listen here fuckers stop what the hell you're doing...

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

Geeeez I thought it was bad when the MODS needed to keep a browser open to "Dictionary.com" for Miss V but hell now they need "Ancestry.com" open as well.

I've been looking but there doesn't seem to be a dictionary for whatever gibberish is coming out of her.....

[Noid]

[QUOTE=Whispers;1056758531]You keep bringing up my children and making insinuations that lack either relevance or are based in any facts Shayla..... It's a shame you chose to do so previously regarding your own because it sets the stage for questions.........

Will you be screening for your children when they come of age if they turn to whoring as well?

From the System to the Street

The factors and figures behind the so-called “foster care to prostitution pipeline”


It's an interesting and current article that any parent of children in the Foster Care system should be aware of..... You let us know your kids were taken into that system previously and if your a touring whore it's pretty obvious from your reviews and posts that you are not at home raising them yourself.

Will your chosen lifestyle and support of your sister lead to your support of your adult . children as well if they turn to transactional sex?[/QU/aND POTE]
Annnnnnnd here you have it folks. Foster daddy whispers, how many fosters did you raise, abuse, turn out? Serious question! How many???

[Noid]

Geez whisp, let it go man. How much pleasure can you milk from berating all the girls here. Mommy/women issues much?

[Simply Alisha]

Originally Posted by shayla84

Listen puertricanbaby19 is my little sister, and I'm doing all her screening and all....

I know for a fact that a member on here WHO fucking knows better was an ass hole today to her.
I'm sure you know who you are!!!

You wrote her asking for bbfs she fucking told you NO a million times I know because I'm also reading everything and doing all her screening and setting appts.
So when you come and Try to force the shit on her your a nasty fuck. Then you get mad or irratated because she makes you put one on, get the fuck out of here...
So many people are asking her here, and some of you I know on the board, stop it ain't happening.

She's new, but I'm not!!! She's young but she's old enough to know she's not fucking raw...
She knows ain't no money worth a fucking a std, a kid, or what ever else.

It's gross, she isn't doing it, it's not fucking happening, one more message or I am busting your asses out about it.
Stop it, be a gent, have fun, safe fun, and move along, trying to make this experience a good one.

As always.....the topic on hand as been pushed aside for personal (and unwarranted) attacks.

The issue is...the attempt at BBFS when the guy was told NO. And the onslaught of requests for BBFS.

So, is it even possible to get back to the topic?

And I'm going to apologize right now. This is one of those subjects that are just a really, really sore issue with me....

My take on this.....

The BBFS shit is running rampant. I've been around for many years. And I can factually state....it's a huge issue!

I don't understand how anybody, in their right mind, would risk their health, and everyone else's health (we all dip in the same pool here, folks!)....for a couple minutes of gratification.


The facts are, the increase of requests is happening for one reason, and one reason alone....there are ladies doing it!

Don't get me wrong, it takes two to tango, guys. You men are just as guilty!

But, if the women would buck up, and start acting like professionals, and stop bowing to the pressures of these men....well, guess what? This wouldn't be an issue.


It's gross! It's nasty! And there is nothing any of you can say to me to justify offering this service. NOTHING! If you want to play Russian roulette with your life, then that's your choice. But damn it, as long as you are doing so in this way, well, it's not just your life your messing with. You are putting each and every one of us at risk. FACT!

There is a difference between stupidity and ignorance. And this is blatant STUDITY. The risks of BBFS are all over the place, and have been for many years. So the "Well, I didn't know" card just isn't going to work for an excuse....nor is the "Well, I need to pay my rent". You know what?....I pay my rent, support a couple kids, drive a nice car, etc, etc, etc....and guess what?....I don't partake in BBFS.

Again, there is absolutely no excuse for offering the service.

There is some true irony behind this whole problem. And I find it almost comical. We hear about these lists, and these yahoo groups, and yet not a damned one of these women will stand up and admit that they're doing it. You don't see it in the reviews, etc.

Why are you ladies so hush-hush about it? Eh? Shame, maybe? Well....that right there should tell you mounds

And don't even get me started about a guy "forcing the issue". Force it with me...and watch what happens ....

Okay...off my soapbox....

Alisha...xoxo

[Sir Hardin Thicke]

It's gross! It's nasty! And there is nothing any of you can say to me to justify offering this service. NOTHING! If you want to play Russian roulette with your life, then that's your choice. But damn it, as long as you are doing so in this way, well, it's not just your life your messing with. You are putting each and every one of us at risk. FACT!

OK! We get it. You don't like BBFS. Why are you taking it so personal? I'm not condoning it, no means no, but to equate natural sex to 'gross' and 'nasty' reminds me of those uber religious folk that sex is only for pro-creation. Also, putting a rubber on it doesn't prevent the spread of herpes or genital warts, so if you want to talk about 'gross' and 'nasty' well there ya go.

[shayla84]

Thank you Alisha, I took it as people knew she was New know she's young so figured probably that they would be able to talk her into it or whatever and I wanted them to let to know that it wasn't going to happen and she might be new and young but she does have somebody in her corner and I wanted you guys to know that of course everybody lost focus about him trying to force her after she repeatedly told him no and turned it into something totally different

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Simply Alisha

As always.....the topic on hand as been pushed aside for personal (and unwarranted) attacks.

Had the issue been presented by the Provider that experienced it and not her BigSisWhore who is really just a constantly grandstanding attention whore it would have been seen differently.

The issue is...the attempt at BBFS when the guy was told NO. And the onslaught of requests for BBFS.

The original issue was a request for it. Guys ask. Ladys should choose to say NO and then ignore them. REPEATED requests would never be seen if she did.... Right?

So, is it even possible to get back to the topic?

And I'm going to apologize right now. This is one of those subjects that are just a really, really sore issue with me....

My take on this.....

The BBFS shit is running rampant. I've been around for many years. And I can factually state....it's a huge issue!

I agree..... I've seen the BB Forum run by the guys here and read the ways they go about getting what they want and agree it is a huge issue...... But whose issue is it? It is a service some seek and some provide and I believe much of the issue comes from trying to shove it into the shadows. That forum should exist here and chips should fall where they do.

I don't understand how anybody, in their right mind, would risk their health, and everyone else's health (we all dip in the same pool here, folks!)....for a couple minutes of gratification. Everyone assesses risk differently Alisha. You have to put in perspective that much of society considers what we all do in interacting with you ladies to risking our and other's health. The Red Cross prohibits anyone that has had sex with a prostitute from donating blood even.

The facts are, the increase of requests is happening for one reason, and one reason alone....there are ladies doing it!

AND the community is rapidly growing....

Don't get me wrong, it takes two to tango, guys. You men are just as guilty!

But, if the women would buck up, and start acting like professionals, and stop bowing to the pressures of these men....well, guess what? This wouldn't be an issue.

PRESSURE does not always exist....... For many ladies it is simply money....... I've been amazed at the number of women over the years willing to go BB when they realize they just ran out of condoms...

It's gross! It's nasty! And there is nothing any of you can say to me to justify offering this service. NOTHING! If you want to play Russian roulette with your life, then that's your choice. But damn it, as long as you are doing so in this way, well, it's not just your life your messing with. You are putting each and every one of us at risk. FACT!

Agreed. Factor in all the addicts in the mix that are IV users and it's scary

There is a difference between stupidity and ignorance. And this is blatant STUDITY. The risks of BBFS are all over the place, and have been for many years. So the "Well, I didn't know" card just isn't going to work for an excuse....nor is the "Well, I need to pay my rent". You know what?....I pay my rent, support a couple kids, drive a nice car, etc, etc, etc....and guess what?....I don't partake in BBFS.

You are not the average lady here.

Again, there is absolutely no excuse for offering the service.

There is some true irony behind this whole problem. And I find it almost comical. We hear about these lists, and these yahoo groups, and yet not a damned one of these women will stand up and admit that they're doing it. You don't see it in the reviews, etc.

That stems from the admonishment both receive from the community unfortunately.....

Why are you ladies so hush-hush about it? Eh? Shame, maybe? Well....that right there should tell you mounds

And don't even get me started about a guy "forcing the issue". Force it with me...and watch what happens ....

Okay...off my soapbox....

Alisha...xoxo

Very little is "forced" in my opinion...... Deception is a much bigger factor in it all.

[Simply Alisha]

Originally Posted by Sir Hardin Thicke

OK! We get it. You don't like BBFS. Why are you taking it so personal? I'm not condoning it, no means no, but to equate natural sex to 'gross' and 'nasty' reminds me of those uber religious folk that sex is only for pro-creation. Also, putting a rubber on it doesn't prevent the spread of herpes or genital warts, so if you want to talk about 'gross' and 'nasty' well there ya go.

I do believe I warned ya'll that this was a very sore subject with me....

When I say it's gross and nasty, I mean in this hobby. To be swapping so much bodily fluids from person to person just isn't safe. The stats are out there.

And I realize there are risks involved in this hobby. But why are we willing to accept more?

And why do I take it so personal? I'll tell you why...

I get emails/texts/pms on a weekly basis asking for this service. And I cringe every time I get one.

On more than one occasion I have been put in a compromising position regarding this matter. And it's something that's happening more and more frequently. Just a few short years ago....nobody would dare ask for it, yet alone attempt it. It was that taboo.

The reality is, when a service starts to become "the norm", gents just assume it's an option. After all, I'm GFE, right? So surely this is on the menu. That's the line I get. And they attempt it, no questions asked. Can you even imagine being as small as I am, with a 200lb male hovering over me, trying to attempt this? Not a position I deserve to be in. It makes for an awkard, and possibly dangerous, situation.

At the end of the day, I know all I can do is have my limits, and hope those who grace me with their presence respect them.

Now, I'm going to slink back into my quiet little rabbit hole

Alisha...xoxo

[missi hart]

alisha, come out of your rabbit hole more often, please. having yet another smart and sexy woman add her input is exactly what the coed section can use. austin is lucky to have you and all the other smart, strong and sexy women. the coed section is a better place because of your voices.

[Sir Hardin Thicke]

I don't disagree with you, but it seems that is another risk of the hobby - at least for the ladies - where a guy is going to ask for BBFS. Again, I'm not condoning it. Some guys will ask for it because 'other' ladies allow it, or simply take advantage of a young and new girl's naiveté
to try and get her to BBFS. Will it continue? Yes and it won't be the last time, but we seem to keep talking about it a lot on this board.

[David.Douchehurst]

Originally Posted by Simply Alisha

On more than one occasion I have been put in a compromising position regarding this matter. And it's something that's happening more and more frequently. Just a few short years ago....nobody would dare ask for it, yet alone attempt it. It was that taboo.

The reality is, when a service starts to become "the norm", gents just assume it's an option. After all, I'm GFE, right? So surely this is on the menu. That's the line I get. And they attempt it, no questions asked. Can you even imagine being as small as I am, with a 200lb male hovering over me, trying to attempt this? Not a position I deserve to be in. It makes for an awkard, and possibly dangerous, situation.

Pursonallee, bein' an ol' sum'bitch, Ah don't thinck tha raw dog barebackin' is more common now that it evah wuz, o'erall. But Ah do thinck it's more common in tha on-line hoogar/monger cornmuntitty than it usedt ta be becuz tha cornmuntitty ain't whut it usedt ta be.

Back in tha daze o' the Delphi bulletin board an' tha early days o' ASPD, tha only fellers and fillies that wuz familyer wif an' used tha interwebs an' had high-speed access were yer white collar high-falutin' perfesshunal types. E'erythang wuz a lot more genteel an' well-behaved, on tha boards an' BCD cuz them folks wuz mostly well-behaved and well regulated in thar perfessunal lives an' that carried o'er inta this h'yar hobby.

Long 'bout tha time craiglist really took off in tha late 90's thangs started ta change, wif sum fellers an' fillies cummin' o'er ta ASPD frum thar. But still e'erybuddy mostly was still a-showin' thar momma learnt them sum manners. But sumtime after 2000, high-speed innernet access from home got cheap an' easy ta git an' e'en a lot o' blue collar, more ruffneck, high skool locker room types got usedt ta usin' cornputers at thar jobs and then tha fellers an' fillies thet kept on a-keepin' on cummin o'er frum craigslist 'r EROS started ta take o'er demograffickamahlly. An' now it's backpage instaid o' craigslist, but it's still tha same deal.

Whut we got as a ree-sult is thet this h'yar on-line cornmuntitty is made up of a different profile o' peeple, an' a lotta them, fellers and fillies, ain't cut frum tha same cloth as tha folks wuz back in tha day. Lots more of them is willin' ta raw-dog it, willin' ta take risks, willin' ta be pushy 'r dee-cept've, willin' ta put thar own sweet self inta desperate sitch-yew-ay-shuns.

They wuz always a-roun', a-dewin' whut they dew, but they usedt ta be roamin' tha streets 'r in tha parkin' lots o' strip clubs 'r readin' tha classimuhfied ads in tha Chronicle. Nowadays, they's on h'yar.

Welcum ta tha 21st centshuree!

[puertricanbaby19]

All my sister want is for me to be safe! Love You Shayla

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

Originally Posted by shayla84

yep I sure did you know what I think of every time I see your name in somebody's post, the teacher in Charlie Brown want want want want want want want want want want want want want want want blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah I'm a gay homophobe babababababababababababa I like dick up my butt blah blah blah blah blah blah what's up I'm really fat blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah I'm about to have a heart attack bobble bobble bobble

yep that's about what I hear

Omg I'm dying over here. :Rofl: just as a point of order: it is not against the rules to post the handles of those pming asking for bareback or summarizing someone's pm in a post. It is, however, against the rules to quote or post the whole pm.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Hottentot Venus

Omg I'm dying over here. :Rofl: just as a point of order: it is not against the rules to post the handles of those pming asking for bareback or summarizing someone's pm in a post. It is, however, against the rules to quote or post the whole pm.

Thick Thighs Make The Dick Rise. Is that Houston thing?

[Windinhishair]

O.P.

When in the history of Eccie have you ever seen any change in monger behavior simply because some provider jumped on the boards scolding and verbally assaulting members? Never!

In Every case it has resulted in the dramatic attention you're seeking. Nothing more than back and forth insults which result in lost revenue for the provider.

Do your job as a protector and simply instruct this supposed grown lady to say "NO" to inquiries and use block like any sensible provider.

This dramatic performance isn't nearly so much about BBFS as it is about drawing attention to yourself.

Unfortunately it makes the poor girl come across as some completely incompetent dummy unable to utilize basic common sense and stand on her own two feet.

If she is unable to simply respond "NO" to requests and block them like every other Eccie provider does on a regular basis than perhaps you should be helping her fill out an application at HEB rather than helping her get in over her head.

The hobby won't change just because you start acting like mama-drama bear in one coed thread.

The sad part is this will permanently link her to you which means all of those members disinterested in you will automatically write her off.

Let the girl establish her own presence on the board. She might have more smarts and class than you credit her for.

You've basically put her in the category of being beneath you on the totem pole. If you were an in-demand provider it wouldn't be so bad.

Image wise you've clipped her wings before she's even had a chance to fly all under the pretense of protecting her.