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Originally Posted by Victor
It would be hard to condem the entire area because of this.
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(Completely hypothetical)
"Hey Belinda, how is business in Bolixi?"
Great, if you bareback, way off if you don't.
"Hi Tess, I'm thinking of taking a trip to Jax. Can you tell me about the area? Where to stay? Where to advertise? Who are the good ref's? Anyone who won't give me a ref? Any issues I should know about?"
Stay here, advertise there. There's a guy who pretends to be a cop. Your type will probably have x, y and z mostly as ref's. Well there is a bb issue from one or two so just be aware.
"BB! Are you kidding? How bad is it?"
Two years ago, it was just rumor. One year ago, it was Damn, can you believe this shit? This year..it's making a huge impact.
Now
Most travelers will then ask Who's barebacking?
So who should the local ladies protect? Those who do bb, because they are local? Or those who don't bareback? By naming names - you could literally destroy a reputation and thus business/'social' standing. OR ...you get labelled as a jealous vindictive bitch and ruin your own. By not saying anything - are you saying it's ok? Are you then jeopardizing others? Sort of like the Good Samaritan laws?
Tess only addressed the health issue. And that should be enough.
The provider side is a bit more complicated. If you are considering travel to an area, there are many factors to consider. A bb pandemic is a huge determining factor. Yes, there is a huge economic whiplash when bb starts in an area. Local ladies not only begin to get one on one pressure to bb from clients (cause so&so let's me), but a schism (for lack of a better word) starts developing. Providers who bb and providers who don't. Then the client base splits along the same ...then the bb client base starts to aggressively spread.
It's that aggressive spread being addressed here. THAT is really ALL that can be addressed. Is bb in MS a pandemic? Nah but it's become an issue for damn sure. It's insidious, rarely brought to the light and let's face it....for some providers, who can't travel out of the area to a safer area, they begin to feel pressure. Their appointments slow, those they do see start to pressure for bb..since everyone is now doing it (perception maybe not reality), kids are hungry, rent is due, utilities are late this is only the 3rd date you've had this week....what do you do? Some don't have a secondary income or are not as strong as a Tess or a Belinda.
Should you repeat a rumor? No, I don't think so. I could (and did) say - there is rumor of a bb issue. But we are NOT addressing rumor. We are talking fact here. We are past rumor. Known providers. Known clients.
I have always enjoyed MS. TBH, MS has a something special going on. Great providers, great clients and that MS charm (yes it exists). This is something that I think MS will self correct. There is an uncommon camaraderie in MS. You have a few providers doing bbfs. While it was contained to a few providers and a few clients..it was bad enough, but known and fairly easy to deal with. But the clients are growing in number, and bb is being pushed - sometimes point blank, sometimes in a pleading manner, sometimes in a very passive aggressive manner...but it's impacting other ladies' and in more than a business sense.
If you are not barebacking, keep doing the same. If you are barebacking (and there's enough FACT that yes, male and female names could be called) - keep to those who do and quit trying to compromise those who don't.
Seems like the non bb MS ladies are saying loud and clear: "Enough. I don't and I won't and do not push me any farther on it." Naming names makes it a he said/she said/she said drama-rama free for all.
