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Buying a *Way to Heaven · 09-05-2016, 08:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Boudin3112

The prostitutes do not want you touching them at all. That is why they get paid, to tolerate you, to not vomit when you touch them, and not act repulsed when you go down on them. If they wanted your touch, your lick, your advances, you would not have to pay her, get it? Prostitutes typically act like she is having an orgasm in order to get you to stop, reality is she is not into it, not into you, she wants you to stop and cum so her momentary obligation to perform ends. Chit chat a little, much easier for her than acting like a climax,. It is all about the dollars my friend and for a price you can find a prostitute to act and tell you whatever you want to hear but if you want to feel the satisfaction of pleasing your partner you have to find a real girlfriend. This is merely masterbation by proxy. No passion, no desire on her part, and feeling.

Not everyone hates their job, and just because someone gets paid to do something doesn't mean they hate doing it. Most of us, after all, have to make a living whether we hate to or not. Most ladies, I don't doubt, are indifferent or worse to most or all of their clients, but not all. So a lady won't see if you don't pay? If you're broke no woman will date you and your wife will eventually leave you, does that prove all women hate sex?

BeverlyJ · 09-06-2016, 01:13 AM

Cannot be defined by one to three ladies. DATY can only be defined by the lady you are with at the moment. Some ladies have certain likes and dislikes that are similar to one another but we all are different. Don't expect your normal way of dining to be suitable for all.

I feel like a lot of you guys watch WAY TOO MUCH PORN... From that porn you have learned that Rough, Hard, Fast and Deep is what turns us on. If you CARE about the clit and pyssy you are going to gently stroke it. Not BEAT IT UP. You will take care of it by being gentle. It's my opinion that if you want GDE, you want a LOVE-MAKING EXPERIENCE which is more passionate and gentle. PSE is hard, fast and rough....

Your mustache and beard are very coarse which is irritating ( like sandpaper) to the pussy that is freshly shaved. Go gentle. Go light. Go slow and with a soft touch of the tongue. From the clit to the slit, go lightly and gently.... If a lady tells you she likes it hard and fast and rough, she is probably into PSE more than GFE.

If a lady puts her hands down there to open up the lips for you, pay attention to where her middle and ring fingers are.... She's speaking to you with her digits against your face. If she's pushing against your cheeks, you're doing it too hard and your mustache and/or beard are irritating. lighten your lick and flick. SPIT IS NASTY. it's a major turn-off. If you lick me lightly it will make me more wet, naturally and you won't need to spit. Gently form a suction cup around the clit and listen for body responses...pay attention to the size and hardness of the clit the entire time you're there. A clit that increases in size and hardness progressively as your sucking on it is going to give you a pussy that doesn't need spit.

Fancylady · 09-06-2016, 09:49 AM

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Originally Posted by ben dover

What I want to hear when i'm dining is the same thing i'll say when she gets the BJ just the way I like it is.... "YESSS... JUST LIKE THAT!"

Go for for gals and guys.

....Daty and rimming and uncovered pu$$y cleaner and safer than a uncovered d*ck?

Lucky 1 · 09-06-2016, 10:19 AM

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Originally Posted by BeverlyJ

Cannot be defined by one to three ladies. DATY can only be defined by the lady you are with at the moment. Some ladies have certain likes and dislikes that are similar to one another but we all are different. Don't expect your normal way of dining to be suitable for all.

I feel like a lot of you guys watch WAY TOO MUCH PORN... From that porn you have learned that Rough, Hard, Fast and Deep is what turns us on. If you CARE about the clit and pyssy you are going to gently stroke it. Not BEAT IT UP. You will take care of it by being gentle. It's my opinion that if you want GDE, you want a LOVE-MAKING EXPERIENCE which is more passionate and gentle. PSE is hard, fast and rough....

Your mustache and beard are very coarse which is irritating ( like sandpaper) to the pussy that is freshly shaved. Go gentle. Go light. Go slow and with a soft touch of the tongue. From the clit to the slit, go lightly and gently.... If a lady tells you she likes it hard and fast and rough, she is probably into PSE more than GFE.

If a lady puts her hands down there to open up the lips for you, pay attention to where her middle and ring fingers are.... She's speaking to you with her digits against your face. If she's pushing against your cheeks, you're doing it too hard and your mustache and/or beard are irritating. lighten your lick and flick. SPIT IS NASTY. it's a major turn-off. If you lick me lightly it will make me more wet, naturally and you won't need to spit. Gently form a suction cup around the clit and listen for body responses...pay attention to the size and hardness of the clit the entire time you're there. A clit that increases in size and hardness progressively as your sucking on it is going to give you a pussy that doesn't need spit.

...Coming from a guy who really cares that his partner is enjoying herself.... this is the kind of info we want!!! Thanks soooo much Beverly for taking the time to write this!!!!

BeverlyJ · 09-06-2016, 10:26 AM

Thank you Lucky 1. I'm glad my opinion was helpful. I offer DATY classes also.

Fancylady · 09-06-2016, 10:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Buying a *Way to Heaven

Not everyone hates their job, and just because someone gets paid to do something doesn't mean they hate doing it. Most of us, after all, have to make a living whether we hate to or not. Most ladies, I don't doubt, are indifferent or worse to most or all of their clients, but not all. So a lady won't see if you don't pay? If you're broke no woman will date you and your wife will eventually leave you, does that prove all women hate sex?

No reason to hate job all level escorts cash in and get pleasure.All level escorts come up with all different strategies cash in.Who the hell doesn't like head women or men.Million different opinions..Daty and rimming or uncovered pu$$y cleaner and safer than a uncovered d*ck

cherno · 09-06-2016, 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by BeverlyJ

Cannot be defined by one to three ladies. DATY can only be defined by the lady you are with at the moment. Some ladies have certain likes and dislikes that are similar to one another but we all are different. Don't expect your normal way of dining to be suitable for all.

I feel like a lot of you guys watch WAY TOO MUCH PORN... From that porn you have learned that Rough, Hard, Fast and Deep is what turns us on. If you CARE about the clit and pyssy you are going to gently stroke it. Not BEAT IT UP. You will take care of it by being gentle. It's my opinion that if you want GDE, you want a LOVE-MAKING EXPERIENCE which is more passionate and gentle. PSE is hard, fast and rough....

Your mustache and beard are very coarse which is irritating ( like sandpaper) to the pussy that is freshly shaved. Go gentle. Go light. Go slow and with a soft touch of the tongue. From the clit to the slit, go lightly and gently.... If a lady tells you she likes it hard and fast and rough, she is probably into PSE more than GFE.

If a lady puts her hands down there to open up the lips for you, pay attention to where her middle and ring fingers are.... She's speaking to you with her digits against your face. If she's pushing against your cheeks, you're doing it too hard and your mustache and/or beard are irritating. lighten your lick and flick. SPIT IS NASTY. it's a major turn-off. If you lick me lightly it will make me more wet, naturally and you won't need to spit. Gently form a suction cup around the clit and listen for body responses...pay attention to the size and hardness of the clit the entire time you're there. A clit that increases in size and hardness progressively as your sucking on it is going to give you a pussy that doesn't need spit.

This is awesome advice, thank you!

I've heard the mustache and beard thing many times, just one reason I always shave the day I plan on seeing a provider.

python54 · 09-06-2016, 11:25 PM

I have to say that I've enjoyed this thread a lot. Good info and makes me wanting to pose a question to our lovely ladies.

Quick intro of me...Married 30 years, divorced, had lousy experiences trying any DATY during those times so when I dabbled in the hobby I bypassed it on the menu.

So, after 8 years in the rural Midwest I'm back in the FoCo/Greeley area as I retired early at 62. After a LONG dry spell I feel a bit shy about getting back to the hobby.

I'd enjoy seeing someone and I have a P411 acct etc. But I think some of my fellow participants would agree that part of the fun with a companion is to give her a little fun too!

So the bottom line question would be, are some of my local providers willing to, well, tutor me in such endeavors? I always look at an appointment as a win-win situation not give a donation and then ignore my companion as a real person who has needs.

Maybe I'm too touchy-feely but it's just who I am.

Would love some feedback!!

BeverlyJ · 09-07-2016, 07:49 AM

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Originally Posted by python54

So the bottom line question would be, are some of my local providers willing to, well, tutor me in such endeavors? I always look at an appointment as a win-win situation not give a donation and then ignore my companion as a real person who has needs.

Maybe I'm too touchy-feely but it's just who I am.

Would love some feedback!!

Maybe I misunderstood your intentions here but it's probably NOT a good idea to NOTgive the donation. In my opinion, you need to seek out a provider that is actually YOUR TYPE. You should also woo her a bit to find out if YOU are HER type. I feel there really needs to be some physical attraction between the two individuals in order for DATY to be beneficial to both involved.

Fancylady · 09-07-2016, 08:32 AM

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Originally Posted by BeverlyJ

Maybe I misunderstood your intentions here but it's probably NOT a good idea to NOTgive the donation. In my opinion, you need to seek out a provider that is actually YOUR TYPE. You should also woo her a bit to find out if YOU are HER type. I feel there really needs to be some physical attraction between the two individuals in order for DATY to be beneficial to both involved.

I can't believe hobbyist would waste his time and Cash with this escort.Million escorts out here willing to do daty accommodate..

MsLondonB · 09-07-2016, 09:08 AM

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Lena Duvall · 09-08-2016, 02:16 AM

Amen!

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Originally Posted by Woodford

Ladies - as a client who loves DATY, I totally get that you want it done "right". But, after being with dozens of you, each one of you is deliciously different. While many of us guys have a "routine" that works most of the time, help us out with plenty of feedback. And non verbal feedback is great - tightening the thighs, thrusting your hips, your hand on the back of my head pushing me down harder, etc. And, when it is working and you want us to not stop, just whisper "Don't Stop". We don't always know when you are getting bored, or when it is really good and leading to a great climax. Gentle flicks, sucking and nibbling the clit, and long hard licks have all worked with different women to bring them over the edge.