I think the eccie guys set things up fairly well
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On the opposite end I enjoy watching and reading what the guys say and how they interact. I use it as a valuable screening tool with the various personalities I may feel uncomfortable around I take in consideration if they will be as respectful or disrespectful BCD with me.
With that I'd assume some guys may do the same here. If a gent decides he does not like that I partake in the discussions or what I have to say it would be much easier to see that he may not need to waste the time seeing me. On the other end I have had some decide to see me (when previously had not considered it) because of how I interacted on the boards.
I believe there is no actual answer if I were to vote due to the very individual personalities, wants and desires . . .but keep in mind the name of this board is ECCIE (escort client community information exchange) and was built for the purpose of both of our interactions on here. . . .and therefore intending us both to take part.