Straight male curious about TS play

[ElisabethWhispers]

Thanks for keeping this topic on track ... at least most of you have!

And I tend to agree with what a few people have suggested above.

Another Realm was created by the wonderful owners here to allow for others to have a place to present different wants and desires.

At first, I was nervous about moderating this arena. However, it's important to give validation to those who have desires that some might not understand.

So what I was getting at, and with more coffee the point would have come a bit quicker, is that if these type of topics aren't in your comfort zone, then visit an area of Eccie that is.

There is NO reason to berate anyone for their personal needs,wants and desires especially if they're being done in a safe and sane fashion.

That's all that I wished to add.

Oh, and one more thing. I feel that sexuality is a very fluid experience and desires can and will change over time. This is what happens with men who get a certain age. And females.

Some just wish to try something different. And hurrah for that!!!

Don't most people wish to try what is important to them before they reach an age in which they cannot?

So give others a break who have different views than yours.

That's what makes the world go around!!!

Now, I'll scoot.

Happy Wednesday!
Elisabeth

[Fancylady]

Originally Posted by Bikerjoe337

Ok, recently for some reason I have been sort of fantasizing about a 3 some with a female and a TS. The TS would have to be totally feminine and passable. The fantasy starts out as me watching the other two begin the session with great oral on the female by the TS that goes into 69. At that point I decide to join in with a little DATO on the female while the TS is DATY after a while of that the attention goes to me as the female performs BBBJ on both cocks before the TS joins her in sucking me. Once everyone is super excited it slowly turns into a DP and switch holes so we both get to have fun with both. The ending would be me fucking the TS in doggy while the female and TS are back to 69 as she sucks the TS cock and a little BLS and light rimming on me. Once I'm ready to pop I pull out, remove cover and give them both a little CIM. I would like to broaden my horizons sexually. Anyone here have experience with this? I don't think I would be comfortable with a TS without a female present. Any thoughts on this.

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[Dale Jr.]

Very well put EW. I couldn't agree more. Things change. Tastes change.
Ten years ago I would never in my wildest dreams think of stimulating my prostate to achieve a much more fulfilling orgasm and sexual experience. Now pegging is a big turn on for me.
I have to tell you that Eccie.net has played a big part in the advancement of my sexuality. I have met so many wonderful ladies here who have the experience and expertise to show me a whole other "realm" of possibilities.
And this thread in particular, "Another Realm", has given me so many new insights into exploring new ideas. I couldn't ever imagine these things on my own.
I also applaud you and the staff at Eccie for standing up to the bullies who think it's okay to judge those of us who are interested in growing sexually. If this isn't your cup-of-tea, find somewhere else or something else that is.
Let us feel free to express ourselves.
Thank you Elizabeth.

[katie klark]

Wasnt the whole point of him posting this desire of ts curiosity for others to relate and comfort his obviously secert desires? Who cares if a quote unquote straight male likes to take dick up his ass by a woman that was born a man...different strokes for different folks. Much to often ppls insecurities and lack of confidence or hell there ignorance and stubborn ways keep them from living a more free spirited LIFE! Smh...but i guess we are all intitled to our own opinions and beliefs lol ....AND YES IAM A PRE-OP TRANSEXUAL..

[Bikerjoe337]

Originally Posted by katie klark

Wasnt the whole point of him posting this desire of ts curiosity for others to relate and comfort his obviously secert desires? Who cares if a quote unquote straight male likes to take dick up his ass by a woman that was born a man...different strokes for different folks. Much to often ppls insecurities and lack of confidence or hell there ignorance and stubborn ways keep them from living a more free spirited LIFE! Smh...but i guess we are all intitled to our own opinions and beliefs lol ....AND YES IAM A PRE-OP TRANSEXUAL..

I do not desire taking dick up my ass,as I don't wish to see a TS one on one. I think it would be hot to do a Threesome with a TS and an actual female. Also I don't desire performing orally on a TS. I do have some kinks but I also have limitations. I'm not being ugly at all just expressing my fantasy. Thanks for the response Katie Klark and you would be ideal for this fantasy.

[katie klark]

AWW THANX MUCH LOVE APPRICATED.FUNNY THAT YOU MENTION THE TS ON FEMALE ON GUY..CAUSE IM IN THE PROCESS OF CONSTRUCTING A POSSIBLE 3WAY SEX VID BLOG ONLINE FOR TIPS AND PAY.ETC the idea came from A male hookup buddy of mine.he's a 23 year old with a huge cock and he was telling me how a girl that had a big crush on him was was becoming very annoying to him and so he told her you don't want to mess with me I sleep with men and and I f*** transexuals and so she got really quiet and looked up at him and said wow that's so hot. So he ended up showing her pictures of me and she likes me and she thought I was cute and then you know she was interested in like A3 Way. I just wasn't too much into it but you know I had a hair-brained idea just recently and I was thinking of a way to make money and so I figured why not film it and get paid for it it's like the hottest thing online in the ts section. Lol just thought I'd share that info..but again thank you and I'm ready when ever you are MI amor💝

[micktoz]

This has been mostly a really cool thread. Since I started in the hobby about two years ago, I have been open to a lot of things I had never been able to try. Tied up, flogged, blindfolded, tens stimulation, tease and denial, 11 women (one was stunningly beautiful TS) with 8 men orgy, and several other really exciting sexual activities.

During that orgy, the TS lady gently joined in while I was pounding one of the other ladies and it was incredibly arousing. Since then I've been uncertain whether I would enjoy one on one time with her. She does play with women in threesomes etc. I am thinking I will try a session with her and a lady that we are both comfortable with. The TS lady is really cool and understanding.
The thing is, I've never gotten a hard on thinking about sex with a man. That's my definition of whether I am straight, gay or bi. But,the idea playing with a genetic woman and a TS that enjoys women too really excites me.I guess I'll see if it works for me.

I don't have that strange fear and prejudice that a lot of people have. It is about how I react in real time to the stimulation. Just like I've tried prostate play and it didn't work for me. I can't tell if this would work till I try it.
How cool is this board.

[finman56]

Here is the thing some people can not grasp. Just because I may like a FEMININE looking TS, does not mean I am gay. Dudes do nothing for me. I have no desire to see some guys hairy asshole. The turn on for me of a TS is they look, act, and feel like a woman. Equipment is immaterial.

[GregJM]

Originally Posted by finman56

Here is the thing some people can not grasp. Just because I may like a FEMININE looking TS, does not mean I am gay. Dudes do nothing for me. I have no desire to see some guys hairy asshole. The turn on for me of a TS is they look, act, and feel like a woman. Equipment is immaterial.

That is exactly how I feel. Usually I prefer pussy but I can also get turned on by a feminine TS girl.

[ElisabethWhispers]

Originally Posted by finman56

Here is the thing some people can not grasp. Just because I may like a FEMININE looking TS, does not mean I am gay. Dudes do nothing for me. I have no desire to see some guys hairy asshole. The turn on for me of a TS is they look, act, and feel like a woman. Equipment is immaterial.

Originally Posted by GregJM

That is exactly how I feel. Usually I prefer pussy but I can also get turned on by a feminine TS girl.

Does anyone here read Savage Love? It's an advice column written by Dan Savage and I'm a huge fan.

He wrote the best article explaining TS's, heterosexuality, etc. (He is an open gay man)

He has written, and this is what I believe, that only heterosexual men visit transsexuals. And that if gay men wish to see men dressed up, that is where the drag queens come in.

Savage presented his argument better than I have, but the above is the gist of it.

Every. Single. Man that I've visited that has been interested in TS girls are straight. That's just my opinion. Maybe they're a tad heteroflexible. I might could go with that ... but it's the whole "female" thing, with a cock, that is appealing.

I get it. I'm just not good at trying to explain those feelings.

Just thought that I'd present a little something more.

EW

[Elliana]

I think you've explained things very well. I got a giggle out of HETEROFLEXIBLE! It is amazing how beautiful some TS girls are.

[Fancylady]

Originally Posted by Elliana

I think you've explained things very well. I got a giggle out of HETEROFLEXIBLE! It is amazing how beautiful some TS girls are.

I agree amazing how beautiful some TS girls are...

[soxfan]

A femine ts girl can be extremely hot!! A fantasy of mutual oral then doing her from behind and giving her a reach around intrigues me a lot!!

[Bikerjoe337]

Ok, went ahead and contacted a beautiful passable ts. My curiosity is cured, after a few nice texts back and forth and letting her know I have never had the experience. She said ok when do you want to meet. We set a time and I asked about her rates and it was a flat rate but really high for me at the moment and stated that I'd have to confirm again before the set appointment. Then the drama ensued. She began texting me one after another telling me to go find a man in a wig in a motel six and contract HIV. Well that fixed my curiosity since she took me saying that I'll confirm as rejection. I assured her that she was well worth her rate but it was just out of my range and then respectfully declined. She continued her rant until I blocked the number. No TS for me if I want that much drama I'll just piss off the wife.

[The Big Kahuna]

Originally Posted by katie klark

Wasnt the whole point of him posting this desire of ts curiosity for others to relate and comfort his obviously secert desires? Who cares if a quote unquote straight male likes to take dick up his ass by a woman that was born a man...different strokes for different folks. Much to often ppls insecurities and lack of confidence or hell there ignorance and stubborn ways keep them from living a more free spirited LIFE! Smh...but i guess we are all intitled to our own opinions and beliefs lol ....AND YES IAM A PRE-OP TRANSEXUAL..

You are beautiful and I would love to spend some time with you the next time I am in the DFW.