Preacher Man Dont Call Me!

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

What the fuck is up with you men and that word? Do you know what a whore is? A whore is a Pig. Why would you call a human being such? I mean -- the nerve of some of you men. Disgusting.

The provider is a whore, the hobbyist is the PIG! Lets keep that straight please. And just for the record, if the provider is a "lady" the hobbyist is still a pig! Why is that?

[Laz]

I have a problem with anyone using the word whore to generically describe the ladies on this forum. They are ladies that work in a nontraditional field and if they do their job well they bring happiness to others. That is more honorable than many of the acceptable jobs.

As for the preacher every second spent being outraged by his hypocrassy is a second of your life you will not get back. He is not important enough to matter and it sounds like people already know about his flaws. Move on.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

The provider is a whore, the hobbyist is the PIG! Lets keep that straight please. And just for the record, if the provider is a "lady" the hobbyist is still a pig! Why is that?

Sorry for the threadjack but where I am from, "Whore" is the lowest of the low. I have seen ladies call themselves that here and on onther sites it's like huh. A hobbyist is not a pig. I do not sleep with pigs. I do not see my regs as pigs or whores or sluts - my goodness. Thanks Laz.

[burkalini]

Whore Hooker and John or Trick. If used in earnest it's very demeaning to all concerned. I think we all have a little better command of the language than to have to resort to that level of communication. Now pig doesn't bother me at all. lol It just means I have an over active appetite for beautiful women.

[shorty]

Originally Posted by burkalini

Whore Hooker and John or Trick. If used in earnest it's very demeaning to all concerned. I think we all have a little better command of the language than to have to resort to that level of communication. Now pig doesn't bother me at all. lol It just means I have an over active appetite for beautiful women.

Good Advice!

[awl4knot]

Originally Posted by burkalini

Whore Hooker and John or Trick. If used in earnest it's very demeaning to all concerned. I think we all have a little better command of the language than to have to resort to that level of communication.

My, aren't we genteel and proper? Although whore is a harsh term applied to many types of unethical or mercenary behavior, its root meaning is a woman who accepts money for sexual favors. Although it is not a "nice" term, when used for the purpose of emphasizing the illegal and darker aspects of the "Hobby" it is more than useful.

I guess we could use those nice terms such as "escort" and "provider" or even "ladies that work in a nontraditional field" but they are euphemisms that gloss over the essential commercial nature of what happens between the men and women who populate this board.

There are many synonyms for "whore" including doxie, strumpet, wanton, call girl, working girl, harlot, pro, slut, slattern and hustler. I am sure there are many others that aren't in my thesaurus. Which one(s) do you prefer if the "w" word is too harsh?

Please don't construe this post as passing any moral judgments. I think we conceded that we are sinners, but not low lifes, and that men and women should be able to make mutually beneficial short term arrangements. My point is that we shouldn't sugar coat what we do with euphemisms and pretty phrases.

Awl4knot

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by awl4knot

My, aren't we genteel and proper? Although whore is a harsh term applied to many types of unethical or mercenary behavior, its root meaning is a woman who accepts money for sexual favors. Although it is not a "nice" term, when used for the purpose of emphasizing the illegal and darker aspects of the "Hobby" it is more than useful.

I guess we could use those nice terms such as "escort" and "provider" or even "ladies that work in a nontraditional field" but they are euphemisms that gloss over the essential commercial nature of what happens between the men and women who populate this board.

There are many synonyms for "whore" including doxie, strumpet, wanton, call girl, working girl, harlot, pro, slut, slattern and hustler. I am sure there are many others that aren't in my thesaurus. Which one(s) do you prefer if the "w" word is too harsh?

Please don't construe this post as passing any moral judgments. I think we conceded that we are sinners, but not low lifes, and that men and women should be able to make mutually beneficial short term arrangements. My point is that we shouldn't sugar coat what we do with euphemisms and pretty phrases.

Awl4knot

I agree no gloss here. We all like to fuck and we do it as much as we can.The point is if it is offensive to a majority of people out there then we don't really need to use it no matter it being discriptive or not

[awl4knot]

burkalini, I am not fond of the "W" word just like I'm not fond of the "C" word, but I am concerned about the creation of a type of "escort board correctness" that limits and restricts discussions and distorts the reality of what we are doing here. To say it more plainly, let's not kid ourselves.

I respect your opinion and I trust that you respect mine.

[Sweet N Little]

Originally Posted by awl4knot

burkalini, I am not fond of the "W" word just like I'm not fond of the "C" word, but I am concerned about the creation of a type of "escort board correctness" that limits and restricts discussions and distorts the reality of what we are doing here. To say it more plainly, let's not kid ourselves.

I respect your opinion and I trust that you respect mine.

Escort board correctness or not, true gentlemen don't use those words Just my opinion

[awl4knot]

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

Escort board correctness or not, true gentlemen don't use those words Just my opinion

Conduct more than words defines a gentlemen. The most consistent comment from the ladies that I have seen is that I am a gentleman. But I will speak my mind.

[Sweet N Little]

Originally Posted by awl4knot

Conduct more than words defines a gentlemen. The most consistent comment from the ladies that I have seen is that I am a gentleman. But I will speak my mind.

Im sure you are

[awl4knot]

And I am sure you are a lady.

[Sweet N Little]

Originally Posted by awl4knot

And I am sure you are a lady.

In public anyway lol

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by awl4knot

burkalini, I am not fond of the "W" word just like I'm not fond of the "C" word, but I am concerned about the creation of a type of "escort board correctness" that limits and restricts discussions and distorts the reality of what we are doing here. To say it more plainly, let's not kid ourselves.

I respect your opinion and I trust that you respect mine.

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

Escort board correctness or not, true gentlemen don't use those words Just my opinion

Originally Posted by awl4knot

Conduct more than words defines a gentlemen. The most consistent comment from the ladies that I have seen is that I am a gentleman. But I will speak my mind.

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

Im sure you are

Originally Posted by awl4knot

And I am sure you are a lady.

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

In public anyway lol

You two need to get a room and talk dirty to each other!

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by awl4knot

Conduct more than words defines a gentlemen. The most consistent comment from the ladies that I have seen is that I am a gentleman. But I will speak my mind.

I just respectfully disagree. I agree actions are way more important than words but I do believe that being a gentleman includes not using those descriptions. I don't care what the intent is I do not want to be called a trick or a john. I won't call another a whore or Hooker either. Not trying to get you riled up just a difference of opinion.