Question for the Ladies

[macbeth1000]

Originally Posted by Jarvis

From the responses I noted these reasons:
- money
- self-employment

I think for the majority it would come down to those two. The money is as good or most likely better than they would earn doing anything else. It's not about loving sex, it's a job. If they love their job, fine, but that's not why they choose to see multiple men for sex.

The self-employment is a big plus. Work their own schedule, see who they want to, when they want to, how many they want to...

Its the money part that I have been trying to get people to acknowledge but I see their points

[Guest060214]

Originally Posted by macbeth1000

Fair enough, you are entitled to do so.

Originally Posted by macbeth1000

Its the money part that I have been trying to get people to acknowledge but I see their points

There is an element that will never acknowledge that, they feel it's demeaning to admit it's for the money.

The truth is, we all work for money first. I am still looking for that person who will work for me for free.

[Guest070714-2]

Oh MOST DEFINITELY money is a big part!!! But not the only factor.

And yes maybe it is discriminatory. But this is a lot more intimate than a sales or office or pretty much any job.

For example lets say you are a home builder. And you own your own biz. You have an amount of clients that keep you busy, but not swamped. However, you can afford to say no to the clients that are rude, unpleasant, maybe aren't your target clientele. Would you take them?

And this is a personal decision. Some contractors don't care and will take them.
Some, myself included, dont.

This is the same point I made earlier. Please take this in the least confrontational way possible: we are running in circles. I think the answers are there.

[macbeth1000]

Originally Posted by CompanionSofia

Oh MOST DEFINITELY money is a big part!!! But not the only factor.

And yes maybe it is discriminatory. But this is a lot more intimate than a sales or office or pretty much any job.

For example lets say you are a home builder. And you own your own biz. You have an amount of clients that keep you busy, but not swamped. However, you can afford to say no to the clients that are rude, unpleasant, maybe aren't your target clientele. Would you take them?

And this is a personal decision. Some contractors don't care and will take them.
Some, myself included, dont.

This is the same point I made earlier. Please take this in the least confrontational way possible: we are running in circles. I think the answers are there.

Its better to get a direct admission than an inference statement. I understand what you were saying and just wanted to be certain as to what you were getting at.

[melannie_star]

One thing I have learned over these past years is that looks alone is not what gets me off. In all honesty, I have found myself able to climax no matter what the other person looks like. Don't ask me how, but I do. I am just a sexual person.

I know I am not the most beautiful lady to walk this earth.. nor do I expect anyone who chooses to spend time with me to be the most handsome. If I can take anything away from this experience and ever date again in real life.. I can honestly say I will never choose a man over looks, age, or race. I have met some of the most gorgeous men on earth, although really rude and ugly on the inside. Then have met the most "awkward" men and was actually a bit humbled by them.

I find what sets a person apart and makes them different is sexy to me. The old man in the picture still looks young at heart to me.. to be serious. Look at him, he is living it up! On the beach with a younger lady.. No shame in his game
I'm not going to lie.. I don't see the big deal.

[samantha thom]

I think Jarvis got it. MacBeth…it's because this business is a very very personal and intimate than other businesses. I feel I am giving my body and a part of myself to the men I choose to see. I prefer to have SOME KIND of attraction/connection/similarities with the men I choose to see. If I am just seeing EVERYBODY who calls me…hmmmm….I would get burned out quick and probably damage myself emotionally and physically. I believe in balance in life.