Is it okay to "negotiate" a "date"

[bigbobftworth]

I have to admit I am one that makes an offer to the ladies that is usually not in line with their posted rate. I am a fan of doubles, yes I am a true pervert sue me. I usually request the two ladies to come to my house in Fort Worth for a private happy hour for about 3 hours. I usually pay each lady $500 for their time and effort to come to my place. The 3 hours is not BCD, I am 56 and the days of marathon sex for three hours is way behind me. Instead I make some food (yes I can really cook) we have a lot of drinks, or a few, listen to music and have some great conversation and a lot of laughs. The BCD is only part of the evening and I have not had a lady refuse this type of evening. Call it a negotiation or whatever I am not ashamed and most ladies truly enjoy the evening with me, it is relaxed, fun and the time passes much too quick.

[SWEETASHONEY1980]

Hell yes bigbobftworth lets jew them down,better still you pay and cook and i will do the fucking need young stud not old fart

[GneissGuy]

Bullhockey!

It's always OK to negotiate.

However,

1) Be polite.
2) If the answer is "no," don't be a pest.
3) Don't try to negotiate the rate down AFTER a commitment is made. If you agree to a session with the lady, you're agreeing to her posted rates or whatever rate you agreed on when making the appointment. Don't try to change an existing deal.

However, I'm a wimp. I never negotiate below the rate she offers. I do often decide not to partake if her price is too high.

[LazurusLong]

Originally Posted by ANONONE

I have never paid a doctor for time and companionship, and I have never paid a provider to save my life.

Might want to avoid replies like this since there are more than 1 or 2 who would have been better served IF they knew how to save a client's life.....

Talk about needing a reality check.

[Guest061111]

I am open to offers - if I don't agree, I can always say, "NO". However, I historically have only spent this kind of non-BCD time with familiar friends.

By the way - many professions negotiate - even those in the healthcare field.

[Tony Patella]

Originally Posted by rn_sweetie

I am open to offers - if I don't agree, I can always say, "NO". However, I historically have only spent this kind of non-BCD time with familiar friends.

By the way - many professions negotiate - even those in the healthcare field.

I still recall fondly our non BCD get together! Classic example of two people communicating with a positive outcome.

(Of course the BCD some weeks later was pretty hot too!)

[Guest022712-3]

See, as long as its requested in a polite manner, I've never had an issue with going to lunch "off the clock" and charging for dessert. The only exception is when someone wants time thats outside my normal availability.

Post an ISO, or just find someone, tell them what you have in mind, and go from there.

[ANONONE]

Originally Posted by LazurusLong

Might want to avoid replies like this since there are more than 1 or 2 who would have been better served IF they knew how to save a client's life.....

Talk about needing a reality check.

Do me a favor and explain what you meant by that, and type real slow so I can keep up, because that made no sense to me.