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dirty dog · 10-16-2010, 01:00 PM

Sens55 · 10-17-2010, 08:41 AM

Wow. This has gotten beyond stupid...so I should fit right in.

First RC, I don't care if you're black, yellow, or red you're being an ass. Unless you're dating girls, or not dating girls by their preference, in KC, why the fuck do you care? Look, the hobby may open to predominately white guys, but WTF, go on ANY dating site, ANY sugardaddy site and you've got a HUGE percentage that ONLY want black guys (and they're white). Am I supposed to be pissed? NO! Because there are 50 pages of girls that WILL see me. Why not focus my energies on having a good time with one of them instead of pissing and moaning on a board for hobbiests 500 miles away that couldn't see me even if I wanted to!

And by your logic, the girls that will only date older guys (and there are MANY who say "only over 30, 40, etc) are what? Prejudiced against young guys? Most I've talked to do it for the reason that they don't like the young punks coming in wanting to argue price or getting too rough with them and treating them disrespectfully. They're fully aware of the fact that there are young guys that are probably good potential clients. But they don't feel like playing Russian Roulette to find out, when they can spend their time going after the market segment they feel will serve them better.

Many girls on here don't see women, or couples. They're not into them. So does that make them homophobic? Maybe, but maybe not. I'm not usually sexually attracted to black women..but have had a several trysts with some that were unbelievable. As a blanket statement I don't see black women...but that doesn't mean I won't if the right one comes along. I don't find guys sexually attractive...but I'm not homophobic. I just don't want to date a dude. Ever! But if other guys do, who cares. Not giving a male escort money doesn't make me a gay hater, it's just not something I'm comfortable with. I'm a big guy. Many girls won't see bigger guys. So what? There are many who will. Get over it already.

So let's step back and look at the REAL big picture and see how honest you are with yourself. You haven't said it directly, but you've said it in obliquely in every post. You are calling the girls that won't see black guys racists. You refuse to acknowledge that they may have personal or professional reasons to do so. But yet you are willing to stereotype THEM without looking at their individuality in their decision making. That is, by any definition, prejudiced. You are just as guilty as the girls you're chastising.

And more to the point, I'm sure by your rants there are several girls that might normally see black guys that will not see YOU! Because you have an attitude. So why don't you just crawl back under your Texas rock and let us up here in KC handle shit the way we see fit.

jaybee · 10-17-2010, 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Sens55

Wow. This has gotten beyond stupid...so I should fit right in.

First RC, I don't care if you're black, yellow, or red you're being an ass. Unless you're dating girls, or not dating girls by their preference, in KC, why the fuck do you care? Look, the hobby may open to predominately white guys, but WTF, go on ANY dating site, ANY sugardaddy site and you've got a HUGE percentage that ONLY want black guys (and they're white). Am I supposed to be pissed? NO! Because there are 50 pages of girls that WILL see me. Why not focus my energies on having a good time with one of them instead of pissing and moaning on a board for hobbiests 500 miles away that couldn't see me even if I wanted to!

And by your logic, the girls that will only date older guys (and there are MANY who say "only over 30, 40, etc) are what? Prejudiced against young guys? Most I've talked to do it for the reason that they don't like the young punks coming in wanting to argue price or getting too rough with them and treating them disrespectfully. They're fully aware of the fact that there are young guys that are probably good potential clients. But they don't feel like playing Russian Roulette to find out, when they can spend their time going after the market segment they feel will serve them better.

Many girls on here don't see women, or couples. They're not into them. So does that make them homophobic? Maybe, but maybe not. I'm not usually sexually attracted to black women..but have had a several trysts with some that were unbelievable. As a blanket statement I don't see black women...but that doesn't mean I won't if the right one comes along. I don't find guys sexually attractive...but I'm not homophobic. I just don't want to date a dude. Ever! But if other guys do, who cares. Not giving a male escort money doesn't make me a gay hater, it's just not something I'm comfortable with. I'm a big guy. Many girls won't see bigger guys. So what? There are many who will. Get over it already.

So let's step back and look at the REAL big picture and see how honest you are with yourself. You haven't said it directly, but you've said it in obliquely in every post. You are calling the girls that won't see black guys racists. You refuse to acknowledge that they may have personal or professional reasons to do so. But yet you are willing to stereotype THEM without looking at their individuality in their decision making. That is, by any definition, prejudiced. You are just as guilty as the girls you're chastising.

And more to the point, I'm sure by your rants there are several girls that might normally see black guys that will not see YOU! Because you have an attitude. So why don't you just crawl back under your Texas rock and let us up here in KC handle shit the way we see fit.

thank you sens i feel the same way just not as good as you puting it down in writing as you. i would of been name calling etc. and geting in trouble with points...............

jb

FireSerpent · 10-17-2010, 10:35 PM

From what I've seen, he's a carpet bomber... he likes to swoop in, say some infamitory things and then the the thread shut down. He's always on about something racial this... something repression that. And why is he coming to KC's threads to start this? Because in Texas & OKC, the girls all think he's an assclown and few will see him anymore. So... off to locations where they don't know him.

Sure, he may have made a few valid points... unfortunately those points were overshadowed by jackassery and rudeness. I give credit where credit is due... and this guy has run out of it.

Sens55 · 10-18-2010, 02:03 AM

FireSerpent,

Glad you said so because I didn't want you to think my rant had anything to do with you. You're cool in my book.

CaptainKaos · 10-18-2010, 06:39 AM

LOL Jackassery...

Cheaper2buyit · 10-18-2010, 03:16 PM

off topic but on topic whatever they say about the kc boards one thing they can't say is we don't stick together So I will say what everyone is thinking outsiders beware we don't trust you before we trust you its safer for out sweet ladies here & the ones who visit if we debase & found out what you are all about before we let any tom dick & asshole in our nice freaky safe haven.

Sens55 · 10-18-2010, 03:19 PM

cheaper

Well said...I think :-)

Miss_Mya · 10-18-2010, 03:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Cheaper2buyit

off topic but on topic whatever they say about the kc boards one thing they can't say is we don't stick together So I will say what everyone is thinking outsiders beware we don't trust you before we trust you its safer for out sweet ladies here & the ones who visit if we debase & found out what you are all about before we let any tom dick & asshole in our nice freaky safe haven.

+1 I truly enjoy everyone on the KC boards!

Randall Creed · 10-18-2010, 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by FireSerpent

Sure, he may have made a few valid points... unfortunately those points were overshadowed by jackassery and rudeness. I give credit where credit is due... and this guy has run out of it.

Feel free to define my 'jackassery' and 'rudeness'.

Nothing [should] overshadows the truth, except the degree of blind eyes that chooses to ignore it.

I can live with the witch hunt that's formed against me (notice how I was 'found' even in a remote area like this, and it's made up of people who have never met me in person). It's not going to change my stance. Wherever there's injustice, a resistance force is not too far away. Unfortunately, there's also a force that wants to forever silence that group, and will go to ANY means to do it. I must be equally as vigilant, if not more. If I think it's wrong, I'll say it's wrong. Dig deeper into my post count, and you'll see that.

Or you can continue to rely on the word of those who have never met me. It's completely up to you.

Allie_Kat · 10-18-2010, 04:30 PM

"Wherever there's injustice, a resistance force is not too far away. Unfortunately, there's also a force that wants to forever silence that group, and will go to ANY means to do it. I must be equally as vigilant, if not more."

Reminds me of that South Park episode where Cartman is running around fighting crime at night. LOL.
Unless it affects you, who cares?
You can say it affects you because it OFFENDS you but other than that, so what?
Why can't different people have different beliefs and modes of operating their own business?
That's right, they CAN.

FireSerpent · 10-18-2010, 05:47 PM

In California there are laws and standards for building things places to have access for people with physical disabilities. If you look hard enough, no matter how well built a restaurant, garage, hair salon, or gas station, you can find where builders have cut corners... where they have not followed these rules. There are some people out there who make a living by going building to building finding these imperfections and make lawsuits. The owners will usually settle out for a maximum of $4,000 before it hits the courts instead of fixing the problem. I know one guy who has made a little over half a million dollars since moving to California just by doing this very thing.

You're like that guy, RC. Sure, there are injustices and unfairnesses out there... but you don't have to hunt down ever single one to justify your existance. And if you do, then that speaks volumes about your character... good, bad or ugly.

Sens55 · 10-18-2010, 06:18 PM

FS

PM me if you're interested because I'm buying you a beer. I agree 110% we are never going to get rid of prejudism in our lifetime but picking your battles and focusing on the important ones is the key. Racism & prejudice is found in every corner by every race, religion or creed. But most of the people are so small it's not worth acknowledging because it only lends validity to their sorry state. But at least in the US we only have it marginally. However bad we may perceive it to be here, I've been in countries while in the Army where different tribes, religions, races, ethnic groups etc kill each other for no other reason than the victim wasn't of the same group as the assailant.