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Originally Posted by daratu1
So, allow me to ask these questions in follow up, do you ladies enjoy what you do?
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Yes. It's the best job in the world to me.
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While providing has all the benefits of a highly flexible schedule, travel, and high pay, would you still do it if it was legal and taxed?
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Of course, Yes.
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What if you were payed less?
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Hmmmmm....... How much less? LOL!
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Do you view providing as a means to an end such as a quick way to save a lot? Or do you view it as the easiest way to afford shiner things?
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I'll go slightly off topic here but your question will be answered here a few times.
It depends on who you ask. Some people think we're all here so we can buy bubble gum and hair spray. Meanwhile, SOME of us actually have our priorities together. I stress "some" because from what I have gathered here as of late even the people that seem the most put together have the biggest issues. I view providing as a VERY fun way to make a lot of money. I just bought a new car, getting ready to move in to a new place and next finance an education/business. A lot of ladies here make over 12-20k a month and blow it on drugs, clothes and shoes. Yes they make damn good money but have nothing to show for it because they're bad at managing money or have addictions. I am younger (22 years old) than most ladies here. I am not that girl.
Society sees escorts as drugged out , irresponsible people and that's not true. I am very responsible and have never touched drugs in my life and don't plan on it. My addiction/obsession/infatuation is taking care of my family. That is my high. Making sure my little family is taken care of. I bullshit here on ECCIE at times but that's the main reason why I do this - to make sure that my family has the best that life has to offer.
Daratu, Take a look around. Eccie is a melting pot. There are ladies here that fit the stereotype and live the "hooker" lifestyle and there are others that you wouldn't recognize if you saw them if you were to see them at home. That's me. I'm not a whore/ho/hooker/slut in my personal life. I am the exact opposite. I am reserved, shy (at first glance) and a true conservative.
Yesterday a client that I saw a year ago found my new website and said to me "Do you know how I knew it was you?" I said "No.. how my pictures?" and he says "Well yeah that but you also spelled everything correctly, used complete sentences and proper punctuation on your website. I laughed so hard. What he said was true. A lot of ladies in this business don't even know how to construct a simple sentence or spell so tell me why won't they be here? What GOOD job will hire such? Please enlighten me. There are some ladies here that can't even hold a conversation that doesn't have to do with their cats and pink elephants. Why will they not turn to escorting? For some the ladies here? Yes it is a means to an end. If you don't even know good grammar how will you know how to manage money?
For me, The money gives me
power. I know better than to blow my money on stupid things,
KNOWING that I can walk into a store and buy whatever I want - that is power. Being able to travel and stay at the finest hotels the city has to offer, eat at the best restaurant and shop whenever I want. It's also an ego boost. Not knowing who's the mystery man is behind the door and five minutes later giving him the best ..gift in the world -
Thrill. When I can make another man smile and hear things like "You're the best", "I wish I could see you everyday" ... It makes me happy that I could enrich someone else's life in that way.
There are ladies that HATE providing and there are ladies, like me, that love it. A lot of people say it's not easy money but that's their opinion because for me it is. I think it's easy for me because I am able to separate who I am in my personal life and who I am at work so well. Some say it's not a glamorous job, for me it is. It is what the lady makes it out to be. It could be her biggest hell. However, for women like me, It's fun and rewarding. It's not as bad as a lot of people make it out to be. I think the worse thing I've had to deal with this year is airport security but hey ask another girl and it'll be some guy NCNS'd her or she had a client try to choke her.
This business is so individualized. Again like I said earlier,
it depends on who you ask.
Anyways, If I keep writing I'll miss my flight
. I have a clock-free date in another city today wooohooo! Yall have a great day! smile.
Gotta argue on that one
