You are not a special snowflake
If someone says they are nervous have you ever considered that they are attracted to you but they may feel you are not the same to them?

GET OVER YOURSELF!!

[Guest072118]

Originally Posted by Gotyour6

Skin color matter a lot to me

I like dark, short, young girls

I don't like light skinned black girls.

I just wish they would stop saying African American

You are black, I am white

I work with a guy that IS African American but he is white.

So get over yourself.

AA this, AA that

You are not a special snowflake
If someone says they are nervous have you ever considered that they are attracted to you but they may feel you are not the same to them?

GET OVER YOURSELF!!

Im offended, you wont see me Im tall and white, why discriminate? What if I get a tan?







ha ha.

[cowboy8055]

Originally Posted by Randall Creed

Not really.

More of an age restriction than anything else.

Age restriction pertaining to black guys

[lisa.lisa0302]

Tour....Tour all over the country and please let me know what you think.

Those "race" wars comments will disappear. If it truly exist, black providers would not exist in the hobby.


PS this is the hobby, blacks are way more discriminated against in the real world. Which one counts more to you...

The hobby or real life

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

2 thumbs all the way up!

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Agree.

When you're hot, you're hot.

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A hard penis sees no color unless the man attached to it is an asshole.

Yes, as a black woman you're still going to be stereotyped.
No matter how classy, educated or sexy you are.

Old white women are going to stare you down at the grocery store and you're going to wonder if you fucked their husbands - you didn't! You're just hot and they're intimidated.

You're going to get sexually harassed by white police officers, it's not because you're black. It's because you're attractive. Black officers do it too!

.... And you being black and hot just makes you hotter because you are "forbidden fruit" and they want to fuck your brains out till the cows come home.

Yes, you will encounter white men who will avoid you like Ebola because they believe everything they hear on fox news and their mommies and daddies told them that blacks are horrible people - but who cares? Do you REALLY want to spend time with those people anyway? There are SO many people out there that think you're awesome! Why waste energy on the few simpletons that don't?

Oh and if you're from another country, you'll be constantly told "you're not like them" meaning "you're not like black american women, you're special, you're different" -- *eyeroll* It's almost like they have to tell themselves that to find you fuckable. It's ok though - cause they'll fuck you anyway.

You're ALWAYS going to be the target of jokes and people are going to be rude but we're a resilient people - after a while who cares really? I mean it's like ok I can take another shot. Just shoot me. LOL

Bottom line is: Color only matters when you're not attractive. When you're attractive you get away with things other people wouldn't. Hot women get a pass and it's ok. That's just how the world works. Hopefully the lady has a great personality to match!

To the OP: Maybe it's because I wasn't born here but those comments wouldn't bother me. It's perplexing at first but then you realize it is THEIR reality. I think blacks know by now that there are three Americas: a white America, a black America and everyone else. Racism doesn't have to go away for me to have fun in this thing of ours. If nothing else, I enjoy being the forbidden fruit and rubbing my chocolate tits in their faces. The end of the race war would mean that I become accepted and I don't know if I want that. Being a walking taboo is fun and exciting (to me). The day it stops being fun, my home country will accept me with open arms. Just smile and ride it .... all the way to the bank