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Originally Posted by Ansley
Burst my bubble? Charles you are giving yourself way to much credit. I don't feel like I need to give you an explanation and I will continue to stand by what I said. It's very sad that you aren't able to believe that there are couples out there that don't cheat.
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To contribute to thread drift, I have never cheated on a wife or girlfriend.
Not that I am a saint. When I have been happy in a relationship, though I might have been tempted, the grass over the fence was never green enough to make me risk losing what I was happy with. It just meant that I worked up an appetite while out and about and ravished the home cooking with a little extra gusto at the end of the day.
When I haven't been happy in a relationship, it was ended; whether it was my decision, hers, or a mutual one. I am just not a very patient person if I'm unhappy in a relationship. I don't put up with endless arguments or cold shoulders or histrionics. We either settle our differences or it's over, and they were all ended before I ever wound up in someone else's arms or bed.
Thankfully, I never had kids to drag through any break-ups. That might have changed things. But as it stands, that's just the way things worked out.