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Originally Posted by cr76
500 dollars doesn't really seem like spoiling.
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As soon as you start to categorise or define, you start running into problems and exceptions. What is the difference between a wife and a hooker? Basically it comes down to legality, and in most cases an intent of exclusivity. Children are an issue.
But many men pay their wife an allowance. Does the wife sleep with them because of the allowance?
Then there is a wide range of hookers, and an even wider range between hookers and the angel wife.
Jump off, friends with benefits, booty call - I think I may be going ethnic lol. But try categorising all these things.
Why would I want to spoil anybody? I filter out those girls at the first stage. No princesses, no 'because I am worth it', no 'send some money before we have coffee', no handbags/shoes/foreign holidays.
My current friend we agreed 500 GBP per month. She wouldn't be with me if there wasn't an allowance. She wouldn't be with me if she didn't like me and have fun and enjoy my tongue. I have had several like this before, it generally lasts up to a year.
It is not an exchange, it is not pay for play.
In the civilian dating gf game, how long would a girl have sex if the man didn't take her out for a meal or buy small gifts every now and then, leading to purchasing houses/cars having kids etc.
Money and gifts can make a girl more affectionate, but it isn't the reason why the girl has sex.
Anyway, stop trying to derail this thread, the world is a complex beast, and then there are women....