Strapon Sex...Working Him Open

[Kinsey Pink]

Gratuitous photo but also topical...thank you for letting me share

[jimmylbob]

Originally Posted by leilover

Jimmy, I'd like to do that again and make you serve me the way I wanted to..: )

Let's do it... sounds fun.

[txcwby6]

The tats coupled with the strapon make that pic extremely erotic!

Originally Posted by ToriValentine

Gratuitous photo but also topical...thank you for letting me share

[JuliaCat]

I am so ready to learn this new thing...you want to be my teacher?

[spice-is-nice]

What a great thread!! I adore this type of play, both the physical sensations and the mindfuck/role reversal of being the receptive one in intercourse. Combine that with attention to cock and/or nipples and it produces sensations unlike any other.

I'll be seeing Tori when they visit here and hopefully she will be able to fist me for the first time amongst a variety of other pleasures from the sensual to the sunnily deviant. I've tried twice, and gotten nearly there before things started tightening up again.

The hardest hobby decision I've had in a while was whether to see her, or her partner, Zoey. I think this endeavor requires real focus, and, though 3somes are fun, I find that they can be distracting and get silly--which is great fun on some occasions, but not this one.

I've read through both Zoey's and Tori's websites and find them both intelligent, sophisticated, and delightfully uninhibited. They've also made many really helpful posts here on Another Realm. Let's make Houston a wonderful experience for them so that they will come this way many times in the future.

[mojoman]

[Willen]

Hi,

Got to this late, but [no pun intended] as someone used by ladies a number of times over the years--most notably as the filling in a sandwich in which I serviced a woman and was in turn penetrated by a second female. And the 'dom' was the one I did, while the 'sub' had the strap-on.

This is a great thread.

I'll say that for me, as a receiver, diameter counts for far more than length. But that may be due to the fact that dildos tend to be 'weight/length' proportionate. So I may be able to enjoy 'longer and thinner' more than 'wider and shorter.' The point being, length and width are independent variables.

That aside, no one has mentioned the effect of having the male recipient suck the dildo ahead of time. My doms have LOVED this.

[Zoey Zacquery]

Mmmm... I love getting my dildo wet...

[Kinsey Pink]

Originally Posted by Willen

That aside, no one has mentioned the effect of having the male recipient suck the dildo ahead of time.

Honey, why would I be posting all these cute pictures of me in a strap-on if I weren't looking for a blowjob?

[Kinsey Pink]

Zoey and I are definitely co-conspirators who just love love watching a gent reaching his goals. We are very much on point when it comes to those occasions where we are both helping someone relax and open up!

Who isn't mesmerized by a happy, hungry butt?

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[keastbr]

I have always wanted a lady to put me in something like the humbler and take me from behind. Yep, thats pretty high on my bucket list actually.

[Zoey Zacquery]

Why wait?

[mesquite]

does it make a difference if a person stretches their sphincter or their entire tract? Say I wanted to be able to take a 9"x 1.75" strapon balls deep, would stretching the opening itself be enough with butt plugs or does the intestine need to be stretched as well for comfort?

[Guest030824]

Can any one recommend a blow up plug that starts out small and will expand my sphincter to a 1.75 size? I can except 1.25 easily.

[Zoey Zacquery]

mesquite- Your entire rectum needs to be stretched for that. You rectum is filled with a series of muscular rings much like your sphincter and each one of them needs to be teased open to accept a large object through them.

tuscon- don't use a blow up plug to force your sphincter open. You need to learn to relax that muscle and open yourself up to accept larger sizes. Your sphincter is a muscle and if you learn to control it well you can get fucked with bigger dildos/toys and you also will be forever safe from hemmorhoids and incontinence because that muscle will be strong and your will know how to control it very well without having to think about it. Forcing your sphincter open, be it with a blow-up toy or sheer force, is a bad idea. Instead get a tapered toy where you can start out at 1.25" and then focus on relaxing and gently taking more and more of it over the course of a few hours until you get to 1.5" and then keep doing that until you can enjoy the size you desire. It might take a few sessions with yourself or a partner to get there, but the hard work will be worth it in the long run because once you learn to relax and expand that muscle, that's a skill that you will have and can keep enjoying! Damaging your sphincter by forcing parter objects than it is ready to handle will not help you out in the long run... Good luck with your exploration!!