Hobbyist Provider Romance

[BostonGeorge]

Any other suggestions? She is coming this week for a visit. I'll keep you all up to date as it unfolds.

[Guest050619]

I would run the hell away from this. There is nothing normal or sane about this hobby. Would she be ok with you hooking up with other girls while y’all are dating? She might....but she would also be ok with herself continuing to do what she does and you would be crazy to be ok with that. I would keep a distinct difference between the hobby world and your real world and wouldn’t even entertain the thought of mixing the two together. Dave Chappell’s even had a skit that showed what would happen in the real life version of pretty woman....after having sex the guy telling her you need to leave. I can guarantee the ladies on this board and in this hobby are not looking for love. Guys on this board shouldn’t be looking for love in the hobby world either.

[FunMonday]

It’s like the old country song of looking for love in all the wrong places

[darkwader]

on the plus column, you can call her a hoe in the heat of an argument and she wont have a retort.

[Tsmokies]

Hey Boston...just keep in mind that there is a big difference in being taking advantage and a win/win. RW or play world it's not that hard to figure out. Good luck though. Hope you have fun n it's a win/win. Just don't dick...I mean dig....too deep

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by FunMonday

Omg. Obviously you understood. Fuck me for typo.

Originally Posted by Dogberry

Just don't let it happen again.

or you will have to marry the next provider who you go cumsult with!

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by Dtxguy

I would run the hell away from this. There is nothing normal or sane about this hobby. Would she be ok with you hooking up with other girls while y’all are dating? She might....but she would also be ok with herself continuing to do what she does and you would be crazy to be ok with that.
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I can guarantee the ladies on this board and in this hobby are not looking for love. Guys on this board shouldn’t be looking for love in the hobby world either.

there is always a probability that it can work out... yeah, low, i know, but probable.

IF, and i mean a big IF, both people are very open and honest with each and can commit to each other that they'll stay with each other with limits they both agree to, it can happen.
limits crossed? maybe give them another chance. limits crossed too many times? then end it as soon as you can!!

i dont think one has to be "crazy" to be committed to a person whose job is in the adult sex industry. different or out of the norm? yes. but NOT crazy.

not everyone here is looking for love. i'd guess most of the women are here for the cash and most of the guys are here to fuck and cum. but, i know of at least one provider who found love w/ a client - and they're still together 4+ yrs later.


OP, be realistic and keep your eyes open.
to the positive possibilities and to the negative consequences.

[FunMonday]

OP when you get the itch for some strange pussy she already knows all the tricks. Unlike a clueless RW woman she can bust you instantly. It would be like hooking up with a female divorce lawyer and trying to get a divorce if you try to get extra pussy

[Cali-or-Bust]

i hope you read this......

DO NOT BE AN IDIOT!!!!!

it’s the same as when a pool hustler goes to a pool hall and “almost “ wins 3 or 4 games, waiting for the big prize....wins, collect, says thanks sucka and leaves w the money

don’t be a fool...there is no connection, no chemistry, nothing but a dollar sign. if you have an ounce of game you will see this, use it for what’s its worth and move on to the next episode.
sometimes i just cannot believe how some guys fall for this crap...smh

[Cali-or-Bust]

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[Cali-or-Bust]

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[Cali-or-Bust]

Originally Posted by FunMonday

It’s like the old country song of looking for love in all the wrong places

[KeepFrozen]

Well I sincerely hope that it works out for you. Not every single provider on here or anywhere for that matter is jaded and only out to take advantage of you.

I would probably bet the ones that are "no good" got that way because of a complete asshole prick that made them that way. Not every single guy that seeks out a provider is a womanizer either.

Perhaps this is a real case of... "Found each other". Of course you are going to be cautious and she is going to be too.

[FunMonday]

Originally Posted by BostonGeorge

Any other suggestions? She is coming this week for a visit. I'll keep you all up to date as it unfolds.

Is she booking any sessions while she's in Dallas? Can we see her profile so we know what all the fuss is about? Just kidding and good luck.

[BostonGeorge]

Originally Posted by FunMonday

Is she booking any sessions while she's in Dallas? Can we see her profile so we know what all the fuss is about? Just kidding and good luck.

Right?!?! Kinds makes me like her more thinking everyone in Dallas will want a piece.