What is it Like for you to spend time with a Escort? Expectations??

[Lia88]

Originally Posted by gentlemantoo

I have had lots of good blow jobs, from my wife in the past. She actually listened to my requests, and she loved me so she got pleasure out of pleasing me. The providers I have seen are usually mechanical, and I have paid as much as $500 an hour, still mechanical. Every provider thinks she is great at it because most of her clients say it was great, they lie, lol. It was great to them because they do not know what a great blow job is because all their blow jobs come from prostitutes or they have wives that no longer go down on them because the romance and love is lost. So any blow job is great to them, lol.

My wife would lick on me, kiss my stomach then accidentally on purpose rub her chest on my penis as she licked down my torso. She would brush her long hair all over my body and member as it anticipated her touch and mouth. Oozing pre-cum would seep onto my lower abdomen. She would lick it up as she took hold of my hardness. She would spend 15 to 20 minutes licking my balls, shaft, head, while softly and slowly stroking me. She could feel me tense up and breath heavy so she slowed even further. Every so often taking member all the way into to her mouth. She would peek up at me and smile as she wiped her saliva off her chin, sometimes even give a sexy giggle. She put her back in a bun as to keep it out of the way and at times she would ask me where I wanted to cum, on her tits, face, body or in her mouth. She would always clean me up afterwards as well. I have never gotten anything close to that from a provider.

Well looks like you have a winner there! I would definitely not think about hobbying anymore w/ a wife like that!

[Lia88]

Originally Posted by SxySpanishMia

Thanks for describing me as a provider to the T...lol
Even though I don't have a wide menu to offer, the experience I provide is gratifying enough for my clients because they can tell I enjoy myself and they don't feel like they just spent time with a plastic doll.

It's sad when hobbiest continue to have visits with the types of providers that do not put any emotions into their services. Some of us providers absolutely love the time and pleasure of our visits. This is because some of these men I'm referring to, have taken the time out to be respectful, have a sense of humor, they are generous and don't take our time for granted, the men are open to getting satisfied without a negative thought of how the session will turn out.

I've had sessions where afterwards, we forget it was a paid visit because the fun was that of two people crazy for one another. Perphaps I experience this because I'm careful with whom I allow to visit me, I let my passion flow, and I enjoy the moment. I'm not being forced to do this, I actually enjoy it and it thrills me. I also make sure I only visit with someone when I'm in the mood to, and my visits aren't determined by the fact that I need to have enough to pay bills.

So there's the more passionate providers, and then there's the ones that could care less about your pleasure. Do research and choose wisely.

If someone can't enjoy a visit because it's paid or there is protection being used, it's definitely not for them, no matter how much effort the provider puts in the visit.

Right! Clearly missing out on the Good ones SexySpanishMia

[Lia88]

Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

Wow. Claire-ly you have not experienced a good blow job before. Or you have very soft girly hands, lol.

Yasssss...You betta let them know Claire-she-blows...some of us are Tongue gifted to the Gods Hunny! Lol

[gentlemantoo]

My wife passed away years ago and I still miss her every day I am here. I never was with other women nor hobbied when she was with me, never even had a thought of it. After years of loneliness, sadness and masterbation I tried the hobby, do not partake too much as have never found a woman to do what I described, I see it in porn but never in a session.

Are your blow jobs anything like I described Lia?

[Lia88]

Originally Posted by gentlemantoo

My wife passed away years ago and I still miss her every day I am here. I never was with other women nor hobbied when she was with me, never even had a thought of it. After years of loneliness, sadness and masterbation I tried the hobby, do not partake too much as have never found a woman to do what I described, I see it in porn but never in a session.

Are your blow jobs anything like I described Lia?

Im really really sorry to hear that honey.
I was married 8yrs.

But yes.
I take my time and add fourplay in the mix to prevent from cumming too fast. Its something that has gotten better and better w/ time w/ me. Bj are like a fine wine. The more time that's added to it the better it gets. I truly believe that and the more confidence you have doing it makes it even more rewarding.

Once your down there all that matters is what your doing. Almost like a trance.

Smell does play a BIG PART tho lol

[gentlemantoo]

Looks like I might have to drive to Slidell and find out first hand how good your BJ is.

Appreciate your condolences. I married once and we loved each other through and through.

[Lia88]

Originally Posted by gentlemantoo

Looks like I might have to drive to Slidell and find out first hand how good your BJ is.

Appreciate your condolences. I married once and we loved each other through and through.

Yea come down for mardi gras. Perfect time.

[watchoutthegameisrigged]

Gentlemantoo, IF you are telling the truth, I understand you better. IF you are telling the truth, you have tried to fill an emotional void that cannot be filled in the hobby. I get it. But there is no need to denigrate the lessor things many of us seek here. We need sex - no real attachments, no emotional complications - just sex. Just because it doesn't work for you does not mean many of us guys don't find exactly what we want and need here. I'll understand your point of view, understand mine - and most of the guys here. I'm actually confused why you hang here if you have decided that providers are not for you.

[Mike_Rach]

gentlemantoo, dang man sorry to hear. My condolences.

I don't think I'm any sort of escort whisperer, but with almost always have fun with the ladies I visit and have had some really memorable experiences. Yeah, condoms aren't as good as skin on skin, but look on the bright sides. Besides being able to have sex with strange women, they allow you to nut deep inside a lady. WHICH IS FUCKING AWESOME. I can't be too different, when it's time I forget the condom is there, let instinct take over as I grind my dick deep inside and pump the love juice deep inside that hot pussy. Fucking glorious. Even with a condom on it feels fantastic... somewhat obvious as we're biologically programmed to enjoy it immensely.

Now I'm posting this hoping Lia88 will chime in.
Maybe she'll come on down to Texas, from her posts I'd love to have a "date" with her!

Some of y'all are looking at it all wrong. Escorts offer the opportunity to meet up with beautiful ladies with a sure chance of sex happening. Some of us don't have the time to chase 'em.

Maybe you're not enjoying it because you don't have the right outlook. Treat it like a date. Floss your damn teeth the night before if your nasty ass doesn't floss regularly. Clean yourself up and shower right before the appointment. Go to the gym. Treat her with respect. Ask some questions about her, not only about the hobby or how many dicks she's had. And listen! If you complement her on her looks, give a genuine comment on some feature of hers you like. Just simple Social Interaction 101 stuff.

[Old-T]

Originally Posted by watchoutthegameisrigged

Gentlemantoo, IF you are telling the truth

I have had differences of opinion with G2, but I do believe he is being truthful. He has posted about this often, and he has always been consistent--both in the facts and his beliefs. And he has been consistent across all venues.

Originally Posted by Mike_Rach

Treat it like a date. Floss your damn teeth the night before if your nasty ass doesn't floss regularly. Clean yourself up and shower right before the appointment. Go to the gym. Treat her with respect. Ask some questions about her, not only about the hobby or how many dicks she's had. And listen! If you complement her on her looks, give a genuine comment on some feature of hers you like. Just simple Social Interaction 101 stuff.

Good advice--both in this corner of the world and life in general.

[curious247]

Originally Posted by Lia88

EXACTLY!!! 👏👏👏👏

AT LEAST. W/ a escort you know what the deal is and we know what the deal is NSA....you dont have to worry about the putting the moves on process. Just get down to it. No hassle. No drama

Great Point

[curious247]

Originally Posted by SxySpanishMia

Thanks for describing me as a provider to the T...lol
Even though I don't have a wide menu to offer, the experience I provide is gratifying enough for my clients because they can tell I enjoy myself and they don't feel like they just spent time with a plastic doll.

It's sad when hobbiest continue to have visits with the types of providers that do not put any emotions into their services. Some of us providers absolutely love the time and pleasure of our visits. This is because some of these men I'm referring to, have taken the time out to be respectful, have a sense of humor, they are generous and don't take our time for granted, the men are open to getting satisfied without a negative thought of how the session will turn out.

I've had sessions where afterwards, we forget it was a paid visit because the fun was that of two people crazy for one another. Perphaps I experience this because I'm careful with whom I allow to visit me, I let my passion flow, and I enjoy the moment. I'm not being forced to do this, I actually enjoy it and it thrills me. I also make sure I only visit with someone when I'm in the mood to, and my visits aren't determined by the fact that I need to have enough to pay bills.

So there's the more passionate providers, and then there's the ones that could care less about your pleasure. Do research and choose wisely.

If someone can't enjoy a visit because it's paid or there is protection being used, it's definitely not for them, no matter how much effort the provider puts in the visit.

🍻🍻 well said

[Lia88]

Originally Posted by Mike_Rach

gentlemantoo, dang man sorry to hear. My condolences.

I don't think I'm any sort of escort whisperer, but with almost always have fun with the ladies I visit and have had some really memorable experiences. Yeah, condoms aren't as good as skin on skin, but look on the bright sides. Besides being able to have sex with strange women, they allow you to nut deep inside a lady. WHICH IS FUCKING AWESOME. I can't be too different, when it's time I forget the condom is there, let instinct take over as I grind my dick deep inside and pump the love juice deep inside that hot pussy. Fucking glorious. Even with a condom on it feels fantastic... somewhat obvious as we're biologically programmed to enjoy it immensely.

Now I'm posting this hoping Lia88 will chime in.
Maybe she'll come on down to Texas, from her posts I'd love to have a "date" with her!

Some of y'all are looking at it all wrong. Escorts offer the opportunity to meet up with beautiful ladies with a sure chance of sex happening. Some of us don't have the time to chase 'em.

Maybe you're not enjoying it because you don't have the right outlook. Treat it like a date. Floss your damn teeth the night before if your nasty ass doesn't floss regularly. Clean yourself up and shower right before the appointment. Go to the gym. Treat her with respect. Ask some questions about her, not only about the hobby or how many dicks she's had. And listen! If you complement her on her looks, give a genuine comment on some feature of hers you like. Just simple Social Interaction 101 stuff.

Facts! I'm planning on it

[imdown2]

I’m certainly not going to read the whole thread but to answer your original question. For myself I find it easier to deal with women here that like to have fun. I move around a lot, always changing my goals and following one dream after another it’s easier to come here and find what I’m looking for. I can have fun and not be asked “what are we?” “Why you can’t call me?” Or even have to deal with a relationship. That and having done this in the time that I have I don’t think I want a relationship anyway, at least not at the moment. This is an easy way to get satisfied and hopefully succeed in satisfying someone else in the same sense. I know I have a problem, I love all types of women, I love sex, and I don’t have any responsibility here besides setting the gift down and enjoy each other in the allotted time.

As far as what I look for, I do need a connection of some sort. After the business part is out the way I don’t want to end up feeling like I’m having sex with a piece of meat or her not enjoying it. I need to hear, feel, and see good emotions too. I try to find and talk to someone before a session to see if we are indeed on the same page. After that everything should flow, shouldn’t have to waste time with an introduction in a session, y’all post everything about you so I like to express about me and maybe learn some more about you before the meet to be completely comfortable after that first hug. This is risky business so I stay away from those that don’t put forth any effort before the sesh.

[imdown2]

I always say “mutual pleasure is money well spent” so I try and strive for it.