Taking the plunge with providers & clients

[Grace Preston]

I honestly think it would be pretty rare to find a hobbyist that didn't have preferences. If a person just wants to fuck whatever moves-- they could just pick up any old slag at the bar... most gents who hobby-- do so to have the security of not having to call them or see them again if they don't want to-- and to be able to perhaps spend time with a lady that wouldn't be so easy to attain in the "real world" (at least, not without a considerable amount of time and effort). Sometimes its more of a matter of looks. Sometimes its more of a matter of personality. Sometimes its a mix of the two.



As far as a rate goes-- I've always loved the saying "You're not paying her for her time, you're paying her to leave at the end"

[RobZom]

Originally Posted by Grace Preston

... and to be able to perhaps spend time with a lady that wouldn't be so easy to attain in the "real world" (at least, not without a considerable amount of time and effort). Sometimes its more of a matter of looks. Sometimes its more of a matter of personality. Sometimes its a mix of the two.
As far as a rate goes-- I've always loved the saying "You're not paying her for her time, you're paying her to leave at the end"

Agreed. There is an element of "screwing up" with a preference towards more attractive providers and for me an unattractive or risky provider is not worth taking the plunge.

[Next Best Thing]

If the prostitute is attractive enough I can work with just about anything.

[Guest072323]

I prefer at least a sprinkle of BSC....

[Next Best Thing]

Crazy is fine, anything is better than entitled or bitchy.

Boring and low iq is also awful.

I enjoy intelligence as well, or at least the ability to speak reasonably well.

Fat and homely I can't work with under any circumstances.

[JONBALLS]

I'd snapchat with that little Minx

[Grace Preston]

Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

Crazy is fine, anything is better than entitled or bitchy.

Boring and low iq is also awful.

I enjoy intelligence as well, or at least the ability to speak reasonably well.

Fat and homely I can't work with under any circumstances.

In my personal world... I'll take a sense of humor and IQ with looks of a 5 over dumb and boring with looks of a 9 any day of the week. But, we women tend not to be quite as visual as the menfolk.

[winn dixie]

Women just see dollar signs. All of em'

[Grace Preston]

Originally Posted by winn dixie

Women just see dollar signs. All of em'

Meh-- while that is very true in the hobby-- and honestly, isn't that the fucking point in the hobby.....


In the real world, a lot of ladies in this business tend to end up with lazy men that they end up supporting. I've always found it to be a strange and fascinating dynamic.

[winn dixie]

Originally Posted by Grace Preston

Meh-- while that is very true in the hobby-- and honestly, isn't that the fucking point in the hobby.....


In the real world, a lot of ladies in this business tend to end up with lazy men that they end up supporting. I've always found it to be a strange and fascinating dynamic.

Those aint men.

[Grace Preston]

Originally Posted by winn dixie

Those aint men.

There are some who would take it further and argue that men that date sex workers aren't "real men". I have no skin in that game-- I just don't date when I'm actively working in this business.

[Unique_Carpenter]

Originally Posted by Paulie Rockstar

I prefer at least a sprinkle of BSC....

That brings back both clips, a guys hot crazy matrix about gals, and the 2nd, the gals almost identical response about guys.

[Hard2Kill]

[QUOTE=BlondeLexi;1062724267]Turned away? No. But I have certainly made my fair share of men take a shower in my presence before we begin. I have a strict hygiene policy. If I’m expected to be fresh as a daisy, then SO ARE YOU! I require light freshening up before play time. If that doesn’t do the trick, I have absolutely no qualms telling the client he needs to shower before we take it further.
Some clients decline the mouthwash part of my clean up routine since they don’t want to kiss but it’s still required…I don’t want to smell your bad breath, gingivitis, cavities and smoke breath.
No schwetty balls. No skid marks. No smelling like smoke. No smelling like cheese between the folds. And you won’t get “turned away”.[/QUOTE

No one should have to put up with poor hygene on either side.

[jokacz]

Originally Posted by Grace Preston

In the real world, a lot of ladies in this business tend to end up with lazy men that they end up supporting. I've always found it to be a strange and fascinating dynamic.

Self loathing and codependency

[Plastic Man]

comms!

...wells yer ...plastic man ...sure be codependents withs ...ya!

...boths jimmies an funnels needs ...each ...others ins whats mr ...spock woulds call a symbiotic relationship