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berkleigh · 02-09-2015, 09:00 AM

Get a D-I-V-O-R-C-E and continue to Hobby.
Probably more affordable and less headache/heartache!

Problem Solved.

anklepants · 02-09-2015, 09:19 AM

You are dead spot on. Thank you for being candid.

DarkeyKong · 02-09-2015, 09:33 AM

Most married men won't do that because, believe it or not, they do love their wives and families. Hobbying is for most just a guilty pleasure and would probably lose it's luster if it became a lifestyle. Though hobbying is great fun, that's really all it is, nothing substantial there. So as much as these husbands would like to complain, they probably would never get a divorce in favor of just hobbying.

bistraight69 · 02-09-2015, 09:51 AM

Divorce means she would take half. Which in turn means you will no longer have the $$$ for your SB, GF, provider, etc. Ever heard of the saying, "It's cheaper to keep her!"

Sinful Pleasure · 02-09-2015, 11:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Kendall4U

Cheating is inherent! Doesn't matter how awesome things are at home, the thought of the grass being greener on the the other side, fucks up everything!

this is true. i guess it was inevitable.

Jewish Lawyer · 02-10-2015, 06:07 AM

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Originally Posted by SexyStephTx

Completely agree! My mother taught me to keep your man happy at home and he won't stray! Although that didn't work for me, it does make sense. Theoretically. Ijs

I think for many men, they would be content with that. Some guys can't be made happy with just one women for sex, but they may love her completely otherwise.
Believe it or not, though, I've known some men content to have sex with one woman for their entire lives. Hard to comprehend, but they exist.

DarthDVader · 03-10-2015, 11:35 AM

^^^^ Im like that ...

I will have to disagree with this statement ...
It is not inherent for everyone ...
Some people are natural born cheaters and some of us don't ...

If I am having a fulfilling relationship, physically, mentally and spiritually, I find no reason to try somewhere else ... I will then see my grass greener than my neighbors and feel proud of it ... Why eat at McDonalds when you have a Rib eye at home ...

The feeling of going out with your woman and feeling proud and lucky to have her holding your arm is priceless ...

ps ... Unsolved problems at home may trigger to cheat tho ...

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Originally Posted by Kendall4U

Cheating is inherent! Doesn't matter how awesome things are at home, the thought of the grass being greener on the the other side, fucks up everything!

Kendall4U · 03-10-2015, 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by DarthDVader

I will have to disagree with this statement ...
It is not inherent for everyone ...
Some people are natural born cheaters and some of us don't ...

If I am having a fulfilling relationship, physically, mentally and spiritually, I find no reason to try somewhere else ... I will then see my grass greener than my neighbors and feel proud of it ... Why eat at McDonalds when you have a Rib eye at home ...

The feeling of going out with your woman and feeling proud and lucky to have her holding your arm is priceless ...

ps ... Unsolved problems at home may trigger to cheat tho ...

This makes me laugh on so many levels......we will agree to disagree

DarthDVader · 03-10-2015, 12:00 PM

We'll agree to disagree then ...

Why laugh? ...
I never cheated until a few years ago after many years of marriage, but that is my personal experience ...
My grass was greener but it died ...
Its not something to laugh but to be sad about ...

Unsolved matters were the issue

My 2 cents

Fawlty · 03-10-2015, 02:23 PM

I think we are not natural born cheaters because we are not instinctively bent toward a monogamous relationship where cheating is a concern.

We are self centered by nature and predisposed to derive sexual pleasure however we can get it. That is precisely why faithfulllness within a relationship is a virtue and being deceitful (cheating) is a vice.

Guest070818-1 · 03-10-2015, 02:30 PM

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Originally Posted by bistraight69

Divorce means she would take half. Which in turn means you will no longer have the $$$ for your SB, GF, provider, etc. Ever heard of the saying, "It's cheaper to keep her!"

Amen!

I have lost a couple of great clients due to divorce.

Married Gentlem - Take care of home - Your hobby funds depend on it!

Guest092216 · 03-10-2015, 02:32 PM

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Originally Posted by DarthDVader

^^^^ Im like that ...

I will have to disagree with this statement ...
It is not inherent for everyone ...
Some people are natural born cheaters and some of us don't ...

If I am having a fulfilling relationship, physically, mentally and spiritually, I find no reason to try somewhere else ... I will then see my grass greener than my neighbors and feel proud of it ... Why eat at McDonalds when you have a Rib eye at home ...

The feeling of going out with your woman and feeling proud and lucky to have her holding your arm is priceless ...

ps ... Unsolved problems at home may trigger to cheat tho ...

I'm very happy you found someone who fulfills you. I hope you both stay content now and long into the future.

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Originally Posted by BrownSugarBaby

Amen!

I have lost a couple of great clients due to divorce.

Married Gentlem - Take care of home - Your hobby funds depend on it!

Preach.

DarthDVader · 03-10-2015, 04:37 PM

No, unfortunately I haven't found anyone yet ...
Thanks for your wishes tho ...

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Originally Posted by thathottnurse

I'm very happy you found someone who fulfills you. I hope you both stay content now and long into the future.

Poppa_Viagra · 03-11-2015, 08:05 AM

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Originally Posted by TexTushHog

Because marraige is like a besieged medieval city -- those on the outside desperately want in, and those on the inside desperately want out!

Again, Tush Hog wallows in the Mudpuddle of Wisdom.

I see the hobby as a non-emotionally demanding replacement for the sex at home that went away with the hysterectomy.

If you can still talk to the party of the second part, try "I'll get the lotion and do your feet, then you can take the lotion and jack me off". Diidn't do shit for me but it might help somewhere else.

Laura Lynn · 03-11-2015, 10:19 AM

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Originally Posted by thathottnurse

I'm totally open to marrying a gay man with a lot of money.

And it's totally cool with me if he "cheats".

So any of you rich gay men out there needing a passable straight marriage with a very understanding and supportive cookie-cutter wife who doesn't mind your cock-loving ways then shoot me a pm. Let's talk.

Amen sister! !